A Lifetime With One Man?

   Find your master!

   Is that the Chinese woman? In your previous posts you kept saying how bad all women are, how they just used it, how there is no love, and now you suddenly want a serious relationship. You contradict something. On the question. Can you eat only bread for life? I will ask you, is sex bread? The bread is consumed. Sex can be taken as a consumption, but it can also be taken as a continuation of feelings. If he takes it in the second way, which I doubt from the description, he will eat only bread for the rest of his life. And you just took on the role of a temporary teacher, which role will run out as soon as you teach yourself all the knowledge. You pushed the connection to a purely physical one and it's only a matter of time before it runs out. And from your previous posts, it struck me that you are hellishly immature for your 36 years, and from there you get all the problems with women, no matter how convinced you are, that all women are what you are. Even the very fact that you blame others for your own failures speaks volumes about you.

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   I can't figure out what the problem is when you're wrapped up in bolder experiments like threes, fours, fives, etc. You're a mature man, and I guess you've outdone your ego, you don't think you're the best lover, and you hardly mind you endow her with new experiences. The important thing is that you love and understand each other and both you and she are ready for all your fantasies to come true. If you're all that, there's no way a woman can run away from you - believe me. As for sex, it's just sex - a pleasure you should not deprive yourself of.

   Question number 1, bad if there is a big difference, if you start looking at young men, it is not known whether you will stay together at all. Question number 2, again bad, she has not been with another and will certainly at least once be tempted to see what it will be, no matter how much she loves you. Therefore, the woman and the man must have had the minimum experience of love before getting together as a couple for seriousness.

   I have no experience on the subject but I am approaching 28 years old and I am more and more gripped by the idea of ​​catching a little girl and being only mine. I'm not ugly or a psychopath, I like all kinds of women up to 40, even but I have that in mind. And I don't mean to manipulate her, but to come to her senses and everything else, just to protect her from some nonsense in the lives of teenagers, and then the older we get together, the stronger our relationship will be.

   Wow, someone has caught the critical one in men before, I'm not saying it badly, I emphasize! In general, the story is stupid. It is clear that you have been hit by the hormone, but to talk about a serious relationship with an 18-year-old girl. is funny. You'll teach her that, but in time she'll run to a young man. I, who am 27, look at the younger ones, and already at your age they look shabby to me ... The principle is that the younger ones are more excited about the older man, when we grow up we look at a set or smaller. Why don't you reorient yourself to a woman your age or 32-33 with your mind and maturity, if we're talking about a serious relationship? !! If you have decided to have fun, there is still nothing wrong, just do not ask the general public if they will stay with you for the rest of their lives, and true to everything on top!

   My current boyfriend and I recently got engaged. I'm much older than her. She is 18, I am 36 - Bravo (U) :) Beautiful and smart - hat and shine. :) The question is "can you eat only bread all your life?" And what is the solution? - Did not understand. From time to time I miss talking to her ex-boyfriends and she suffocates. - Yes, the less you talk about the former, the better. They need to be told how much they are loved, that they are the only ones. That you can't look at another. And even if they accuse you of loving someone, then you still have to turn things around and claim that they are the best. About sex - I'm relaxed now and I'll break you. Will you be hurt Do you want to be with other men? - The question is "can you eat only bread all your life? Why didn't you make it and what stopped you? - Mine threatened her that if I found out, that there is another I will leave her, and she loves me very much. But I may not have understood, or maybe it is better not to understand.

   Number 6. It's bad that if there is a big difference, if you start looking at young men, you don't know if you will stay together at all. "Not bad at all." The feeling is wonderful. She would start looking younger. If you evoke feelings in young girls, they would give their lives for you. They would do anything for you, they would even let you model them. It is much easier with them than with more mature ones. Naughty was - What's wrong with him? You don't know how to treat them. The feeling is great!

