Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. I've been lying to everyone since elementary school. I didn't "go" every night to ice skating lessons, I wasn't in Disney Land and the like. Well, yes, but I grew, and so did my lies. A black belt in a martial art that I practiced for 3 months when I was 3 (for example) and so lie after lie I started when someone asked me something, the lie came to my mind first. I say it quite often because I don't care about explaining my life, and I don't want to. Today I can't say that I relax in front of anyone to tell him what's going on around me, I keep everything to myself and no one understands why I'm being mean to strangers, for example, but of course it's only my fault . I'm a closed person, I have friends, but I prefer to hear about their lives, than to talk about mine. Recently something bad happened to my thing and I lied again, so it became clear after day two that I was lying and I promised not to do it again, but I know very well that I will not be able to keep my promise. I'm not from a poor family to lie and steal to survive, but I'm a divorced child, not that it ever bothered me. I am very ashamed of my actions. I don't know how our people can still trust me. If anyone has advice for me, let them share, and I accept any criticism, etc. I don't know how our people can still trust me. If anyone has advice for me, let them share, and I accept any criticism, etc. I don't know how our people can still trust me. If anyone has advice for me, let them share, and I accept any criticism, etc.
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This is dangerous. In time, you will start to deceive yourself and you will become completely entangled. It is important to answer the questions for yourself: where does this need to lie come from and does it really help you with something ?? It can get you out of a situation, but for yourself, as a person, does it help you ?? Be aware of yourself! There is also nothing wrong or embarrassing about turning to a specialist. Why don't you show courage and go to a psychologist? You understand that this is a problem, and now find out how to solve it. Good luck!