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10 unexpected signs - Marriage
Of course, it is not said that any of the following signs necessarily lead to the rift, but not a bad person to mind them.
You have married as a student or have reached the age of 32
Unconditionally, the first love that grows into a full family is a wonderful thing. But, in the opinion of psychologists, the chances of early marriages falling apart are bigger.
This is because at the time of the inauguration in the official marriage the relationship in the couple has not yet been further formed. In the next few years their characters are changing and are not always able to understand the partner.
The reverse of the medal – a marriage, concluded after the 32 year, when a person has already built habits and is accustomed to devoting his time to his desires and pleasures, is not ready to take into account and fit with the partner. This can cause conflicts of household soil, followed by separation.
In the family, there are two daughters
Parents who have two girls differ greatly from those educating sons. Psychologists explain this statistic like this: fathers are more involved in the upbringing of boys, which means they are distracted by scandals with their wives.
Your parents are divorced
The percentage divorces in children who grew up in an incomplete family, the data of psychologists accounted for 40 percent. People who have not had a positive example in their early years are difficult to imagine how to build a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman. And vice versa-those who have witnessed love and understanding as small divorced less often.
Financial problems
They don't contribute to healthy relationships, but that's what everyone knows. Especially when the family has long been unable to shake off obligations.
The situation is exacerbated when one of the partners in the relationship is willing to spend the leftovers from the family budget for something small and expensive, without which it can be lived. In such cases, divorce is possible in 45% of cases.
One always misses the family photos
In the family photographs you can easily understand how happy the couple is. It is enough to see how and how often you smile in the photos. If you are upset by most executives or your partner seems unhappy, this is the first sign that things are not working for you.
Your partner smokes, and you do not
In couples where one is a smoker, problems can occur. You will quickly understand that your partner does not have much in common – you have a different outlook on life, different values.
The first child was born 8 months after the wedding
Statistics show that 24% of the marriages in which the partners know that they are waiting for a successor before the wedding, fall apart.
A woman earns more than a man
It may be strange, but the percentage divorces in cases where the wife earns more than the spouse are 60% more than the marriages in which the woman does not work at all.
The woman is older than the man
Another seemingly bizarre reason: When the wife is older than her beloved by more than one year, the probability of rift reaches 53%. This is related to the fact that the woman in the couple assumes many responsibilities and begins to fulfill the role of mother to her husband.
One of the spouses believes that he is always right
The reluctance to admit your mistake is a very common reason for the unfortunate marriage. Because it is right that they both learn to compromise and tolerate the other's desires.