   Number 8. You're lying. And I don't mean to manipulate her, but to come to her senses and everything else, just to protect her from some nonsense in the lives of teenagers, and then the older we get together, the stronger our relationship will be. You have no intention of manipulating her. But often these girls, they listen to everything. And just don't say she'll guide you. Cant happen. And up to 20 - 21 years. They are not yet mature and learning. They learn from you, from your character. And as you try to protect her, at some point you will feel that she is completely attuned to you. One of the reasons they are so beloved. The younger the girl. The more it models for you, even if you don't want to. They do not have enough experience and borrow it from you. At some point they become you. Try it in less than a year and you will see how you can see all your actions in it. However, if you are not ready for it. Catch more mature. Because young people are especially attached. And then there is no escape. Their love is too strong. They feel like they grew up with you and they feel kind of (I hate to say it) like a parent. De facto at one point I felt like he was my child and the intimacy was disgusting. It is good that this period has passed. They are like children. Externally they may look like adults. But by nature, they behave like a child behaves towards a parent. But they also add the experiment of intimacy. Think before you act. The feeling of being with a young girl is supreme, but there are also negative traits. When I first went with a young girl, my mistake was to let that girl get close to me. Then I asked for a separation, she would get hurt, I came back. Many unforeseen things have happened in our relationship. I turned out to be very unprepared. It's not like adults. The second time I already knew what I was doing. What girls tend to start a relationship with an adult. First of all, these are smart girls. "That's why they adapt quickly to you." Even if you don't want to model them. Even if you try to keep them as they are, you will not succeed. They will perceive your appearance. Maybe that's why they define them as victims. Because it is almost 100 certain that you will replace their identity. Second, it will be someone who feels lonely, misunderstood, underestimated. And you will satisfy this need, because you will still behave well with him. And then you will become irreplaceable. The second time I already knew what I was doing. What girls tend to start a relationship with an adult. First of all, these are smart girls. "That's why they adapt quickly to you." Even if you don't want to model them. Even if you try to keep them as they are, you will not succeed. They will perceive your appearance. Maybe that's why they define them as victims. Because it is almost 100 certain that you will replace their identity. Second, it will be someone who feels lonely, misunderstood, underestimated. And you will satisfy this need, because you will still behave well with him. And then you will become irreplaceable. The second time I already knew what I was doing. What girls tend to start a relationship with an adult. First of all, these are smart girls. "That's why they adapt quickly to you." Even if you don't want to model them. Even if you try to keep them as they are, you will not succeed. They will perceive your appearance. Maybe that's why they define them as victims. Because it is almost 100 certain that you will replace their identity. Second, it will be someone who feels lonely, misunderstood, underestimated. And you will satisfy this need, because you will still behave well with him. And then you will become irreplaceable. you will not succeed. They will perceive your appearance. Maybe that's why they define them as victims. Because it is almost 100 certain that you will replace their identity. Second, it will be someone who feels lonely, misunderstood, underestimated. And you will satisfy this need, because you will still behave well with him. And then you will become irreplaceable. you will not succeed. They will perceive your appearance. Maybe that's why they define them as victims. Because it is almost 100 certain that you will replace their identity. Second, it will be someone who feels lonely, misunderstood, underestimated. And you will satisfy this need, because you will still behave well with him. And then you will become irreplaceable.

   Number 9 - You judge according to your experience and make a conclusion about the others. But girls who tend to go with adults are different from you. From there, your whole theory about these girls falls away.

   Number 9 does not talk about the "principle", because it is PRINCIPALLY different for everyone. Yes, I also see a big difference between them, the probability that they will stay together too, but nothing is certain, and this is their life. And one more thing - as a 28-year-old I have always been more mature and oh, even my husband (we have been together for 2 years) is 13 years older than me. And I'm far from focusing on the younger ones. They are kids to me. Should I say now that mine is the principle? And for the specific story - as it is said in a neighboring topic, it is unlikely, but if the love of both of you is sincere and you are at a high spiritual level, anything is possible. Aloha! :)

   I am a 28-year-old woman and my opinion overlaps with that of number 9. Well, excluding the first few sharper lines from her comment, but she's right. My colleagues, former classmates, acquaintances around my age, have discussed the topic of the age difference a lot, and as children we were quite impressed by men 10 years older than us, but now we are oriented towards our peers and also 2-3 years younger than us, because they grew up and matured :) Otherwise, it is understood that long-term relationships are possible between a young girl and a mature man, as well as between a young boy and a mature woman, and even for life. I know such couples, but they are much bigger sets than me and you. Number 9 advises you to find a peer, because you will really have a lot more in common, whatever, you will be able to be friends, and this I personally think is super important for a stable long-term relationship. You are from different generations! She will still be in a whirlwind in 20 years, and you will snort after her. Have fun with each other now, but inwardly do not pin your hopes on the future of this relationship. Because if it doesn't turn out according to your hopes, you will suffer.

