A Man To Take Down Women Everywhere

   Hello! I don't think that's true. According to my observations, normal girls are of two types - high and low self-esteem. The first type, who have high self-esteem, would not afford to take down anyone. After all, they are the beauties, let the men take them down. The second type - those with low, would NEVER go. They already have complexes. Even if they wanted to, they would not go to take down a man / accidentally in the bar /, simply because they are afraid of being cut off. Ie and I support your theory that if he were just a handsome man, no normal woman would go to propose to him. Most to try eye flirting or something. Of course, the first thing a person notices is his appearance. And I, as a woman, can say that when I make any acquaintance, my first thought is whether the other person is attractive. This is normal for both sexes. After the acquaintance follows the stage of acquaintance. For me, there is the truth. I do not have specific criteria for men. I don't have a specific type. I never desperately looked for a friend. Things have always happened by themselves. Just to add that you sound like an intelligent and educated person. I can't explain why you failed women. I wish you success and I hope I was useful G24

   I tend to agree with you, the situations mentioned sound somehow unreal. Undoubtedly, however, there are people, both men and women, who attract more attention than anyone else. They just have charisma, something specific in themselves, pure as a vision. But even if they are offered to him left and right to this young man, I can't believe it. I have never witnessed such a thing. I think the author has greatly exaggerated things.

   I had such a friend (boyfriend) years ago, it's very real, author. He hadn't taken women down in his life, they kept taking them down, and he was lazy in relationships, so everyone dumped him after a while. But he sleeps with women on the first date - regularly, and to this day. It's like a magnet for chicks.: DDD of charm or artistry (not for older women = instability). He presents himself in society as an idealist, earthy, unpretentious, cheerful and stable, but in fact he is not - the important thing is that women perceive him that way, because this film projects them. I will not explain what a freak he is, because that is not the subject of my writing. ; ) This idiot made wild ladybugs all, and to this day it is so, but still feels like unhappy in love. : DDDD Pleasant vision some positive qualities (even if they are not real) interesting hobbies / activities, sports = boom

   Dude, my sister is in the tenth grade at an elite school, and sometimes I drive to pick her up, and while I'm waiting nearby, there's no such horror! Apart from the fact that they look like underage prostitutes, their main topics are which ones whistled and which Micheto from the next class let Pesho behind and which boyfriend she shrank. They suck on cigarettes and look around like hyenas. Furious smokers see me hanging out there to pick up the kid, and so far two ducks have come to me to join their company while the other hens giggle. I keep swimming and look ok overall. In high school, all the boys were obsessed with the geography intern, and we were such nerds that it wasn't worth talking about. However, we made absurd attempts to take it down, I was convulsing with shame when I remembered. Current high school students, boys and girls, are 300 times more open and cocky and a student will eat it with the parachutes lol. Look for Jeremy Meex, allegedly declared the sexiest criminal, and look at the women's comments below his photos from the arrest. I suppose that would answer your question about appearance and its influence on ladies to some extent. Otherwise, I was attacked by drunken women in restaurants. Wagging, ridiculous dances with pressure and insistent looks, which makes me super funny. They were all ugly if it mattered. which makes me super funny. They were all ugly if it mattered. which makes me super funny. They were all ugly if it mattered.

   For me personally, it is important for a man to be attractive, intelligent and self-confident. As she mentioned 3 - charming, artistic. To have a rich soul, to be creative, original, to be the exact opposite of an earthly type of person, because I am such a person, meaning I am not an earthly type of person at all. Not to be depressed, to be optimistic and positive, not to grumble about politics and everyday life and in general not to spray malice and envy for this and that ... It is important for me to fit on a spiritual level, because that's how sex is even better and in general the communication itself is better. I don't like power types and types. The money can come back, let's not say where. I just don't like their nature. By the way, I also know such men, to whom women literally melt just by listening to their voices and watching them smile, in their eyes,

   My ex-boyfriend was something like what you described. A lot of girls tried to fish him, some brazen enough even in front of me. For example, there was a duck, my friend and I were sitting on a bench in front of us in the evening, but we just sat and talked, laughed, we were not hugged just then and this one was supposedly walking the dog, but came to meet him. Now that I think about it, I was also very attracted to his appearance

   I am a woman. I know a man to whom women are literally offered. At a company banquet or party, 3-4 beautiful young women go around him and fight for his attention. They pretend to "talk" to each other and constantly touch him, throw sex hints, artificially delay to wait for him, flirt, some even more shamelessly. And let me tell you, there's a reason. Not only appearance, although there the boy has hit 6 of the lottery - the whole combination is. Very attractive, in a good position, without imposing his power and superiority in any way, from a good family, with a sense of humor, responsible, leader, stubborn, treats others with respect and at least until recently was relatively monogamous (had a girlfriend). He started flirting after their separation, before that he was restrained with women. So yes - there are such men. I am also annoyed by the women who literally offer themselves to him. I believe that there should be a few pull-pushes in the dump. The man to show interest, the woman to answer. Thus, the man invests time and feelings to get to know the woman and has a better chance to stay for a long time than if she just falls into his arms. But, alive and well!

