I am 31 years old and I am a virgin. I am 171 cm tall, with glasses, I walk well dressed in a sporty-elegant style: jeans, pants, jackets, bags, scarves, summer shorts, etc. shirts, T-shirts, epilated and everything fashionable that is worn, smartphone, etc. I love nature and travel, many girls have liked me so far, but when it comes to intimacy, I either give up or they cut me. When it comes to meeting and going out they refuse or if we go out I don't take the first step, I keep quiet, I'm ashamed and I'm bored and nothing happens. If I invite little girls, they are 10. -15 years younger than me and they obviously understand that I have no experience but I fall in love with them, I draw them, gifts, I make jokes and nonsense, I drool, compliments, I give and they start to they make fun of my feelings and discuss with their colleagues, wink at each other, laugh, which sucks terribly for me. When I invite them, they tell me I can't go out with you today, they don't give me their phone number, and it turns out that they either have a friend or they cut me on purpose. By that logic, there is no girl who has never had a boyfriend. I can't tell the difference and the border from a joke and who you like even though they flirt with me, look at me, catch our eyes, look me straight in the eye, follow me with their eyes and smile at me. I don't like going to discos because I don't drink, I don't smoke, I can't dance, and all the girls smoke, I only go to cafes and I've been studying so far. I don't go to parties or companies either because I'm afraid they will make fun of me there. I don't go to the gym either, because they will laugh at me when they see how thin and weak I am. I don't have a car, but I have a house. I have no young friends, I hang out with older 45 -50- 60 year olds, I'm not the opposite. I have the feeling that I am a person behind a mask - I pretend to be open, but then they understand that this is not the case and I have been masturbating since I was 12 years old. A lot of people have advised me like "go to a prostitute and catch a bitch to open you up", or "Look for modest girls on internet dating sites" or working in shops in my city. I have the feeling that I am deluding myself that there are modest girls. I apologize for the expression, but I think all women are bitches, or so it has been with me so far, or I have not come across the right girl to accept me as I am. I've read all kinds of sites for dumps like "Pickup art", dating sites, fashion, etc. Is it possible that I'm wearing glasses or is it from a height, that I am short, although I had a classmate who was quite tall and still alone even now and a shorter one who turned all the boyfriends. Please help with accurate and correct advice, I don't know what to do anymore, I'm very desperate… ..
1 thebubbacub answered
Now I don't understand - what do you want - a woman for sex (this is the category of your story), or a relationship with a woman? You can always get rid of your virginity with a professional for BGN 100-200. I strongly recommend it to you, because elite prostitutes have experience, will predispose you and there will be no blunders, and even if there are - you pay. There are otherwise very modest girls, but they also do not want to be with an insecure and complex man. Until you fight your complexes, you will not find a girl. You are not just a friend to others and you do not like yourself - how do you want a woman to like you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something for your body and soul, because you will not find a woman to do it for you. We all have our problems and we are looking for a partner, support in life, not domestic puppies to take care of. Who would want to start a family with someone like you? You will probably be ashamed not to be mocked when you get married, what will you do if you decide to have a child. You will raise him to be just as insecure, you will wait for your wife to be "modest" and you will limit her. Who will be able to withstand your grumbling and self-pity at first ... this is your tragedy - you didn't just find a fool. You will not find. You only have ONE WAY OUT - change.