   From number 9. I see, my comment has become a thorn in your side. Number 15, well done for the adequate opinion, there are sober people of our age left. Number 14, come on, if you like not to take my word for it, because it's petty. Naturally, the life belongs to the author, only that he shares his story in great detail and color on a public site and consults, respectively, I comment and advise. Another thing you don't seem to understand is that the author is not talking about "pure love and spiritual level", but how he crumples the sheets with a young girl and asks if she will stay true to him. Therefore, please do not give your marriage as an example. Sentences of this type should quell any doubts about a romantic story. I quote: "Yes, but we've been together for 2 months now and day by day I see how he thinks about more and more. We've already tried almost all kinds of poses, I taught her to give me great blowjobs, to squirt. It ends in back and even anal sex, which is great for both of us. "Someone read the whole story, to point out qualities of the character of the lady in question ?! And everything would be perfect if it was written by a twenty-year-old girl, but from the mouth of a mature man is downright ridiculous. For me, the picture is like this, an aging bachelor with an uncontrollable instinct teaches lessons to a young lady with an even greater instinct. Nothing we have not seen or heard. It provokes me, the question of fidelity. Insane and absurd. Expecting an 18-year-old woman with no experience to stay with him forever and mostly have sex with him for the rest of their lives. Let my statement not be taken as a reproach, but to serve as a sobering "pear". To the author personally. Don't reject opinions just because you don't like them. Since you're telling me that girls tend to date older people different from me, let me tell you something. I spent five years of my life with an eighteen-year-old man, let me better understand such relationships from you from a woman's point of view. I am 3 years younger now. Is the difference, you know how big, from here to heaven. The old man was and still is a very popular man, only he is now 45 years old, not 38 years old, and when I log on to Facebook, I feel sick when I see how wrinkled and old he is. However, I am honored that he broke up with me then for clear reasons. And now I'm going to bed next to my tight and sexy boyfriend, who, by the way, is wonderful as a person with whom we share our youth and have the same life and experiences. So much for me. I wish you success and more maturity. And to have two heads, but please use the right one.

   I have very bad impressions of men who are looking for such young partners - in general, such men are usually not literate, they have big flaws, for which the young girl is blind because there is no basis for comparison. However, a more mature woman has a basis for comparison, is not manipulated as easily, is not inclined to forgive forever as a young girl and has her own requirements for the partner, which requirements usually such men are not able to meet. That's why they go to the younger and more naive. This is my point of view as a woman who was deceived by older men in her youth - and I guess, now that I have a built character, those individuals who seemed so great to me then, I wouldn't even look at them. . So - no, she will not stay with you forever.

   Number 9. The sentence: Girls tend to date older people different from me. - Does not belong to the author. I claim copyright over this sentence. Let me better understand such connections from you - let it NOT be so! Before that, I also speak from personal experience and I have the relevant observations. I stand firmly behind my words. Before that, let's clarify that we are talking about girls under 20. Because if you are over 20 years old. and you have a certain character already, then from there the theory of my age difference falls apart. One is 25 - 43 years. It is quite different 17 - 34 years. Which teenagers would go with a mature man? First, these are smart girls - who learn fast. Second, they are lonely, misunderstood and underestimated. Why a normal girl who feels comfortable and socially satisfied, will go with a set of his father? From there, if the adult behaves well and with understanding towards the young girl, he would satisfy these needs. The girl will see it as a kind of support, and will be too attached to it. I claim over 100% that these girls will fall in love too much with their pampering uncle. Because it is much easier to leave it in his hands than to fight life alone. They can't and can't. This man becomes irreplaceable and they cannot act alone. As much as we want to believe in it. Adolescents are not like adults. On the body - maybe yes. But thinking - definitely not. In your case, or you were over 20 years old. And you have already built some ability to live independently. Or I don't know. An obligatory condition, in my opinion, is for the man to satisfy the needs of the girl, psycho-socially and physically. Because otherwise it will remain dissatisfied and will seek satisfaction elsewhere. If there is no such thing as persistence and to some extent indulgence. The girl will only stay with the man forcibly. And this is already illegal. I want it too - entering the lives of the girls, then you can leave them lightly. And let them move forward. And you to be with the next. But it can not. Over time, their dependence only increases. While after 2m. you have a chance to leave them. After 1-2 years. None, not to mention after 5 years. Yes, my theory is not so valid for you. Because he was 38 years old. therefore you were 20 years old. And you had some ability to cope on your own. I'm talking about younger girls. After all, he is the one who decided to leave you, and you may have a hard time accepting this. Only if you were younger you would be too dependent, to accept this. When I wanted to leave such a girl, I got to the hospital. And I'll probably be with her for life. I don't have time to edit.

   Number 17. I very much agree here! However, a more mature woman has a basis for comparison, is not manipulated as easily, is not inclined to forgive forever as a young girl and has her own requirements for the partner, which requirements usually such men are not able to meet. That's why they go to the younger and more naive. I already have a built character, these individuals, who then seemed so great to me, I wouldn't even look at them. Do you understand number 9 - where is the difference between the already built character and adolescents? In the case of the author, I do not expect it to remain true to him. Because what sustains them is sex. It's not about feelings and upbringing. Only that when it came to feelings, to satisfy needs (not just sexual). Then the growing girl will grow up, will gain experience given to him by his partner. You can't build your own experience. Experience, character and the struggle with life are built by encountering difficulties and overcoming them. It's just that they get an uncle - he takes care of his girl and usually solves the problem for him. That is, the girl has almost no difficulties. But even to meet them does not overcome them alone. The partner is the one who overcomes them, together or directly instead of her. And this girl can't learn to handle herself. Instead, he learns that if he has problems, he should turn to his partner and he, like some super me, will solve the problem. The result is something like learned helplessness. And when tomorrow the man leaves and leaves this girl. It doesn't know how to handle it. There is a huge difference between 16 and 20 years. Almost no in appearance, and even a 16-year-old can look smarter. But in no case is it more constructive or more experienced. (I'm not talking about a 5% theoretical error here). And I want 14-16 year olds to be like 20 years old. But they are not! You see they are not!