   I saw the other topic, I saw that you asked the same questions there, I also saw that your lady answered what attracts her to the young man. Here number 3 also answered you in great detail and gave an assessment of the individual "I will not explain what a freak it is, because this is not the subject of my writing.;) This idiot made wild ladybugs all, and to this day it is so, but he always feels unhappy in love. "- do you want to be like him? You say you're 38, why do all the women stick to you, isn't it enough for one to appreciate you and not want to look at another? I also do not consider myself very busy among women, but I never set a goal to sleep with anyone who is ready to let me go, on the contrary, I refused many more times than I was denied (more precisely, showed that nothing will happen). I do not think, that I have lost something from my refusals, on the contrary, I am glad that I did not give up hope, because most women are looking for a relationship, not just sex for one night - someone here wrote "women give sex to get love, men give love for to get sex ". In short, the more important question is how to keep a woman, not how to win 10 for one night. At 38, you should have already found the right person for you and not care that there are those who have a new one every week - I personally do not envy them and although it took a long time I will tell you why. No man can show his full capacity for a day, two, a month - no one, especially a woman can reveal their sexuality with just one fuck. Let's not lie that the first intimate contact is more than just fucking, the situation is similar in the next few times, only later begins the real acquaintance, the discovery of the erogenous zones of the partner, the discovery of their own erogenous points, later you begin to pay attention to the mouth, eyes, body movements - there is no way to describe in 5 words all the pleasure you can to experience with a person you have been with for 5-6 months and more. So to your question, YES there are individuals to whom they cling, but firstly it does not happen without effort on their part, secondly there is no reason to envy them because you do not know what complexes they kill, thirdly for me these are one-dayers, people focused get only on your ego and potential loners. body movements - there is no way to describe in 5 words all the pleasure you can experience with a person with whom you are 5-6 months or more. So to your question, YES there are such individuals who cling to them, but firstly it does not happen without effort on their part, secondly there is no reason to envy them because you do not know what complexes they kill, thirdly for me these are one-dayers, people focused get only on your ego and potential loners. body movements - there is no way to describe in 5 words all the pleasure you can experience with a person you have been with for 5-6 months or more. So to your question, YES there are individuals to whom they cling, but firstly it does not happen without effort on their part, secondly there is no reason to envy them because you do not know what complexes they kill, thirdly for me these are one-dayers, people focused get only on your ego and potential loners.

   It is quite possible and I have seen such cases with my own eyes. Precisely because of the appearance. Just look at some not-so-famous handsome man's social media profiles and comments below them. Not all women want fame, money and power from a man, some do not want it at all, and others achieve it themselves! However, a handsome man, like a beautiful woman (although beauty is quite subjective for everyone) attracts attention. However, it seems unrealistic for me to always be so intrusive, there are such daring women, but in most cases it is strange for me to offer sex in the right way, for example. So it may indeed be a bit exaggerated, but I'm telling you it's possible! Julian

   In the period 18-21 years I moved with a group with predominant ITs. As we know, this is one of the few prosperous sectors in the country, known for its good pay. Even then, they received salaries of BGN 2,000 and up - cars, motorcycles, trips abroad and a standard of living well above the average for our country. Nice boys, but unfortunately, ugly bellies, short, balding at 25. Do you know who we were all crazy about and who enjoyed the increased female attention? A strong and slender boy with long hair, deep colorful eyes and a very nice face. An unrealized historian and general worker in a workshop near Sofia with a salary of BGN 700 per month. ;) Nobody cared about power, money, position and other clichés. A literate woman can make her own money, influence and position. Those who rely on their spouse for this, they make me feel sorry for them. Separately, the group you are talking about are very young girls in the range of 15-20 years, not for mature women. What are we discussing then? !! Author, I think you have a bit of an outdated view of the role of women or you move with more conservative and closed people. I'm in my 30s, I recently got married, but when I was the age of the girls you're talking about, none of what was written was foreign to me. I've never offered sex directly, but initiating an acquaintance and being the first to seek contact with a man I like was perfectly normal for me. I took down a gentleman whose wife was sitting across a table. It may sound immoral to some, but why should I care? I'm just looking for fun and interest, third parties don't concern me. Later we became lovers. My husband and I also took the first step. Years later, he admitted to me that out of anxiety, he would never speak to me. For God's sake, people, we are in the 21st century! The order of the past is quite blurred, you see what crazy trends are occurring in gender relations. What amazes you so much about open schoolgirls and wasteful young women?

