1. I hate in myself that I am not enterprising, I am often afraid to take the first step towards something I really want, I am not one of the most sociable, but on the other hand I get together with sociable people and that helps me. I hate that I have low self-esteem and I underestimate myself, I am very self-critical. 2. Strongly yes. Well, by no means will everyone like you, but when you are confident and know what you are doing, you feel good, it is reflected in your broadcasting and people feel it. Your authority is felt. If you believe in yourself, people will believe in you too, at least most of them. But if you shrink like a mouse, the others see it and will attack you immediately. 3. I have no explanation for attraction ... it often just happens, even on a subconscious level. Some people have magnetic radiation, a confidence that is attractive to many people. Often even if someone is not nice, he still has a lot of fans, simply because he feels good in his skin and radiates confidence. Other people have a certain type of person who they will like and when they meet those who meet their criteria, things happen. But the most important thing to attract is to feel good about yourself. Then it is noticed by others. Saturn
1 kymcherry answered
1: That I'm too weak 2: Definitely not liking something in yourself won't make others withdraw (as long as you don't bother them constantly with this thing) 3: I don't know why this is a question at all, attraction is only for psychological and emotional level