Hello. Thanks in advance for your attention. I am a 32 year old woman. During these years, a lot of things went through my head. None of my close relatives I can count on are alive anymore. A ten-year relationship with a man who left me with a bunch of responsibilities and a bunch of abortions and low self-esteem. There was always some reason why right now was not the time for children .... And maybe there is a God that I did not give birth to this man, only I know how much harassment and how many infidelities I endured. With thousands of efforts, police, quarrels I managed to get rid of this man. I even had to quit my job. I had many difficult moments alone, but I managed to get back on my feet. I met a man I never even dreamed of, I'm happy, I'm insanely happy. I've never been in such a hurry to go home to see the most smiling person in the world ... and BEAM-HE CANNOT HAVE CHILDREN ... We have been together for about a year and a half, we have been trying for about six months, it didn't work. It was a terribly difficult conversation for me, but we discussed it and examined ourselves, and in the end the result showed that there could be no children ... When I understood, my stomach became like a matchbox. You have no idea with what flame in his eyes he spoke of how he wanted children from me ... his child his family to give final meaning to his life. I also don't have children of my own. Many of you will say that there is a solution - in vitro, adoption, of course - this is also a solution. But you have no idea how hard it is to watch the best man in the world so sad ... and in the end the result showed that there could be no children ... When I understood, my stomach became like a matchbox. You have no idea with what flame in his eyes he spoke of how he wanted children from me ... his child his family to give final meaning to his life. I also don't have children of my own. Many of you will say that there is a solution - in vitro, adoption, of course - this is also a solution. But you have no idea how hard it is to watch the best man in the world so sad ... and in the end the result showed that there could be no children ... When I understood, my stomach became like a matchbox. You have no idea with what flame in his eyes he spoke of how he wanted children from me ... his child his family to give final meaning to his life. I also don't have children of my own. Many of you will say that there is a solution - in vitro, adoption, of course - this is also a solution. But you have no idea how hard it is to watch the best man in the world so sad ...
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Always ... by law it will happen to a good person :) You know I don't believe what you say ... God knows his job and there is probably a reason for it to happen .. I have a familiar married couple who were married 11 years without a child ... finally people reconciled, adopted a child .. and were the happiest parents in the world .. there is not a year and the woman gets pregnant .. There is no such family .. from wherever they go they infect others with smiles. maybe the case is the same ... and maybe God wants to give a chance to live first to a child whose parents do not want him and then to reward you for charity :) I send you many hugs ... live and enjoy life. don't burden your everyday life unnecessarily :) Petya