   I am the author: Thanks to those who wrote above. An interesting topic came up. I did not intend to describe much about myself and my problems, but I still decided to say some things because your comments also contain some questions for me. For example, №1 says that I look intelligent and educated, and why I am not so successful with women. №8 says - why in these years I get excited about such topics. №10 - there is conservatism in me. What about the appearance of men ... I was a very anxious and shy child from an early age. I had a hard time adapting to school, kindergarten. I have always had low self-esteem, I have been indecisive. Inferiority complexes .... over the years, in the upper grades of school I began to become more sociable and later I socialized significantly, I had and still have enough friends and contacts with people. I go out, I have fun. I studied a lot, I completed two higher educations. But I never overcame the complexes regarding women. There have been situations over the years where girls have put me in a situation where they clearly like me. / I do not say in any case that it is like these situations described in the topic / Other people have even told me / I remember 3-4 such cases / that someone likes me. But in such cases I have always been very embarrassed and just withdraw from the situation. But - along with all the complexes, I have NEVER had a complex about my appearance. I haven't thought much about it, but I think I look good. I am 176 cm tall. I am 75 - 76 kg. I'm not fat at all, but I'm not very skinny. Normally developed physique. My eyes are colorful - green, dark brown hair. I have the right traits, I have no scars or anything like that. I've been the same weight since I was a soldier 20 years ago. I have not followed any special diets, that is my nature. I haven't trained in fitness, but I run a lot, I often do hiking. I am resistant to walking, running. I'm usually told that I look ten years younger than I am. As for my failures with women - I have always thought that the problems are in my character, complexes, insecurity. I think these things are felt through body language, for example. There are other nasty problems with me. For example - I do not have a separate home, and the issue of land for sex is also a deterrent. For example, three or four months ago I was late at night in a restaurant with two friends. There was a boy and a girl at the next table. The boy left, it was obviously their first meeting and it didn't work out. Then my friends invited the girl to us. She came and after a while my friends left, and I was left alone with her. We talked 15-20 minutes of general talk about the fact that we studied at the same university, she was 7-8 years younger than me. And then she quickly changed the subject and asked me where I lived, if I had a private room. I say yes, but my father, mother and sister are also at home. So he asks - can't we go there now, to your room. He says - it doesn't happen there. It's not convenient. I tell her to exchange phones, to see each other another time (I also drank a lot of alcohol). Then she got angry, reproached me for giving up easily, and that's how it ended. This is an example that the terrain is also important, but I don't have it. And when I read these opinions here about how certain people get stuck all the time because of their looks, I said to myself, well, maybe I'm wrong, I may look bad for some reason. Of course, in such an anonymous forum there is no way to see who is how beautiful, it is subjective. So even as a joke I said to myself - you see, if the problem during all these years was not where I did not suspect, not to turn out to be ugly and there is a reason / I say this with a bit of irony, but also there may be some truth. So ...

   Completely strangers sat at my table to meet me, lit my cigarette at the disco, and I had many other incidents. Most regularly, someone told me that someone liked me and wanted to meet me! The most striking case was when my company and I were sitting in a restaurant and one of the friends of my acquaintances called me to hold her bag in front of the toilet, and when she came out she "attacked" me with kisses, explaining to me that restrained, and I dizzy heaven wondered what was going on :) :) I was neither famous nor had money! Well, a lot of years have passed since then!

   A little more from the author - About appearance. I've had a lot of harassment in my life, not only with the lack of women, but others - that I didn't make a career, that I didn't make a lot of money. But at least that's what I've always been spared - to think about whether I'm beautiful or ugly. I just think I look good, decent, without claiming to be a model. I remember a case from about three years ago. We were a lot of people at a big party. There were all sorts, and those of my parents' age. A close friend of mine, who knew most of them, told me something curious. For one of these older couples, the man had remarked to his wife that she looked at me a lot. The woman in question asked my friend about me. what I am, what I am, I was very nice and I looked like the actor Ashton Kutcher. I was curious, and I found this actor on the internet. I didn't know it until then. But I have already forgotten what it was, really the appearance does not complicate me enough to remember these things. I don't know if it's a compliment or an insult to liken you to Ashton Kutcher ... Years ago I worked in one place. I had a colleague my age, she is not beautiful at all, but she is very charming and warm, and she attracted me a lot with her radiance. I was very wrapped up, everyone knew. I had already left that job, and one evening we were at a pub with her and another colleague. We got drunk. And at one point neither in a wedge nor in a sleeve she shouts - "If my sister was here, she wouldn't look at you, my sister and I love rude men, you don't have a single rough facial feature. I won't fuck you", my she shouts. I've seen her husband. He's really very crooked and ugly in the face. I had fun then. I was angry with her not because she didn't want me, but that she, who is not beautiful, and I never told her anything about my appearance, she attacked me so brazenly for mine, But come on, we were drunk ... Here's an example that no you need to be "beautiful". Number 10 says I must be conservative. I do not know. can. But there is something else - not from our generations, but something eternal. Both psychologists and researchers of animal communities have said that what females achieve with their beauty, males with their status. the better placed in the animal group, or human society the male, the more arouses and attracts the females. These are not my inventions. Sumati psychologists, anthropologists claim this. For example, in English for female and male beauty there are two separate words - beautyfull for a woman and handsom for a man. Because it's really different. In the other topic, which provoked me to release this one, the lady says of her ubiquitous young man that he looks like the young Leonardo DiCaprio. My respects to the great talent of this actor, but he is just femininely beautiful, not masculine, does not radiate strength and respect. This is his beautyfull. It's super weird for such a guy to attract a lot of women. But I may not feel things right, I may not say in the least that I am sinless. See how ugly and fat and crooked men have super cool chicks. This is how it works, in my opinion, with masculine and dominant behavior. I have always thought and thought that the problems with me are not at all in appearance, but in the huge indecision, complexes, complete lack of action towards women on my part. Lack of housing, insufficient money. But I say again - when I read here, I decided if I was wrong. Why wasn't I so taken down and liked by women. Maybe it's because of my appearance. So I posted this topic and will be happy to read what you think about male "beauty" Sorry for the long comment. Question number 12. Well, well done, I would very much like to be like you, but life is not a concert of choice. My question is - are you beautiful, how do you attract them?