   I follow the story with interest. However, number 9 breaks the pavement. F45

   "As much as we want to believe in it. Adolescents are not like adults. In body - maybe yes. But in thinking - definitely not." - I absolutely agree! Adolescents are much easier to move forward because they are not burdened with anything in life yet. It's not like they are 35 with 3 children ... "It's just that they get an uncle - he takes care of his girl and usually solves the problem for him. That is, the girl hardly encounters any difficulties." - this is rather unrealized, but most - often Over 25 year old girl / woman. Now, for what reasons, that she is from a village, that she slept for years after school, that what else does she know there. It also applies to some divorced women with children. Both artificially and as a maturity, there is no difference between a girl of 16 and a girl of 20. Yes, let's say that 20-year-olds already have a richer expression, but in terms of life, they lead in front of 16-year-olds only by the fact that they had a ball and went to university. And yes, they haven't overcome any difficulties on their own, let alone any (of course there are exceptions), but their parents have credit for that, not their drastically older friend, with whom they are bored, distorted curiosity, hormones, a desire to demonstrate how mature they have become, including themselves, and so on. And if by chance the old partner leaves before the girl leaves him, she will certainly bark a little, but she will quickly get a queue of candidates, which may have been there all the time, she will move on, and here she is. moment to reread these words at number 17: "in 5 years you will look absolutely uninteresting to her at best, and in the bad she will despise you and hide from everyone that she once had a relationship with you and will wonder where her mind was. "Which teenagers would go with a mature man? First, these are smart girls - who learn fast." - Well, not quite. "Second, they are lonely, misunderstood and underestimated." - Yes. Why would a normal girl who feels comfortable and socially satisfied go with her father's set? "- of course not because she is smart and learns fast, but she is smart and learns fast because she is appreciated and understood by those who need her - parents and close friends." From there if the adult behaves well and with understanding to the young girl , then he would satisfy these needs. The girl will see it as a kind of support, and will be too attached to it. "- you want to ... rather the 35-year-old will be attached to the 3 children ...

   9, intelligence and maturity have nothing to do with age

   Number 9 is right for part of your comment to reorient to a woman after 25 years, a few years in favor of a man is a super difference. With my difference our six years. I look at the young or around my age (26-7 years), but only up to that time they are not suitable for serious relationships, because they like either the older women of them or much younger. They have big pretensions but they are probably basic, I don't belong to their requirements, I'm not cool or poisoned, I'm not super beautiful. :)

