A Relationship Without Satisfaction?

In my opinion, this relationship must end as soon as possible. I had such a relationship and years later it started killing me. I had no choice but to start cheating and he caught me and I hurt him a lot that way. but I had no choice. Every woman needs sex. This is a very important thing and you should not underestimate it. Separate as friends. You need a man who sees you in your underwear and immediately throws you in the bedroom. rather than preferring to masturbate. It is not normal. I know. that you have built a lot. but imagine living this way all your life without sex? It will affect your nerves first. You will become a nervous aunt in years. It affects hormones. You will wrinkle earlier than your colleagues and friends. You will be more unhappy without orgasms and you will reach infidelity and you will wonder how to hide. Finish on time better.

I guess that if he improves his diet and starts drinking some herbs, if he starts training with weights or with his own weight, this will improve his hormonal profile and increase his desire for sex. Now to the various women there who claim that men want sex and women platonic love - stop writing such nonsense and exposing yourself, you can see for yourself that the situation is exactly the opposite.

There is no way you will give up this wonderful person, just ask him for a child to pity you and make you live so happy in the old days.

You're crazy! The man prefers jerks and porn, perhaps, rather than enjoying his partner, to give her pleasure. I would not tolerate this thing in any case, in a relationship if you start to lack sex, everything is lost. Yes, sex is not the most important, but it is very important! I have been living with my boyfriend of 4 years and if we don't have sex for a few days, he always starts asking me what's going on. My advice is to end your relationship if your love will change

Maybe he suffers from porn addiction and does not feel the desire for normal sex. Porn acts as a drug for the human brain (especially the male), if in larger quantities, the person loses the desire for normal sexual relations, as it is much easier to post a video on the Internet than to try to have sex. in real life. You can search the internet for porn problems and what can be done to solve the problem, but if he does not have the will to make an effort to change, you have nothing to do.

I did it too. My problem was porn addiction. I thought I could do both together, but I was tired of masturbating and had no desire for the woman. You have to make him stop the masturbation

First, I want to say that I fully understand how you feel! I have had this problem too. What he listed as options for solving the problem really didn't work for me either. Eventually, a circle of tension is created, which becomes more and more suffocating - he has no desire for sex, you feel rejected / unwanted and distance yourself (even unconsciously), this pushes him away from sex even more, and you get even angrier. more ... It is clear that the problem is not physical, but psychological. You mentioned that you are together at work and at home. However, you did not mention the extent to which you spend your free time together - when you are not at home. From my own experience, I can say that I think this "stickiness" kills the thrill between partners. It was something similar for me. The feeling of being constantly with a person and not having a moment alone can be quite stressful. I have two suggestions: 1) My fears in cohabitation have always been that my partner does not perceive me as a housewife, as a given or almost as a mother (because life together presupposes the fulfillment of certain household duties that his mother once performed)? That's why I tried to escape from such roles. What I did was spend more time outside with other people. I tried to have more "my life" - things I do without it, just for myself - hobbies, sports, entertainment, interests. Do you do any of the above alone or with friends? 2) Since your partner likes to masturbate, why don't you offer him to do it in front of you? I don't know how much you like such an idea, but it's not unusual at all, in my opinion. Another issue is that he may not want to. And what do you think about it, you do it, but so that he "catches" you? Really, I'm just guessing, because you didn't give a lot of details about how liberated you are.

I'm sorry, but this man doesn't have sex at all. I haven't read the previous topics to you, but from what I read, it is clear to me that this is complete harassment. You are 23 years old if you are with such a man, what will you do at 33, when a woman's libido is strongest. Start looking for another serious relationship in parallel. With a normal, sexy person. This is not a sexual gram. Do you realize that even if he cheated on you, he would still have sex with you. I don't know why women get complex and look for the reason in them. It's not in the woman. I don't know why he decided to masturbate at the first opportunity. Did he tell you, how do you know he masturbates regularly.

I can't imagine how I would prefer porn to a woman I find attractive. If you are boyfriends, then he likes you, otherwise why should he hang out with you. And in this situation, will you prefer porn to you? Nachi, if he were my son, I would cut off his dick.

Thanks to everyone who commented and especially for the serious and sincere opinions .. really for the first time I feel understanding in what situation I am, because understandably I do not feel good to share with people close to me about this problem. Regarding the addiction to porn, I don't think that's exactly the case because he masturbates without playing videos. My guess is that he is too lazy for sex and when we talked he always told me that there is no problem in me and that he does not know why this happens, it is just easier for him to release the tension in 1-2 minutes instead of 20 minutes to change positions. .. which of course makes me feel terrible, but I can't get there to ask him for sex. Regarding hobbies, I play sports regularly and more and more often I go out alone and I prefer to give this time apart, but it wasn't like that before and we haven't been apart for more than an hour for a whole month. at the moment I am doing my best not to .. he would never agree to watch him masturbate in this regard is not so liberated. I am aware that I do it too, until recently I did not feel the desire to masturbate at all, but somehow in order to make him feel the way I feel, I started to do it and I do not hide it. He's okay with that because he does it too and he can't attack me because I don't push him away and when he wants he gets sex .. the whole situation bothers me not so much because of one fuck and purely physical pleasure as about what effect it has on self-esteem me and my emotional state. It's hard for me to be in a relationship that has everything but passion and fire, I don't feel wanted, I don't feel attractive, I don't feel like a woman. We are young, we have no children, we have no serious commitments and problems, no financial difficulties or other dramas in life, and I cannot justify this attitude with anything. Maybe he is not in love with me anymore, but he is with me out of affection, respect, etc.? We tell ourselves that we love each other, but isn't this love more friendly since there is no sexual attraction?

Woman is created to seduce and tempt. Be warmly provocative, seduce him if he does not show interest after a few attempts try something else. If you care about him without knowing, look at the history of the browser in his computer (as if you have to check something, electricity bills, for example), what exactly he likes in porn, what videos he watches. But be careful and delicate, you still interfere in a man's personal space. In sex there must be thrill, attraction, love and not just an animal gratification. Talk to him if this does not work and avoids the topic, then somehow you lost him as an intimate partner and became his sister, mother. Good luck.

All men are to blame, what can we say when there are a lot of women who are 'cold' like a tree in bed and men lose the desire for sex or always have a headache. Put the slut in action. Who knows, it may happen that while watching porn together you have sex and tease who wants what and how he wants it. Love each other.

You are at work and at home together and you wonder why he doesn't want you? It's called boredom. Many women do not understand it, but with us men, it is usually so .. You are in front of his eyes 24/7, what kind of sex are you talking about.

Your husband probably needs a little variety. Unfortunately, it happens to us after a few years with the same woman.