   Author, after reading your comment I came to the conclusion that you have much deeper problems than your appearance. Insecure, problematic, unable to communicate with women, shy and at 40 still living with your parents and probably unable to take responsibility. Work on being independent and a little more open and you will significantly improve your chances among women.

   Author, do not be misled - you are lucky that you are not tied to the patchwork, which after 20 minutes of conversation was ready to fuck. It is not your own home that is a problem, but the restraints and boundaries that you set for yourself. I know someone who got an apartment at the age of about 50, before that you had no idea how many fools he had fucked in hotels and motels. I even think that the lack of his own land was a very convenient excuse for him not to deal with someone he didn't like, imagine someone you don't like in bed, but then hang out in front of your apartment for days, yes ring, knock at night, throw stones at your window. The difference between you and the person in question is that he is omnivorous, he does not choose whether she is a lawyer, whether she is a washerwoman, whether she is married, whether she is divorced, young, old - perhaps the only important thing was for the woman to have a pleasant vision, but you know that this is too relative, most of those with whom he was not provoke me in any way. There is no way I can give you advice because I myself am not one of the downloaders, much less omnivorous, but think about a separate accommodation, it is not normal for me to be with mom and dad until this age (without offending, I say it in good faith and with a dose of recommendation). For me, an acceptable option is to go to a woman with your own home or to share the rent together - I don't know your financial situation, but think about independence, first-time accommodation or a home for rent. but think about a separate accommodation, it is not normal for me to be with mom and dad until this age (without taking offense, I say it in good faith and with a dose of recommendation). For me, an acceptable option is to go to a woman with your own home or to share the rent together - I don't know your financial situation, but think about independence, first-time accommodation or a home for rent. but think about a separate accommodation, it is not normal for me to be with mom and dad until this age (without taking offense, I say it in good faith and with a dose of recommendation). For me, an acceptable option is to go to a woman with your own home or to share the rent together - I don't know your financial situation, but think about independence, first-time accommodation or a home for rent.

   I've always been interested and a little annoyed by why ladies have 3 times more pretensions than gentlemen. I can't understand that. I will be glad to hear the woman's opinion. Otherwise, I fall into the category of boys / men who are idealists in terms of love, and I am somewhat looking for the girl of my life. Well done to the Author for the interesting topic. And I think he's pretty intelligent. From a male point of view, I would tell him that the complex with women is overcome with more contact with women. Not just sexual. My little brother has always been a magnet for the Cats, but that never made me jealous or jealous of him. He just has an aura. Nice day :))

   Author, you are narrow-minded in this regard and you think that there is only one truth - women look at power, money, cars, etc. All of them. Up to one. There are no others. And because a man like Leonardo DiCaprio looks feminine and slimy to you, you decide that it's the same for the opposite sex. It's not. Personally, I like this type of men - they look both innocent and sweet, and they have something devilish and dirty in their eyes. My leagues are flowing. Like not all men, they like ladies with big breasts and asses, although this type of women is considered the "most suitable" to take their children out, if we talk at the primary level. There are billions of women in this world, and although a really satisfied percentage match what you describe (no one disputes that), there are those for whom other factors are leading. Maybe you haven't come across such, but I haven't come across your type ... I just have nowhere to meet them. The environment, the places we go to, our experience and so on are certainly radically different. My whole environment is made up of artistically-minded people - fine arts, music, photography, literature - liberated (yes, sexually too, which is why frivolous behavior comes from), blown away, some terribly pretentious, massively in good financial condition (mostly wealthy parents) and still very young to be interested in serious relationships, security, etc. The opinion you have about women is largely true for ladies your age. If they are alone and chasing the last train, it is natural for them to look for a stable man with a profession and decent opportunities with whom they can start a family. The newlyweds will be for lovers and short sexual adventures. However, the age referred to in the other topic, is much lower and devoid of the problems that mature women have. Supposedly from schoolgirls to final year students. Above you were given an example of a manly man who is terribly handsome without the girlish radiance. Now, thanks to the moans, groans and admirations of all sorts of females, by an unknown owner of an illegal weapon, she has become a model with a million and a half followers on Instagram. Why? How did a very ordinary poor quality photo turn his life upside down? Where are the influence, machismo and immeasurable wealth? I think they are in his perfect cheekbones and killer eyes. :) from an unknown owner of an illegal weapon, became a model with a million and a half followers on Instagram. Why? How did a very ordinary poor quality photo turn his life upside down? Where are the influence, machismo and immeasurable wealth? I think they are in his perfect cheekbones and killer eyes. :) from an unknown owner of an illegal weapon, became a model with a million and a half followers on Instagram. Why? How did a very ordinary poor quality photo turn his life upside down? Where are the influence, machismo and immeasurable wealth? I think they are in his perfect cheekbones and killer eyes. :)

