Hello people!!! There is a huge problem in my family. My younger sister, who is 18 years old, got pregnant by a gypsy 12 months ago and when we found out she was already in the fourth month and there was no way to have an abortion. So we gave the child up for adoption and she continued to go to school. Now, however, we understand that the "father" in question has become interested and has filled my stupid sister's head with nonsense and wants to take the child (I hope this does not happen). My family is in shock because everything can be heard, and also because the boy my sister has a child with is extremely poor and is a drug addict on top of everything. So my question is whether there is any chance from the "Child Protection Agency" not to return the child to them, because she has already given up on him, and the birth certificate says an unknown father. Thanks to everyone who can speak on the issue and if anyone can also give advice on how to dissuade her from making this mistake that will ruin her life, and that of my whole family I will be extremely grateful !!! :)
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Yes, she is really stupid because she is tied to your minds. Your child is hers and there is nothing wrong with leaving him at home. I don't know where from where to where and you interfere with her, that you want advice. I have an older brother and he never bothered me. Take care of your life and let the girl live as she wants.
If all this is true and you have not watched too many "fates at the crossroads", I will answer you like this, risking not liking my comment. First, yes, there is a way to take the child, for a child, even if he is rejected, the best place to grow up is in his family environment, if he is not already adopted. She is 18 and is an adult and can take her child. Secondly, this is your nephew and grandson, as you threw him out of the country and washed your hands, what did you prove? Or did you save some of you from human tales? Third, your sister is not to blame for getting pregnant at the age of 17 by an unpleasant person for you, where your 17-year-old parents were, so as not to raise her, both with whom to talk and to give her sexual education. She did not become pregnant by this individual without talking to him, isn't she raped? However, she seems to have spent enough time with him when she was 16, where were her parents then? Fourth, whose life will ruin the little creature, will ruin the life you have planned for her, how should she live it? Don't you think that the choice of how to live her own life is hers, she is an adult?
The father has the full legal right to find and take the child. He can always say that he was not notified. If she goes to judge you, you hid from him, knowing who she is ... There's nothing you can do, she's an adult - she can take the decisions herself, and he ... pray he doesn't remember to judge you !!
What is this orientalism. You are 100% from a small rural town. "Not to be heard" ??? Is this what worries you the most? You made her leave her child, give it up, you don't feel sorry for your child's blood, and you were worried that they might accidentally return the child to them. You are pathetic ... not the beast of the child, your whole family is pathetic and you act uniquely simple and elementary.
The mother has the right to withdraw the initially given consent for adoption until the submission of an application for establishment by the candidate adopters - reference to the Family Code. In case she wants her child, it will not be returned to her just like that - assessment of parental capacity, supportive environment, at the discretion of the social process, reintegration process begins. Is the child in an institution, a foster family, a child? Be aware that by giving consent for adoption, the child is already entered in the register of children for full adoption and may already have been adopted.
It really sounded like a Latin soap to me, but if it's true, I wonder how a child who, if already adopted, will be returned? There is already a family. I also imagine adopting a child and after a while Ivancho and Mariyka come and tell me "give it to me". If he's at home (I'm shivering at the thought) maybe. I hope it is either adopted or the parents take it so that it does not grow into an institution. We all know what's going on there, don't we. A neighbor in the same way was left at home in the past, after a year he was taken back, but the injuries are still there - he will be 20 years old, he pees at night. I hope the child did not stay at home for long.
Even if the child is adopted, provided that he / she has not had a voluntary refusal (signature) on the part of the father, the child is returned by law to the parent !!! I have no words for you author, but there is no free lunch in this life .... everything comes back / pays !!! You will pay too!
7, the child is given for adoption, but it is not certain that he has been adopted. if so, there is no chance of taking him, he is already a child of other people and by law nothing connects him with the biological parents until the age of 18, when he can only decide with whom to live. if the birth certificate says "father unknown", then the father must file a paternity case. if you say he is a drug addict and from a very poor family, he probably won't have the means to do so. and you can convince your sister that it is in her best interest to leave things in the past and move on. the gypsy is apparently trying to dig something out of her next to the child. tell her that he must first find a job and a home to prove to the social services that he is serious. this is unlikely to happen, so she will see that nothing happens to him. F43