Hi! I'm a boy 20 years old. About a year and a half ago, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, we were in a serious relationship for about three years. It was time for both of us to move forward as we had fundamentally different understandings about our relationship and life in general. I'd say I've been the same as the breakup, although I think of it regularly.
I took a lesson from this toxic relationship and I was determined to move on. I've been alone for over a year now. I can't complain a woman's attention-there are a lot of girls around me, I have girlfriends, I share with them and I would say that I largely know how women think.
The problem is, I've never been in love since the breakup, nor have I liked any girl seriously. There were at least 4-5 girls who liked me and wanted things to work out, but I was the one who tugging.
Given when I know what girls I have refused. But I didn't want to get caught up with anyone. I wanted to really get things together with the girl to feel the thrill. And now I'm starting to think that this moment is not coming. I'm afraid I can't even think of girls worth trying and spending my time with. I haven't tried dating apps because frankly, I don't believe that people who use them are looking for something serious. I do not know if the right girl will come only at some point or if I have to look for him myself...