   From the author. Number 14, of course, I have serious problems, which I think are not in my appearance. I know it, because of these problems I was deprived of the best experiences of my youth ... But, maybe I diluted the topic a bit with my long comments. I wanted to know if I had underestimated the "appearance" factor. That's why I created the theme. I personally have not seen such a miracle, a man to be "beautiful" and to be glued to it en masse. I keep thinking that this happens to women because of their beauty. So you write on this issue, and for myself - I will draw my own conclusions.

   I am a man and I had a friend who was pressured by many women. We knew the guy in question from high school. Even then, it struck me that women would push him alone. Good looking, high, very low throat voice. In high school I changed several boyfriends, I barely tied one. We maintained friendships up and down during the university years. At a party with my then boyfriend, she got drunk and started pushing him in front of me. I was completely disgusted by everything and everyone. I broke up with her that night, the next day she sobered up and explained to me how the dude had a magnetic effect and I don't know what you are. We supposedly "got along", but I already had one thing in mind. After a while, I introduced him to my new friendly company. Of the 4 girls in the company, 3 were pushing him. He shows me their Facebook messages. He was invited to various places, where no one else was invited, and we were supposed to be friendly company. I just realized how hypocritical people can be. In time, I broke off my friendship with the man in question. I have no reason to keep it in my life.

   You can be perfect and not love, as well as be unattractive, dumb, vicious and still stick to you. I noticed that. It applies to both men and women. There really are inexplicable things, whether luck, fate or horoscope (Venus in opposition to Saturn for example)

   From. 12 I don't consider myself handsome, but apparently some girls / women found something in me, I know, as I said, I'm a little dizzy? I want to tell you that I also had a lot of problems - up to 23 years. I was a virgin, insecure, shy, I couldn't communicate with the girls, etc. Even before going out, I always drank one or two vodkas to relax. I also didn't have a plot, but I'm obviously lucky, because the first girl I slept with was in a dormitory and we went there, and then I came across a few who on the second or third date always turned out to have keys to various apartments we went to. It was a little naughty that there was always someone who liked me, and when I liked a girl, she didn't reciprocate. Well, there were two exceptions, but the first girl left me, and the second is my wife for many years :)

   Well that's charisma. And you don't have to be beautiful and rich to own it, it's something that flows from you and your personality - positivity, good self-esteem. Instead of wondering why women don't like you, better focus on your personal cultivation.

   I am the author - To add a touch, I did not think of the above comments. Because I read a lot of literature, I remember something from there. A quote from our great historian and even greater writer Vera Mutafchieva. In her autobiography she told how she, her mother and her brother were in Veliko Tarnovo in September 1944, during the Second World War. At that time the German troops had already fled Bulgaria, and from here the units of the victorious Red Army (the Russians) were passing. Vera Mutafchieva was 15 years old. He described how many nasty cases there had been of savage acts, rudeness, and so on by Soviet / Russian / soldiers. But still, how did young Vera feel? It is written that the woman from childhood at the deepest level is set to like and be attracted by the WINNERS. She said

   Author, please learn to take responsibility. You have not been "deprived", the world has not conspired to "deprive" you, just in this life nothing comes for free and without effort, including communication in the opposite sex (at least for most of us). So tighten up and take some responsibility for your life. He was "deprived" - egati salivation!

   Author: Number 25, if your criticism was constructive, I would accept. In my statement, "deprived" did not mean that I was shifting the blame to someone else. The reason is in myself. It should be clear from everything I wrote. You take the word out of context. Otherwise - if a person has defects, traumas in the character, did he want them ?? !! And as for the other - whether something comes for free in this life - so many things come for free, from different places. And specifically for communication with the opposite sex. Well, that's why the topic was - do beautiful men take them off women just for the sake of beauty ... And isn't this beauty, vision, exactly for free? !! And my topic was not to focus on my problems, but to ask what others think about the importance of appearance. And for the insult - "Ligavshchina" - thank you!

   it's me again - number 25, without knowing me, how he decided I should take "a little" responsibility for my life. Why do you think I haven't until now? !! Just because I've never been good with women doesn't mean that as a person I've never done anything in my life. And a large percentage of people, men and women, do not like love, are not liked.

