I am very ashamed, I am a 19-year-old boy and after 5 months I turn 20 and I am still a virgin. A few days ago I met a girl and so the other day we decided to have sex but she turned out to be a virgin and she knew that I had experience because I had told her that I was not a virgin and so there were some cripples in bed that I was wondering to cry or to laugh. I had a lot of exposure, sometimes I fell, I finally couldn't put on a condom. Then I got up again, but it turned out to be super tight and I couldn't put it in, so in the morning she left and we didn't try again. I just can't find a place if something is wrong or just both of us as virgins and inexperienced and difficult. Besides, she was sitting like a tree lying down and only I was on top of her. Abe was very strange, I always thought that when the time came I would be done in 5 minutes. At most, it turned out to be a difficult job, at one time I didn't think about myself but only how to do it well and I only satisfied it with my finger. If I don't have sex for a few months, I told myself that I would get a prostitute on my 20th birthday. What do you say I'm already freaking out as if for the 2nd minute I'm thinking about SEX and whether I will not expose again. Thanks in advance for the advice.
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Hi, I'm an 18-year-old girl and until recently I was a virgin too. In general, I have a serious friend for 11 months now, but let's say that for me the first time as well as for many other girls was important and I did not want to do it with the first person I met, who will only want to have fun and then no to be interested in my feelings or what I want. The point is that age is not so important. What if you're 19 and still a virgin. I know people who are older and haven't done that either. An example of this is a friend of mine at the age of 21. And the fact that your first attempt was unsuccessful is due to the fact that you were probably worried about how you would present yourself to the girl, that it was your first time and that you both missed experience. So calm down and head up :). If you really like the girl, you can try again. If you don't find another one. As for the fact that your first time was not successful, it is most likely due to the tension: I will give you an example. My friend and I, when we took the step to have sex the first time, were so worried that our attempt was unsuccessful, although he is not a virgin, he has the necessary experience. Yes, but now that this tension has been overcome, everything is fine and in place - your sex is great. So up your head. Good luck and you won't have to worry, don't let this become a fixed idea for you. :) Yes, but now that this tension has been overcome, everything is fine and in place - your sex is great. So up your head. Good luck and you won't have to worry, don't let this become a fixed idea for you. :) Yes, but now that this tension has been overcome, everything is fine and in place - your sex is great. So up your head. Good luck and you won't have to worry, don't let this become a fixed idea for you. :)