Question To Men By A Woman

   And you women, how often do you pay your husbands? And I'm not talking about money. I'm talking on a purely emotional level. How often do you really give of yourself what you receive. Do you tell the man that you love him or that you are happy to be with him. Do you show him that you value him and appreciate what he is and what he does. Something lately seems to me that relationships have become a contract. How often did a man pay a woman's things for and without a reason. If you just stand and demand five bucks, you don't seem to give how he feels and what he does for you, and you shouldn't receive a single lev, let alone stay together.

   I always pay for the outings. As for the gifts, I make them only on occasion. However, if we are talking about a mistress like she is beautiful and looking for an uncle's money, and I have sex with a beautiful woman, which is different, then I pay according to how beautiful she is and how much I want her. In the beginning, while it is new and interesting to me, I pay to keep it. Then when I get bored, I stop paying and she goes down on her own for a while. If it is by love it is different. Not that I had a mistress, I'm talking in principle. I have no such intentions.

   I am a woman. I prefer to always share the bill, but lately I've found that some men take offense if they don't pay if they've invited me, and I leave them. But I always take out my wallet when the bill comes! Expensive gifts, trips, etc. I do not want. I'm not a stateswoman and I still work to gain some self-confidence and independence, don't I? It happened to me that sometimes I supported two of my exes when they were out of work. I was not offended.

   I am a woman and I spend a lot of money on myself. Men love women wearing branded clothes, hairstyles, manicures. I spend a lot more money on a date than a man spends on dinner. So it remains to share the bill, which will be the bottom already. And the man to take advantage of a pleasant coma and a beautiful woman. If I share the bill, I will pay it in full. What is such a man to me?

   Without this "If a woman behaves well, looks good, takes care of herself, gives everything in bed, does this change the answer to the above words?", There is no point in being with a woman. To get everything she wants, the woman must meet the preconditions. And if you're only together for sex, yes, everything has to be shared, because it's a pleasure for both of you. But if the woman behaves well in society and does not expose the man, she deserves the bonuses mentioned in the topic. There is a very wise thought, a woman should behave like a saint in society and like a whore in bed with her beloved man, everything else is just mating!

   In what age do people live? We both work and no one gives money to the other. Everyone has a salary and has a part of it (a part each of us gives for the general expenses such as bills, car care and extras such as excursions, going out in the evening, etc.). Neither do I ask him how much he gives for his hobby, nor does he care how much money I have given in the beauty salon. We live together and we pay the bills from the common money, when we go out we pay the common money again. We don't live in the 19th century to wait for someone to support me and give me money for shopping and a hairdresser. When I have money, I go shopping, when I don't have it, I don't go and that's it. because I have to go for a manicure - there is simply no way.

   Cinema is obsolete, now there is internet, interactive TV, movies can be watched both at home and on the go, which is a convenience, if it turns out that I did not like the movie, it turns out that I gave my money to the wind! Otherwise, they told me not to take a "dragon" who would want to take my apartment, and then dogs ate me! I'm going to look for a housewife like me, I'm not Rockefeller!

   Hey, it also depends on your relationship. Gifts and pampering are normal if a man has opportunities, but if they are boyfriends or just fucks her regularly. Some want to "knock" without money, while those who have the opportunity are still concerned whether they will pay. There are paralyzes, but scurvy. When I paid, it was not to buy sex, but to have a good time. There were, of course, cases where the chick offered to pay the whole bill. However, if I am the initiator, it is quite rude to make her pay. You take her somewhere more expensive, eat, drink and finally she pays. I personally do not accept this, at least for the first meeting. However, if I move together, there is no problem. And yes, a woman's attitude towards a man is very important. There is a joke: "whistles buy apartments and Porsches." I don't know how the other men are, but if I'm happy, I'll please her, because she deserves it and I'm fine with her. Let her have a good time with me.

   4, "A man to take advantage of a pleasant coma and a beautiful woman" I thought the company was mutual, but I was clearly wrong. I don't mind paying for the outings, but when you present it as a company for money, I feel a little upset.

   I have sex with a man for pleasure. I go out with him for pleasure too. I am not a companion to be paid "in kind" for expressing my personal will to be with this man. The only thing I expect is such an attitude. And rags, cosmetics, etc. I wear and I buy. I still work .. The bills are either split or one pays first, then the other. I only had some unpleasant memories with a gambler, but there the very carelessness to go out literally without a penny, because you lost your salary for two hours (you earned more than me), infuriated me, not the money I gave ..

