The boy in question is 4 years older than me. He was my neighbor, we've known each other for 5 years, I thought he was a friend and I thought I was one too. At the time, my "girlfriend" said you fell for her, but she didn't like him. Then he started various jokes on Skype, thinking that they were just kidding (2 years ago it was winter). Then, in the summer, he started looking for me very often, but I already found out about his feelings, but I didn't. Because I felt like a friend, I didn't want to hurt him by telling him and so on ... we continued until little by little I started to like him. And he did not dare to admit to me all that I already knew from his hints and from what he had shared with our common "girlfriend." He acted only through messages and various songs with which he greeted me. It so happened that he had to travel and there he met his new friends, who didn't like me very much. In an effort to please them, he began to behave quite differently. He has changed since he met them and listened to them about everything. We drove like that for a year. Shortly before Christmas, we were arguing about something. After that we didn't talk for 2 months, during which it was my birthday. It was then the perfect opportunity to apologize to me and make things right, but he didn't. I was terribly offended that he didn't respect me on my birthday, then we deleted ourselves from Skype. On February 14, he added me again to congratulate me on the holiday. Then we got along, but not for long there were quarrels again. He wrote to others on dating sites while talking to me. I told him three months ago that I didn't like it, and he asked what to do so as not to be angry with me, I replied, "to change" he answered me "ok", and the next day he did not say a word to me. A few days later I asked if this was the change and he told me "where is it in you" Then we quarreled again and stopped talking ... A few days ago I wrote to him quite normally, as a friend, and I asked him why he didn't write, he didn't call how he was, and he replied that he didn't want to because I was jealous and nagging. And so far he continues with these songs on his profile and everywhere. Why did he suddenly stop everything like that? And when I try to talk it doesn't work ... I wonder if I should try to talk again or not ask someone to help .. Thanks in advance! A few days later I asked if this was the change and he told me "where is it in you"? Then we quarreled again and stopped talking ... A few days ago I wrote to him quite normally, as a friend, and I asked him why he didn't write, he didn't call how he was, and he replied that he didn't want to because I was jealous and nagging. And so far he continues with these songs on his profile and everywhere. Why did he suddenly stop everything like that? And when I try to talk it doesn't work ... I'm wondering if I should try to talk again or not ask someone to help .. Thanks in advance! A few days later I asked if this was the change and he told me "where is it in you"? Then we quarreled again and stopped talking ... A few days ago I wrote to him quite normally, as a friend, and I asked him why he didn't write, he didn't call how he was, and he replied that he didn't want to because I was jealous and nagging. And so far he continues with these songs on his profile and everywhere. Why did he suddenly stop everything like that? And when I try to talk it doesn't work ... I'm wondering if I should try to talk again or not ask someone to help .. Thanks in advance! And so far he continues with these songs on his profile and everywhere. Why did he suddenly stop everything like that? And when I try to talk it doesn't work ... I'm wondering if I should try to talk again or not ask someone to help .. Thanks in advance! And so far he continues with these songs on his profile and everywhere. Why did he suddenly stop everything like that? And when I try to talk it doesn't work ... I'm wondering if I should try to talk again or not ask someone to help .. Thanks in advance!
1 sharonsmith2 answered
Well darling, tell him that you want everything to be the same as before, tell him that you don't want to quarrel with him because you appreciate him a lot :) I hope you get better :)