   The author is: To No1. - I think I found my master the most drug. To no2. - see No1. Yes, the Chinese woman is Do No9 - a whore's statement. You sound like you're using men. So you don't like that dwarf after he's worn out? You haven't seen anything but his body, have you? Now that's why you're kind of tight ... You remember that one day you'll be old. Do you know what happens to people like you? They treat them the same way they treated others. I'm sorry that there is no love left between you and this "jerk" ... Apparently he's tired. Maybe it was really his fault and he wasn't strong enough to put up with you. But 10, 11, 12, 13, 18 and 19. I am most interested in your opinion. You're obviously in my position. Are you still with her? How are you going to drive her, buddy? tell us a little about your case? "Can a man eat bread all his life?" = can you be with the same person all your life. For me, the serious friend is bread. The other boyfriends ... the superficial ones are the salad and the casserole. Only bread is not tasty, but only with his salad forever hungry - a whore, so to speak. Many women do not understand this and because they have a whore's inclination, they fail to control themselves and remain only on the salad for life. I raised her to tell me everything honestly and sincerely and every time she tells me how much she wants to cheat on me because she envies me, because of the sexual experience. He wants to be with others and I have to be the perfect fool to think he will be alone with me for life. But I think there is a solution. As she eats salad, so I eat. One day if we share the bed (just the bed, no deepening) with other people, won't the model work? That is, to stay together for life. What do you think? Or am I talking utopian nonsense? Again, I don't mind taking her to a buccaneer party. And as for whether I'm mature and stupid, let me say that I know women well enough to say who I can have a future with and who I can't. After 8 girls I've been with, I definitely have one with this one. After so many attempts to meet a normal girl close to my age in our beautiful homeland, I was really desperate. Yes, now I can feed in vain hope, but it is the same hope of normal naive people to build a normal family, which the 30-year-old whore lacks. In response No. 9 AGAIN, I do not catch 32-33 year olds, because they are the ones who wander in the clouds. I'm tired of listening to "a little to the left, and now faster", "no, this is not face soap ... what are your socks doing under the bed?" .. etc. These are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. I am sorry that this statement devalues ​​you. I will keep silent about the nationality, that the topic will become even deeper. As much as I'm naive to take a virgin girl ... Ask your grandparents ... what? and were they naive? it is not the problem of getting caught in a virgin girl but the fact that we live in the lustful 21st century, where there is no more love. And it will be difficult to protect mine. if only they were not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. I am sorry that this statement devalues ​​you. For nationality, I will keep quiet that the topic will become even deeper. As much as I'm naive to take a virgin girl ... Ask your grandparents ... what? and were they naive? it is not the problem of getting caught in a virgin girl but the fact that we live in the lustful 21st century, where there is no more love. And it will be difficult to protect mine. if only they were not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. I am sorry that this statement devalues ​​you. For nationality, I will keep quiet that the topic will become even deeper. As much as I'm naive to take a virgin girl ... Ask your grandparents ... what? and were they naive? it is not the problem of getting caught in a virgin girl but the fact that we live in the lustful 21st century, where there is no more love. And it will be difficult to protect mine. an 18 year old girl is 100 times better than you. I am sorry that this statement devalues ​​you. I will keep silent about the nationality, that the topic will become even deeper. As much as I'm naive to take a virgin girl ... Ask your grandparents ... what? and were they naive? it is not the problem of getting caught in a virgin girl but the fact that we live in the lustful 21st century, where there is no more love. And it will be difficult to protect mine. an 18 year old girl is 100 times better than you. I am sorry that this statement devalues ​​you. For nationality, I will keep quiet that the topic will become even deeper. As much as I'm naive to take a virgin girl ... Ask your grandparents ... what? and were they naive? it is not the problem of getting caught in a virgin girl but the fact that we live in the lustful 21st century, where there is no more love. And it will be difficult to protect mine.

   The sentence that I studied to be a flight attendant was enough to predict the future! Watch what happens from here on out as you fly. I share because I have been in the industry for some time. Life in this profession is not boring at all, you know, and it will enter the heavens prepared!

   I am a woman of 26. My husband is 38. He took me when I was 20 and was my first. So far I have not cheated on him. We love each other, maybe that's why. So far with the good. Some time ago I met another person who drives me crazy just by looking and I want him like no one before. In the beginning I had very heavy remorse for these desires. I broke off my sex and was still dissatisfied, despite the orgasms. The balance is that I didn't sleep with the other just because I didn't have the opportunity. If I have, I will. I will try to make my husband never understand, so as not to be disappointed. He doesn't deserve this. If he doesn't deserve it, why do you do that? someone will ask. Because I can't take it anymore! Because I can't get to the end if I don't imagine the other one. PP The so-called Ice Queen is a dreamer who tells stories per kilogram, but he knows how to get into the tone of the interlocutor. Alpha

   Hello! My friend and I are 11 years apart and he was my first. We have been together for 3 years and I have not cheated on him. The bad thing is that he made a living, and now I'm starting to live. We fight a lot because he can't do it, and now is the time for me, otherwise when? Admittedly, I once thought, "What would it be like to have sex with this ...", but only up to that point. I'm not one of those women who cheats and I don't want to get up. Our sexual relationship is going well so far, I hope it will continue to be so. (f19). I will be glad if my opinion is useful to you.

   From number 17 For young girls with little life experience, the sections are difficult, they often see them as the end of the world. That's why they are so forgiving in their first relationship, and the separation is a big drama, they think they will never love again and no one will love them. From personal experience I can say that part of my interest in older people came from the fact that in my family the father figure was not strongly represented. That's why I was looking for security in an older man, a father figure. But typical of a girl of that age is that she mixes this desire for security with a huge thirst for adventure that an older man can rarely provide because he is unable to live at that pace. As for the author - you are a naive author, she will not stay with you. It may be a year, two or five - but not for life. I'll meet someone better, someone she will admire more and when she compares him to you you will look not so great in her eyes ... And about how bad the women of 30 were because they tried to model you - well, that's what you're doing right now with the young girl, you model him, but obviously you don't feel guilty, you blame her on those women "who want to model some kind of" man "next to them". Author, even love is not able to cure your contempt for women.

