I have been married for 16 years and have two wonderful children. We have been living with my mother-in-law for 16 years. At the beginning of our family life, everything was normal. But over the years, my mother-in-law's dominance over my husband prevailed. From the very beginning, there were disagreements between the two families. But let's not go into details. I will briefly describe my current situation. Due to the fact that my parents completely rejected me from their lives, that is, they transferred their property to my younger sister, they rejected me for no reason. All my life I took care of their health, although I did not live with them. Their attitude at home was a real hell for me. In the attitude of my husband and mother-in-law - humiliated, insulted and unjust. For my husband, I have no price once I am rejected and have no inheritance. According to him, I should live in his home, without conditions and claims - without rights. My mother-in-law insults me for being a "bastard" thrown into their home. Over the years, I look after my children, my home and my responsibilities, I don't have time for entertainment. But they are never happy with me. A year ago, I started working on a second employment contract at a medical center because my income was insufficient. For 2-3 years my husband has been on a separate budget, and I raise my children with my own funds. Tell me how to deal with this situation? After so many years of a decent marriage, don't I have rights?
Protection for myself and peace of mind for my children? The above-mentioned lives his personal life. That is, he justifies that he takes care of the family by paying some other bill, otherwise he has fun with companies and leads a profligate life. I have been repeatedly threatened with expulsion. The apartment is his and if I don't play by his rules, it can happen. I appeal for your help and protection, because I am not a slave after all and I have rights and we live in the 21st century!
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I don't know what your financial situation is, but I think the best option is to get a divorce and go to a place to live with your children. This is not life. Besides, it's not worth living with a man who insults you and kills his complexes on you, let him stay with your mother, save yourself, the hardest thing to think is that you will be able to deal with the accommodation, not with it you leave, but the fact that it will be difficult for you does not mean that it is impossible. Run faster from there until they have completely ruined you.