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How To Talk To Children About Sex
Not infrequently and all life is guided by this questionable informations. This is because the sex topic for many parents is not the most comfortable, even with friends dodging to comment on it. Despite the disturbance and fears, the children have to talk. Why.
They will learn about sex from someone else adolescents who are interested in sex and it is understandable and completely natural. Their body changes, relationships with peers – also they try to know as much as possible.
There are millions of questions in their head that want to be addressed to someone.
Every time you deny them an answer, or you sneak out with some common phrases, you give them the opportunity to get informed about these questions from elsewhere-it's hardly the library.
You leave the child to chance If you deny him the necessary information about his body and the sex, you expose him directly to danger.
"Parents worry that if they talk to the child on these subjects, they will directly push him to have sex. In fact, that's not the case at all. These children, who were regularly informed by their parents, later began sexual relations," explains Prof. Vinsen Guomo-Ramos from the Family Planning Center in New York.
If you do not provide information or give it access to the correct sources, the information will find it. And it will hardly be what you would like it to receive.
Can stagger by pornography when searching for information about sex, the most accessible source is pornography sites.
It is natural that they have a bad influence on unfortified children's psyche. If it often watches such films, it can develop dependence. Because it's a simple and quick way to get pleasure. The images and patterns of behavior in these films differ from reality. So the child acquires an unreal idea and creates a wrong pattern of behavior.
Finally, those who watch pornography in early teenage age, more often tend to "practice" saw in real life, which can have dangerous consequences.
He's not going to say thank you for that. Sex is an important part of life and for mistakes, usually, we pay dearly. No matter the age and gender. Misinformation about sex can bring great psychological, physiological, and material damage. When children become victims of attitudes or actions for which they have not been warned, they naturally experience resentment and resentment. And in the first place, it directed to the parents who neglected to explain and protect them. And in this case, "warned, means-armed." It is the parents who have to give their child the proper "weapon".
Children find it difficult to cope with their own sexuality on their own.
An honest and frank conversation about sexuality begins in the family, where children gain not only knowledge but also confidence that their desires, experiences, and feelings are normal.
This confidence helps them to calmly and boldly study their own preferences, and to learn about sex even the simplest things such as why it is necessary to use a condom.
You will not go through a conversation about "stamens and bees". To make it easier for the child to make future choices and communicate with a partner, it is important to talk seriously - including various practices, possible techniques, limits, and emotions during sex.
The more teenagers know about themselves and their own boundaries, the safer and more enjoyable sex they will have.
Parenting requires this frank and honest conversation about sex. The beginning is difficult, it can even be awkward, but the benefits always outweigh the possible disadvantages.