I would support you for the age difference before I read that he is married and has children, and that is the bigger problem. My husband and I are 17 years apart, but when I met him he was single and had never had a family. I don't know what you expect from a married man. You may love each other, but he probably won't leave his family because of your adventure. You are the loser in this case, because he is having fun, and you are wasting your precious time meeting a man with whom to build your own family.
And he likes to spray your plum when he gets a chance to run away from his family for an hour. If you accept this - dare.
Oh, darling, I know how insanely beautiful it is, but I also know how cruelly one of you (or both) will burn in the end!
Still, I wish you success and a lot of love! Enjoy it while you can!
The man is married and has three children. I think you should make him dump his wife when he loves you and be alone with you. If he refuses, it means that he just uses you as a mistress.
Let the man look after his family, please. I was in a position for my father to have a mistress and I know how bad it is. Don't ruin his family !!!!!!
I suspect he doesn't love you.
No way. Just go on without him. You are young, you will meet another. He has many commitments. Don't ruin your life, his life, that of his three children and his wife. It's just too complicated and so - it should not be! Natural law.
How can you say that your mother commanded you and your father is obedient ... It's normal to be in love with this uncle now.
At least it's good that he's married (he'll fuck you a little and leave you), because if he hadn't he would have been very likely to take advantage of your naiveté and make you a child to tie you to for a long time. years ahead, during which you would grow up and realize that you no longer needed a father's replacement, but you probably wouldn't have the courage to take your life away from your uncle, who would already need Viagra to lift him. and if only that.
Otherwise, fuck him now - that's the only way it will work.
He has a family ... You will suffer
He will never leave you for his family.
You're just a toy in his hands.
Leave him and don't think about him anymore.
And in the future do not go out with committed men, it is not worthy.
I just can't understand why everything alive repeats that she was ruining his family ?! She is not married to his wife and the children are not hers! He's ruining his family! No one is responsible for the family of a pastor. And yes, you can't have a future with a married old uncle. And because of the family, and because of his age. He smells like dust, as they say. : d What loves him so much ... Have fun a few times and that's it.
Why don't you ask him, as he loves you, when he will leave his wife with the children and live with you? You know the answer, don't you? Exactly never. Or are you happy to be the shameful secret of his life, the yard with the garbage cans behind the facade, which is not for display? The sex entertainment doll after the routine and grayness of an uncle's family life in the midlife crisis. Now you are his mistress, in a year you will be his ex-mistress. I hope one day you will be on the other side and understand what you are doing to his wife and children. Because there is no happiness built on someone else's misfortune and everyone gets what they deserve.
If he doesn't love her, he does
If he does not want to divorce, it is not possible
You ask him when he will reconnoiter if you run around
Three children. I will even run away from a divorcee to hear this. And if this person dies 20 years before you, what will you do?
To N: 4 I don't know if you are a man or a woman, but you "challenge / facilitate" the division of a family !! I give you an example: The man broke up and then what will happen to the three children ?? Will you feed them ?? Will you give them money ?? This is a great sin. Always think twice and then speak up.
I've already seen this movie. It's not nice to ruin someone's family, I've already seen a friend do it with a man and definitely his wife and children didn't like it very much.
Aren't there men of your age for you?
People are right here. You have to change the title to "has a family and three children" ... that's your problem, not age.
Now I understand that young women are good for nothing but unbridled sex. An author to go to a 45-year-old married man with three children tells me that you are a morally and sexually corrupt woman. It was not enough for you that so far you have been hanging out with 20, 30 men, but now you have decided to fuck a married man of 45 years. If I am his friend, I will always warn him to use a condom because who knows what venereal flower you can give him. This can be expected from women like you. Just like you, they call them whores. There is no better definition for you.
I understand you perfectly. You will suffer like a dog. You lose in this situation, but love is blind.
Ah, you naive girl..As I read your story, and the like, I thank God that my daughter, about your age, got married very young and never got involved in what I think is the most disgusting scenario - a young girl I know that you will not be able to spoil it, you will only accumulate sins, which you will inevitably pay for. Now hear from a woman who could be your mother, men very, very rarely leave their families for another woman. they do it again then they are bitterly sorry. No man makes three .... three !!! children of a woman with whom he intends to separate. Take her and ask him - how he sees the future of your relationship. You will be immediately put in place. Leave the man to look after his children and grandchildren and treat his pains. Probably no one of your age looks at you when you run to chase a man your father's age. Shame!
20 years older or 20 years younger, still white, still not possible, all our dogs ate us ...