   A little beyond the author's specific question. I'm a man. From many opinions above it is clear that appearance is super important. I also saw the other topic that the author says provoked him to write this one. There, the girl says of hers that he had hit a "genetic lottery." He says less attractive men receive zero female attention. Well, and what turns out ... For such a fundamental thing as love, a man (both men and women) suffers, or rejoices, respectively, without any guilt or merit. What are the culprits of these so-called "unsightly" .... How did they deserve the happiness to be liked by those with the appearance of "genetic lotto". In general, the first topic that provoked this one irritated me a lot ...

   Different women like different types of men. That's why the story about the Hicks man sounds very strange and unreal to me, after which almost all women admire that they even allow themselves to go to meet him in front of his girlfriend and ask for his number. And this about the genetic lotto ... you don't have to win from the genetic lotto to please women. Train, sculpt your body, dress tolerably - sexy, modern, without being flashy and intrusive, maintain perfect personal hygiene, smell nice and most of all - behave like a real MAN, not like a p ... ka, which will he said - be brave, take initiatives - in life, at work, in relationships and acquaintances, never give up your positions, even in front of people much stronger than you, do not crush the weaker ones, but protect them, be a gentleman. And he did it for himself, not for others.

   to 29: Nature is not honest. There is no justice in life. Back in high school, there were various blond dudes with blue eyes and 80% of my classmates got off. And they didn't pay so much attention to the lower guys. How can I say ... those who haven't won the "genetic lottery" need more personal effort. Sometimes things are impossible. Those with "cool genes" earn more easily. But it's the same with women, bro, genes have a big influence. The situation there is even worse.

   Author, I'm number 25. Genetic lotto is a rarity - 1% of people have won it. And sometimes this 1% of men do not sleep with the most women. The most desirable are those with good communication skills that can enchant women. So yes, you drool instead of holding hands and learning to communicate effectively with the opposite sex. Read number 30, he described things well. And you know, women don't like men who grumble at all.

   I'm number 29. In the second topic, the girl with the young man she likes says that he was blond and blue-eyed. Here, in the comments, I see the same thing. Question to the girls - is this a big genetic lotto? Do you really like blue-eyed and blondes? One wonders ...

   I am the author. By the way, the topic for which I created this one is called "Young girls ... should we be afraid of them?" And more precisely the comments - 3, 12, 17, 18, 19, 20, 25, 27. The topic is in the same section - Love and Infidelity. Number 25/32 - you don't like men who grumble at all, but you women don't seem to like many things at all, and that's why a large part of you remain old maids. Number 30 made a nice comment, but is aimed at number 29. Otherwise correct. And as for the man sculpting a body - I don't need it - and I'm fine now. I wrote in my comments above that I have no problems with appearance, and I have never had complexes for just that. But anyway, I did NOT release this topic to talk about ME. I wanted to express my super surprise at what was quoted in the other topic, that a man can be so unceremoniously liked without moving a finger. After all, I have lived in this world for several decades, and I have never seen such a thing. And I asked the others if they were witnesses. And I just clarified that I'm not judging by myself, I'm not used to being a favorite of women. But I wrote it not to comment on me, but as a supplement. And from the comments of some people, I see that I was wrong, it may be true that someone is offered only for the sake of vision. And something specific impresses me - I think, whatever you say, the most liked are blondes and blue-eyed ... Otherwise, my way of thinking completely coincides with comment 30. And I think that the things described there are important for a man and not to be "beautiful". Question to number 25/32 - I already understood what you think about me, but I will be happy to read what you think about "beautiful" men,

   Well author, I have left my opinion about the handsome men above. As for Leo - I personally don't like him, the boy doesn't have enough testosterone, his physique is quite gentle, but everyone has their own taste, I have girlfriends who are in love with him. But still, don't forget how he became famous - with "Titanic", aimed mainly at the female audience, which especially appreciates topics such as forbidden love, drama and self-sacrifice. Against the background of this emotional cocktail, it is normal to find it beautiful, because they associate it with many emotions. You see, most women don't think like you - you can separate appearance from the whole person, while we value the sum of appearance and qualities. If you don't have an appearance, you can compensate with qualities, but if you have ONLY an appearance and you are t * p, uncorrected - nothing can save you,

   I'm number 30 and I specify that I am a woman. I have listed the qualities that my girlfriends and I like and respect in a man. If a man is combative and passionate, without being simple and complex, and on the outside he is good, he always attracts women. And the color of his eyes and hair do not matter much. / Well, maybe just the size .... it always matters :)))) /.