   And artificially and as a maturity, there is no difference between a girl of 16 and a girl of 20. - Yes, except that 20 years. has a more sustainable character. But this is mainly due to their parents' credit - one of the reasons why teenage girls leave with more mature ones is precisely the need to be close to their parents. Adolescents often say that their parents do not pay enough attention to them, they are misunderstood and underestimated, their opinion is not respected. I heard from a parent that she is ... she is still a child, then why do you treat her as an equal. Well, because this girl has stood firmly against me and is trying to think about her words when she talks to me. I see her thinking things over and trying to think, and they tell me she can't. Now what should I believe? And if by chance the old partner leaves before the girl has left him - It did not happen that they left me. And it even got to the point that the first girl was ready to meet the second, as long as she stayed with me. How do I explain this? It will certainly burn a little - so little that in a month he will be hospitalized. But she will soon be lined up with a queue of candidates, which she may have had all along - To have other candidates, but they are not wanted by her. Otherwise, if they tell me that I have to retire because they like someone else, I will do it. It never happened. She will move on - yes, and that will take her to the hospital. In 5 years you will look absolutely uninteresting to her at best, and at worst she will despise you and hide from everyone, that she once had a relationship with you and would wonder where her mind was - right? Then why is their love only getting stronger? First, these are smart girls - who learn fast. "- Well, not quite - very, very. They excel, even in the upper classes, win scholarships and regional competitions, give concerts. The girl will see it as a kind of support, and will be too attached to it." - you want. - Not that I want so much, but it happens.

   I'm number 15/21 1 / "I raised mine to me" - aaa, you like them want to model nachi, and you say that you are uncomfortable with that ... well, don't be so hypocritical about life ... the word itself .. "Educated" .. sounds super controlling and modeling to me .. Educates parents, until the seventh year. 2 / "I don't catch 32-33 year olds, because ... etc."; "These are built characters who want to model" - they are built characters, but they can model. You can just calmly but clearly say that it annoys you to be told things about socks and pants and what. You are a great person, but obviously you can't show character in front of everyone and that's why you prefer to show character in front of people with an incomplete structure. And for the muttering, especially my personal observations are, that murmurers and murmurers have been like that since they were teenagers. "So you don't like that dwarf after he's skinned? You haven't seen anything but his body, have you?" that with a person of their age they will be better off - emotionally, spiritually, as tastes, interests, in general, people of the same generation have the most things in common in general, etc. The "Dartofelnika" becomes shabby in the eyes of the girl spiritually and emotionally, because it remains at a certain level (yes, from the point of view of the younger ones the word is "remains") inherent in his generation (which is normal), his peers, over time it becomes irritating because the generations are different. Over time, the girl begins to "mature" as a person and wants to be with her peers, with people at her level (low / high, now irrelevant) in the development of personality, no longer needs to admire someone bigger (which is was the main reason for being with him), because she herself feels bigger / older. And at this moment, when she already begins to feel like a really grown person, it naturally follows her need to be "older" than her to evaporate. And here it is appropriate to quote number 17: "- and guess, at the present time, when I already have a built character, these individuals, who then seemed so great to me, I would not even look at them." I want to add another author. If she is really Chinese, then I assume that women and men in general may have a very different mindset, I don't know now, just a guess. Wouldn't it be better to post your topic in a forum where mostly Chinese people write?