I speak from a very fresh, infinitely bitter experience!
Girl, you're just ruining his family. Just get out of his life.
I will admit something that defines me as a not so moral person, but I will tell myself. Sometimes it is easier for me to understand and justify a lover than to cheat.
Author, your friend is ruining his family alone. If it weren't for you, it would be someone else. However, you are that foreign element that came into his field of vision and wished. I say it again, if it weren't for you, it would be different. After 20 years of marriage, or at least 10, or after these three children, everyone wants to run away, explode or do something "crazy". Life has crushed him, crushed him, even squeezed him into a hollow. He's just tired. He looked at the same woman in all sorts of conditions - naked, in lingerie, neat, most often in home clothes, angry, roaring, angry, happy, dissatisfied, suspicious. She knows which tooth she has a filling on, what her breath smells like in the morning, how much time she spends in the toilet ... everything. There is no hidden-covered. He has decided that there is no point in talking because they know what the other will say; there is no point in arguing, because it is still the same; there is no point in long and quality sex because they have known their bodies for a long time and no longer find them attractive. If you decide that it doesn't make sense, then the meaning has long been lost - you don't want this connection, you don't make an effort for the other. In that case, yes, their marriage will fall apart. Your lord may have made an effort to win his wife over, but he found you instead. Young woman. No one sucked from your bust, you did not give birth. You do not have high requirements, because it is clear to you that he is married. You tell him about a love he almost forgot existed. You are at least a multiple. If it weren't for you, it would be different. He has fun, he has the game and the thrill, it's easy and he feels rejuvenated, but in love. What kind of mentality are you talking about? He cheats on a woman who has given birth to three children ... three children. So, 27 months of her life have passed in shaping his sequel, his generation. This woman washes the clothes you take off. And he betrayed her instead of sitting down and talking to her. He's lying to her. He seems to love you, he seems to have loved her too. He loves her enough to lie to her, and he loves you so much that you have a secret parallel relationship. Do you see how much his love costs? A few years, three children - over. He doesn't even have the courage to stand in front of her and tell her that he is not happy and wants something else. She explains herself to you in love, and falls asleep next to her. What kind of soul are you talking about? His soul is so deep that he cheats on the mother of his three children, lies to her every day and swears love to another. Do you love this soul? Does such love promise you? Do you think that if he leaves her and is with you, he will not cheat on you in 10 years? Don't be naive. He says nice words to you, and watch how he acts. Today is his wife, tomorrow is you. Follow the man's attitude towards his relatives - his mother, his friends, and in your case, as ironic and tragic as it is, his wife. You did not ruin his family, he ruined it himself, but you are exactly an accomplice and this is not a peace of mind.
And is it nice to be in second place? In your case on the fifth?
one can't always be in the first place. Sometimes, we have to settle for what we have!
am in almost the same situation ... except that we have not declared that we love each other, we avoid the word "love", but the behavior betrays both of us. It is clear that the longer we remain silent about our feelings, the longer this "relationship" will last. And now it's about a year. So up and down I know what's wrong with you! I would tell you to enjoy the time with him, enjoy him, but do not jump with both feet. But I think you are already .. I understand how you feel when you unlock your phone from there every time you smile at some suns, copies of your beloved man and the mixed feeling of affection, confusion and sadness .. that they are not yours, but only his. The feeling that everyone is living their own life and your paths intersect at some point and then everyone sinks into their own life again. And you know that you can't merge your daily life, creating your life together, as happens with normal couples. The feeling that you already want to build something with someone for whom you will be in the first place, not the hidden mistress. But every time you go out with a candidate, you look for similarities with him, and that's not fair to the other person, and you just stop. And you're waiting for it to pass.
Does a man have a wife and children then is never the same as before. The bond between him and his family is great. The first few comments told you exactly that. Listen to them.
You have fallen into a bad trap.
Of course, it is not possible to leave his wife and children - it will be a failure as a man, a man and a father. And if he decides it is a failure, how will you keep it, maybe with 4 children it will happen?
You have to wait for him to get bored. I hope it's before you're 35.
Wow ... how are you not ashamed to say "I love him". What you love, you ruin his life, and he crushes you. Hide somewhere because you should be ashamed of what you did and the fact that you realize it and keep doing it. Shameless! League! Absolutely worthless woman! Being with him for sex is one thing, but to say out loud that you love him ... shame.
No, Number 28, one is content with what one believes one deserves. To believe that he deserves to be by the way means that this person is not loved, disliked and appreciated.
to 32 - Bravo, exactly in the 10th floor.
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