   I am the author. Number 36, you give an interesting topic about the size of that work :). It is not bad to change the direction of the comments a bit. I have used the services of prostitutes more than once, and they have almost always told me that I am great. But I don't take it seriously at all, because I think it's their job to attract customers. That's why they say things that I like. I hope it's serious, I know. But I didn't have any complexes on this issue either, I didn't think things through ... But let me use the topic to ask something different from the question I asked at the beginning - very often one can read back and forth that you see , then the size didn't matter, it was important how it was used, then after a few centimeters it didn't matter. However, I have always been of the opinion that this is not sincere. I'm thinking, that bigger is better as a feeling for women. And you ladies, what do you say?

   30/36, I'm kidding because I see that you're kidding too - well done, well done, finally some woman to admit that size matters. Of course I won't let you enjoy the bravo for a long time because I will immediately ask you how it is understood whether a man or a woman is passionate if you don't try them at least with a kiss, the size is clear when you understand what it is, or on a beach like it. you see the big toe, or the size of the shoes, or at least the size of the nose - all myths and legends in women's heads. Don't get me wrong, we men also have myths about the size of ... we also have complexes, but in general I've met many more complex women than men, but we got the name that we are complexes. We are famous for being prostitutes, but who exactly we prostitute ourselves is kept a secret. With two words "

   I am the author again - number 35, in my opinion, you say it very precisely - that men can separate beauty from the whole person. That is, to like a chick, even if in another respect nothing happens to her. And women don't think that way. From there came my astonishment at the statements I quoted that a man can enjoy such success only because of his beauty. Otherwise, what you say - that you value the sum of appearance and qualities, is much fairer. Otherwise only a vision, this is by birth and that's it. And those who do not have this gift ??? I remember something, maybe some of you know Russian. Find with the search engines and read the poem of the Russian poet Nikolai Zabolotsky "Ugly Girl" - that is, the ugly girl. Maybe there is a translation somewhere I don't know. There, quite poignantly, the poet said of the undeserved grief of the girls,

   There are such people. It is true that he has an aura. With my acquaintance, he is not very beautiful or rich. When you hear him shine ... Anyway. But some beauties still tie him, they even come to his feet. Even he wonders how he does it, but you can see what he is like. Let me tell you, this is also a cross for him - for me, this man will never find a wife, so to speak, forever. It will always remain like a condom. We laugh with other friends and we wonder, but we came to the conclusion that the man is a "test" - if you have a girlfriend, you take her to him and if something happens, then the girl was not for you (glad you are not deepened things and lost time). If she doesn't like it, then we don't know, but the girl will have passed the test.