   To the Author Ama is not exactly the same. You describe here, mostly sex, and I talk about love and feelings. Yes, I'm still with her. How can I drive it, I will live with it. I will wait for the other girl to turn 18 to have children from her. I felt lonely, I had entered a chat to have a little chat. So a girl appeared and we started writing to him, she obviously liked me, even though she was only 14 years old. I kept writing to her. We went out. Her parents understood and she asked us to separate. I loved her and it was not easy for me to let her go, but now it is extremely important for me to have a very strong attraction between us. Less than a week later, she decided to look for me, but I avoided her. One day she called me to tell me that she was in the hospital, she was injured and I was the only one who could give her meaning to live. We got together. We went out for years, and her parents may not have known about us. Or they just didn't show to know. He often spent at home. And he was coming home in the evening when he was 18 years old. we lived with her. Interestingly, her parents did nothing to prevent this. I met her mother once, she was irritated, the meeting didn't go well. I never met her parents again. My sister comes to us from time to time, she accepts me well and we are friends. There were times when I felt her as a daughter and intimacy in those periods was extremely difficult. Soon there was a very comical moment, she had gone out on her own, and I called her, asked who she was with, where she was, what was on the table, and at one point she told me, Daddy. I shivered, but she was obviously more, she broke off, she apologized, and she made me laugh. But not so much that it was funny. Well out of embarrassment, not convenience. I remembered a movie in which a young girl, He turned to his beloved and said to him: Excuse me, I reacted like a spoiled child to my father. And he is a thoughtful, but realistically it is so. I haven't always loved this girl. There were times when I just stayed by his side. I met a second girl - she was also too lonely. His life was too complicated, he had only a mother, he stayed all day alone. We talked, we deepened things. It began to search, physical intimacy. And I reacted paternally again. And even at one point it was as if I had two children and had to choose between them. The second girl settled permanently in my heart, displacing the first. And while the former found out about the latter, not everything, of course. The second does not know about the first. I'm waiting for the second one to be 18 years old. to live with her, as I waited for the first girl. When I finish high school I will have a child of the second. Not that I don't love the first, it's hard for them to flood you with love and give their lives for you, and for you to be insensitive. But the second is the girl for me. And I will always help the first one, but I will not stay with her. Whatever he wants to do this time, I want the other. "Can a man eat bread all his life" = can he be with the same man all his life. - Yes, if you are absolutely sure that this is the girl in your life. And here until the first I did not love him, but I went with her, and then there were feelings, sometimes very strong. I was not alone in the second, but I was attracted by her behavior. You say you would be with others besides yours, how do you expect them to stay true to you then? While I was faithful to the first girl for years, then I met the second. There is no third place in my life. And I would be completely true to the second, but at this stage, I can't leave the first, I love her too. But - significantly less. I don't know, if you only share a bed, why be together? I don't know, but I don't share. Mine is mine, they want someone else - tell me to go, but don't look for me anymore. You want us to stay friends later, I'm sorry I don't want you to exist later. I love you, but love takes two. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. if you only share a bed, why be together? I don't know, but I don't share. Mine is mine, they want someone else - tell me to go, but don't look for me anymore. You want us to stay friends later, I'm sorry I don't want you to exist later. I love you, but love takes two. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. if you only share a bed, why be together? I don't know, but I don't share. Mine is mine, they want someone else - tell me to go, but don't look for me anymore. You want us to stay friends later, I'm sorry I don't want you to exist later. I love you, but love takes two. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. they want another - tell me to go, but don't look for me anymore. You want us to stay friends later, I'm sorry I don't want you to exist later. I love you, but love takes two. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. they want another - tell me to go, but don't look for me anymore. You want us to stay friends later, I'm sorry I don't want you to exist later. I love you, but love takes two. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. Three becomes too many. You loved both - let me make it easier for you to choose. You're leaving me well - but don't look for me later. Adults are built characters who want to model some kind of "man" next to them ... if only they are not alone. Something like taking a cat to pet and harass at the same time. Ungodly selfishness that has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. which has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here. which has no end. Expectations to the sky for all sorts of little things. Never understanding who I am. Yes, an 18-year-old girl is 100 times better than you. - Yes, I agree here.

   Number 26 - I understand what you're talking about? I also think that a relationship may be a secret, but it turned out that I was involved in a big brother. Everything was really known, information that only she and I could know was known by third parties. Hey, I posted a comment here, I don't know how much time they will have left to detect it. Abe seems to be using some military equipment. The Bulgarians are such a tribe, we will die to betray someone. Let's just see something curious and it follows. It's not that it's my job. But ... How do you plan to hide it? The neighbor will see you and then your husband will know what you did not say. You are alone in a secret place. Abe has no secret places, I don't know if they use satellites. Who are these big brothers, I have no idea. It is not possible to hide in Bulgaria. So if you want the other, go without hiding - it makes no sense. And be ready for yours to leave you. Do you want the other,

   Author, in theory you are right, but in practice ... infidelity is infidelity. Relationships are not food ... that's an elementary comparison! The normal person, if he realizes that the other is cheating on him, loses trust, cools down and turns against his partner ... quarrels begin ... separation or unbearable marriage follows, in which there is nothing but cohabitation. See you. Sex is the most intimate act between two people ever.

