Eh ... it's me again, it just started to get interesting to me :)) ... the author of the topic below about how my life will go in making money :). Out of boredom, I decided to look at what Love is, in fact and realistically, and why it doesn't come to some people .... Perhaps the best explanation for love is given by Erich Fromm (who dedicated one of his books to love: The Art of Loving ). He says love is not just a feeling, because sooner or later feelings die, in essence it is an action, that is, an action, an art that most people think we control, but it is not. Fromm formulated his thesis on love as an answer to the problem of human existence, love is the only way to achieve unity on the basis of equality and thus to save ourselves from the unbearable feeling of loneliness and helplessness. Blah, blah, blah: ) My biggest insight is that IF you are too intelligent and you just know what it is - love cannot come to you, simply because your mind already controls everything. Falling in love and Love ... two different things. I characterize falling in love as a tendency to attribute positive qualities to negative ones to the object of falling in love. I can't define love because obviously we are not as smart as creatures yet ... It's good that this site has it so that I have a place to write something intelligent, where someone will always understand me (as you understood me for the topic below) . Unfortunately, my current environment is not highly intelligent and just if I comment on something like that and they look at me as if I told them something in Chinese :)) And remember: Fear of Love is usually formed on the basis of previous experience and inherently have protective function.
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I completely agree with what has been written above, and I think that there is a great deal of truth in Erich Fromm's definition. And the fact that if you are intelligent and know what is what or more precisely what you want ... love really will not come to you.