   Author, I am a man almost your age and I will tell you what my impression of women is towards men. Almost all women pass by as a road sign men who are not at least 180-190 cm tall. Those dogs of 170 cm and below ate them, even if they have a normal, nice appearance, with a high general culture and cavaliers. :) The listed qualities are rarely appreciated nowadays by young women. When they're in their 40s or 45s, women suddenly "remember" that they need a more tame man, but before that, most of them sigh at the insolent "split neighborhood bat" or Ken doll twins they dream of. :) They like to justify that "the instinct of the woman-future mother made them" to like strong men-winners. The truth is, they just want a tall, muscular guy, and there's nothing wrong with that. : ) It is bad when they deny it and lie that the soul of the man is important to them. Of course, 99% of young and middle-aged women do not ignore wealthy gentlemen (Ah, this eternal topic of men's money!), But almost none of them admit it and prefer to get away with circumventing words. There are also very rare exceptions for the type of short men who just hit the "lotto" in question (as mentioned several times in previous posts) and have received a particularly beautiful gene from their parents, so they are regularly pressed even and 10 cm taller than them women. :) I've known two of them with painted faces and they didn't have to make any effort at all to win a chick. Hammer-hammer and then - come on, everyone on the road. They regularly fixed different women. Author, let me add something else, because you mentioned something about yourself that I noticed in myself. Years ago I had the same "successes" with women due to my indecision to speak boldly to them and the fact that I was not a loud animal (women have personally told me that when a man is moderate and polite, for them it is tantamount to "clogged lollipop"). It's funny, it's stupid, but if more than one or two people say it, then from their point of view things are like that and we can't make them think differently. They like open types, and that's it. Ugly, dull, cheeky, but they act on the female subconscious and they are liked. In recent years, however, I have accumulated and, jokingly, decided once to give it to some cool women, sharply reduced the cavalry towards them (even some colleagues were surprised that I no longer offer to help them by lifting boxes, I no longer opened the doors for them to pass first, etc.), I was no longer so kind and responsive. I immediately felt a changed attitude from them to me, with each passing day they somehow began to "respect" me more. Yes, it's stupid, because in the same way the dog listens more to the one with the stick in his hand. The more I tried to be helpful in the past, the more they got on my head - be it colleagues, friends, women. At the moment I have several candidates (I'm not saying that I am being pressured, but they have repeatedly given me obvious signs and hints), but for now I'm only dating the oldest and most liberated of them (although there are two better and younger than her). ), so from the point of view of men it is right to say quite openly and clearly that for us both appearance (but only to some extent) and certain female skills in bed are important. : ) She told me recently that I won her over precisely because I didn't try to push her in the first meetings and I was diplomatic and waiting, predisposing her to dictate the rhythm of dating. She is a few years wiser than me, quite well-read and cunning (if forced, she can be dangerous and entangle a man so that he can tell him the game). I consider myself a moderately good psychologist and I know that she is even more insightful than I am. This is key because she feels I am natural and that makes her calm. I've had serious relationships with a few particularly beautiful women, but they all ended up being big grumblers, lazy, impatient, and demanding, just because they expected some ready-made gene to do all the work without them putting the effort into the relationship. They cannot create the comfort of a man, that even in bed they are not distributed! I felt best with other women who were normal, without a sculpted body and without a cute face, with the appearance of a housewife. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthly and are not the object of much masculine attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And they're furious in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. I felt best with other women who were normal, without a sculpted body and without a cute face, with the appearance of a housewife. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthy and are not the object of much male attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And they're furious in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. I felt best with other women who were normal, without a sculpted body and without a cute face, looking like a housewife. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthy and are not the object of much male attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And there are furies in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. without a sculpted body and without a cute face, with the appearance of a housewife. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthly and are not the object of much masculine attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And there are furies in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. without a sculpted body and without a cute face, with the appearance of a housewife. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthy and are not the object of much masculine attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And they're furious in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthly and are not the object of much male attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And there are furies in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. It is these latter that are my cruelly powerful aphrodisiac and attract me extremely easily. Maybe because they are earthy and are not the object of much male attention, respectively, early on they emphasized the need to develop their mental qualities, they are hardworking, do not grumble, do not lie down, they can be trusted. And there are furies in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. they can be trusted. And there are furies in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis. they can be trusted. And there are furies in bed, so watch. I ask the women reading here not to rush to conclusions and not to accuse me of thinking only of the lower floor! :) On the contrary, I am sober and I come to intimacy after a long period of getting to know the woman's soul and only if we both come to the conclusion that we could get along as a serious couple on a family basis.

   Zdr Author, Zdr Number 41 Mn. Interesting and A bit Long Article :)) I fully support most of what has been written. In my opinion, for a Dude to meet a chick who likes him and her, it depends on Many and Different Factors. I live and am from a medium-sized city in Bulgaria. There are almost no young people here (Explainable). I have been here and abroad. I have noticed that Bulgarian women are more wayward, typically a female, but they are more supported and beautiful, there are no two opinions. If we have to blame anyone for having so many lonely Men and Women, Girls and Boys in the country today. This is the D-vata of First Place and Her Absurd P-ka. The Young Girls are whirling around the Playmates, so how does Sr. Extra Muffin and the fact that there is a "Resource". Well Nobody wants to be Poor and Sick is not the topic de ... We Men like Beautiful and Nice Chicks. For me, this girl must be 50% beautiful, 50% with a cool character and at least 15% intelligent :)) Today the world is very fast and everyone wants Max. from Life. My brother and I are 30 Metalists each, but don't imagine people who fall and get up and don't have money for Food and Clothes. The chicks notice what a man looks like. Although I'm not a chipped idiot, I act like one. The jacket costs me as much as 3 Ordinary good 2 /// I always look good. Yes, unfortunately, this is what the chicks want: P Number 41 It irritates me the most. In the summer I had two girlfriends. Good Girls my age. Quite Intelligent, not as impressive as the vision, but we got along. Everything in the relationships seems to have become a bIT Market, in other words a Buy / Sell Rate. If you lie to her super if No Too bad :))

   To all who wrote an opinion. I am almost 30 years old. and so far over the years I have been cut off by women. And I don't know what it's due to.

   As for me, how many women did I cut off - it's not true !!! Even at one time they thought I was the opposite! I didn't do it !!!

   To 43. It is even more unclear what can be the reason for a man to be literally taken down on the street by women who see him for the first time ....

   Number 44, is your relevance and success among women due to your appearance?

   Up to 46 Of 44 Initially yes, but then we didn't like each one! Tall and thin, 182 cm, 72 kg. with green / brown eyes and normal brown hair. Some have told me that they like my eyes, others that they like my smile, etc. I have been married for many years and my weight has risen, but I am not fat yet.

   "So, hardly a young man can only attract girls with beauty like that." - on the contrary, even Taylor Swift has a song just for such men :) Taylor Swift - Gorgeous

   It is obvious, but obviously it is more convenient for someone to deny it! There is no way for a woman to know what the social and financial situation of every handsome man is and only after she understands to act!