There are no limits to love, but I'm not talking about the striking differences, but those up to 10 years. Very often girls / women go with men a few years older, since high school they even like mostly Batkovs. Why is it normal for a woman to walk a few years older, if the opposite and a year difference to be seen as a long time? I wonder because I notice this phenomenon, and I have heard many people talk about it. And please, that women mature faster is a complete cliché, outwardly maybe, but having big breasts and feminine features at a younger age does not automatically make you wiser. I know them, some of my sets were very big leagues. As well as this nonsense that almost always the man wants a frivolous relationship and "make a living", and the woman from a child wants to see herself as a bride. I never wanted to change boyfriends, I always wanted to meet the woman for me and start a family. And to have 2-3 children. I have no sense of inferiority to change any one-dayers. And I can't go to nightclubs at all, etc. I go out as much as I can to have fun with my wife, because she loves it very much (bars and restaurants, not clubs exactly). You could say that I always wanted to be a husband and a father. Unlike many men, for me marriage (not the wedding) is very important and I have always wanted the woman next to me to wear the ring, to have my name, to be one. I do not run away from responsibilities, even when I have children I do not imagine to divorce and another to look after my children, to quarrel with them or God forbid to touch them (the other is also inadmissible for a father to separate them from the mother). I'm going to sit with the woman and that's it - even if we can't stand each other. Because with the decision to become a father, the children must come first, then my own self. But don't think the worst now. I have a wife from this year, 4 years older than me. And for me it's a negligible difference, yes I'm 25, she's 29, and? And even though I'm a man, she was the one who found it harder to get married anyway. Yes, I admit that I am a conservative type for some things. But on the other hand, I am not like some men - lazy, waiting for the woman to serve them and they do not have any paternal responsibilities (and marital). We hardly cook, but order food, because we both have such professions that do not allow us to stay 5 hours in the kitchen. She is a very clean and tidy woman and she takes care of it because she is better at it. But the garden and all the responsibilities in it, as well as for the dog, because we have a Labrador, I take care mainly. It's a pleasure.
The other thing is that she mainly drives, I have a license, but I drive like a killer, I just can't and that's it. I avoid doing it. I have lactose intolerance (if I eat, I'll probably roll in two) and I don't eat dairy products, that doesn't mean that knowing that she loves it a lot, we don't buy them. Like her, she is a vegetarian, but I love meat and the woman buys it. Living together is not good for me, and you dogs ate you. Compromises must be made on both sides so that there is a balance. As long as there is no indiscriminate spending on nonsense, I have the right to things for myself, as well as for her, provided that one does not support the other, we just live as a couple. From where to where will I hold her or me to account for something we really wanted? I am writing this topic because I often see men who are not men at all, as well as women who are completely selfish. It does not seem normal to me to have a baby, for example, and the father not to be able to change or soothe a diaper. So you will sleep peacefully while the baby cries, and if you wake up first you will wait for your wife, instead of you going to calm him down ... to get rid of her. This is a shame for me! I am even more indignant when I have a living example - a terrible father-in-law and a wonderful mother-in-law who does not know how to tolerate it. He neither works nor helps at home, just lies down, goes out with friends and laziness at home again. And on top of that he finds flaws otherwise. This is not a sign of any manhood. And I don't consider myself perfect, I have my shortcomings, for example I'm a little angry, but not hot-tempered and I can remember something for a long time, talk to you in vain, etc. My wife is very hot-tempered, and after 5 minutes goose. And he loves to dispose of everyone without feeling it. But together we try to reduce our bad traits and I think we bring good people together. My thought is, can you refute my point of view, answer my questions, why are these things happening? Give personal examples? I don't believe so much, but I think I'm getting into the characteristics of my zodiac sign, namely I'm a Cancer man.
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Well men become men later, they want families later. There are all sorts of combinations, just say a man wants to have a family at 35 and is looking for a younger one, because women can only get pregnant normally until a certain age.