   From number 9. First to number 18, sorry for confusing you with the author, but as I look at you with the same "male passions" and I did not assume that you are another person. I watch you hit him on an in-depth psychological analysis. There are a few truths you have told, but in general you have written for a very long time, obviously the topic with young girls deeply excites you. This version for 17 or 20-year-olds didn't grab me at all, it's not viable in my eyes, but you're right about the addiction to the mature partner. Anyway, I won't bother people. To the author. Whore are the performances of old bachelors like you, who think that sleeping with a young girl will bring back the mileage. Well, he's not going to be my man, you're hitting forty soon. At this age, people have 2 children each and fight hard for their families while you look under the skirts of schoolgirls. Don't explain to me what the women of 30, 40 were like, because they told you several times here in the comments that people like you failed to keep a valuable woman, so they deal with inexperienced girls. He raised his beloved, I will faint! You took a virgin girl and you get excited, just like a teenager. And the fact that you call me a whore in public speaks volumes about you as a man. You cannot oppose an elementary verbal dialogue, much less a real woman. Number 22, right !? Are you sitting on a development over the years, or are you changing. If an 18-year-old girl would have the maturity of a 30-year-old woman, there is no way to become the least, life experience teaches. He raised his beloved, I will faint! You took a virgin girl and you get excited, just like a teenager. And the fact that you call me a whore in public speaks volumes about you as a man. You cannot oppose an elementary verbal dialogue, much less a real woman. Number 22, right !? Are you sitting on a development over the years, or are you changing. If an 18-year-old girl would have the maturity of a 30-year-old woman, there is no way to become the least, life experience teaches. He raised his beloved, I will faint! You've taken a virgin girl and you're just as excited as a teenager. And the fact that you call me a whore in public speaks volumes about you as a man. You cannot oppose an elementary verbal dialogue, much less a real woman. Number 22, right !? Are you sitting on a development over the years, or are you changing. If an 18-year-old girl would have the maturity of a 30-year-old woman, there is no way to become the least, life experience teaches.

   26 to 32: Actually, it's not my style to hide at all. Do you know which is the most "fun"? My husband knows that I have feelings for the other. How does he know? I tell him. Because I can't and I don't want to lie. However, he is adamant that if I sleep with the other, he will not be able to bear it. I have already come to terms with the idea that he would leave me, but I am horrified by the suffering of this innocent man, whom I also love. What if the other is just sex? There may be no human understanding between us and I can break a wonderful relationship because of one sex ... And yet ... I can neither suffocate (try!) Such an attraction, nor impose it under the carpet. Day and night I meditate and torment myself and decide one thing or another. About the secret ... I don't know how I will keep it. If he gets there, I'll think about it. And the Other has no interest in hearing that he was with me. For the record: this who puts to the test all my beliefs about a monogamous relationship is no younger. She is even older than my husband. I only like such men. The relationship with a set does not tempt me at all and it has always been so. Alpha, w. 26

   Number 29, the ones you deal with are exceptions from the table that you skillfully choose consciously or not. And being an excellent student at school is not a guarantee that you are really smart, but rather that you are definitely not lazy ... and maybe that you tend to be too executive ... to the point of stupidity. But let me not go into details now, because most people already understand this, I dare say that to you too.

   Number 31 - in addition to contradicting yourself - would be faithful to her, but at the moment he is not and unleashes two girls - it can have a lot of problems with law enforcement, dealing with girls of 14. Which most sincerely I wish you.

   Number 37 You are even annoyed by this wish.

   I'm not number 37, but who is annoyed by what is his personal problem! :)

   From the author to No. 34: I miss the insults, because I think I really insulted you, maybe I deserve it back. I just want to say that people of 40, with two children only think they are mature (I hope you are not among them). In the interest of truth, I do not know married and MATURE MATURE people. Especially if they are imposed by society. I do not want to offend anyone, just my personal opinion. I'm sorry I'm even going there with this girl. I think before her, when I was single, I was more mature ========================= But30. Chinese society is not like ours. Although the collectivism that is present in our culture brings us closer to them than to Westerners. Here, however, when the Chinese have a problem of this nature, they ask their mothers and fathers, and do not use forums. More precisely, their parents have already told them what to do without having to have problems: ) If you want to be 30. For the Chinese, being 18 or 30 makes NO difference. It is a matter of life experience when you will see. My friend is far ahead of the very, very 30-year-olds here. But when I say A LOT, understand literally. One deviation. We continue to be together. We still don't have any problems. We even built a little routine. We feel wonderful. It's definitely not just about sex anymore. We even started diluting it. We miss each other, even though we see each other for 3-4 hours a day. Am I serious about her? Can't I appreciate the "mature" Bulgarian women so far? Does that make me immature and naive? The fact that I'm not with one, but with an 18-year-old Chinese woman, speaks for itself. I'd rather be immature and naive at 18 than at 30. You think what you want and keep putting me in your own prejudices, I still have back thoughts because of all the whores that have lined up for me ... all still mature, most of them are still shredding their asses. I know that not every one of you has had a bad life and you think I'm telling you naive, immature nonsense, but you don't know me and you don't know about the experience with the women I've had. So let's stop here.

   I do not meet either of the two conditions, but I will give you my opinion - you have no future. Of course, now you can foam at me a lot and start mentally refuting me, but accept the truth. You are 2 times older than her. in 3-4 years she will still be alive, how do you see yourself at 40 going to discos? And what are you talking about so much? Dude, realize that. You can be her father and that sucks. How do you imagine life? Are you having a child with her and living in an idyll? It's possible, but I think it's more possible - you get bored of her, she wants more, you can't give it. More dancing, more life, more sex, more and more. Think! Success!