   It is good that this site has it, so that I can find out how far the poverty and degradation of the people in this country have reached. The very question "How much do you pay a woman?", Which opens the topic, is shocking! Do you buy her shoes? But how will they buy my pants and shoes and from somewhere someone will give me money to dye my hair! Honestly, if a man shows such bad taste that he offers me money for a hairdresser, I will be seriously offended - I will take it as a hint that my hair is wrong. I'm married and I still don't understand why someone has to "pay me". And if I was free and I'm so dumb that I can't make 5 leva for tights, it's better to go out on the highway and honestly and honestly give him a whistle of the circulation for his money than to ask him for "nice company and a beautiful woman." And what makes this company pleasant? With the fact that the lark hasn't read a book since going around with beauticians and can't tie two words crosswise! This topic is the last in a long series of exactly the same - I have been following the forum for years. This worries me a lot. My husband and I have a common budget - it was the same in my parents 'family and in his parents' family. Each has access to the other's debit card for convenience. I asked him for money because I always forget to withdraw cash. This is a constant joke between us: give, dear, 10 leva, and he: aaaa, but you will make me a salad! But this is a joke. I receive presents for my birthday and Christmas. I always buy the clothes for both of them because he doesn't understand clothes. The technique is his concern, I am there full of sorrow. At 25, author, it's good to have a mind at work, and not in someone's pocket. You are currently in your most creative age, use the combination of youth and qualities, invest in education and contacts. At your age, a woman should have already started giving a meaningful product as a professional. Which doesn't stop you from "... behaving well, looking good, taking care of yourself, giving everything in bed."

   I have been with my husband for 6 years. Until our relationship was serious, we always understood whether we would split the bill, he or I would pay it. We both tried to get revenge on each other. If he pays for the pizza, I'll buy and cook something to cook in them next time. He always gave me a rose for my first meetings, but I asked him not to do it because I didn't want to watch them fall into a vase. I also don't like gifts, my parents never gave them to me, when there was an occasion they took me to choose something, and when I was older they gave me money directly and didn't deal with it. Now that we live together, my husband pays the rent, I buy almost all the food. He pays the biggest market on Saturday. I buy cosmetics myself, as well as procedures, insurance, fitness card, clothes ... It happens that we go out to see something and say, this is not dear to me, then he offers to buy it for me, and I wonder if I really need it. Most restaurants he pays for them, if I pay he sometimes irons and I give him the money. We do the opposite with the payments on the Internet, I pay there, and he gives me 100% of the money. He bought the furniture for the apartment, I just bought the sofa. But in our relationship, I earned a master's degree regularly at that time, he took all the expenses at home, I even received pocket money, so as not to spend what I spent on school. I don't think that a man has to pay everything, in order to have claims you have to participate financially in family life. And I can assure you that I am a terribly well-groomed and looking woman giving birth. F, 32 We do the opposite with the payments on the Internet, I pay there, and he gives me 100% of the money. He bought the furniture for the apartment, I just bought the sofa. But in our relationship, I earned a master's degree regularly at that time, he took all the expenses at home, I even received pocket money, so as not to spend what I spent on school. I don't think that a man has to pay everything, in order to have claims you have to participate financially in family life. And I can assure you that I am a terribly well-groomed and looking woman giving birth. F, 32 We do the opposite with the payments on the Internet, I pay there, and he gives me 100% of the money. He bought the furniture for the apartment, I just bought the sofa. But in our relationship, I earned a master's degree regularly at that time, he took all the expenses at home, I even received pocket money, so as not to spend what I spent on school. I don't think that a man has to pay everything, in order to have claims you have to participate financially in family life. And I can assure you that I am a terribly well-groomed and looking woman giving birth. F, 32 I don't think that a man has to pay everything, in order to have claims you have to participate financially in family life. And I can assure you that I am a terribly well-groomed and looking woman giving birth. F, 32 I don't think that a man has to pay everything, in order to have claims you have to participate financially in family life. And I can assure you that I am a terribly well-groomed and looking woman giving birth. F, 32

   I have seen relationships in which a man tries to buy a woman's attention with gifts, dinner breaks. Poor picture. And I did it once. But this kind of relationship kills all attraction. The woman feels bought, the man feels unworthy of love and compensates with money. Even if they are together, the relationship turns into torture - dissatisfaction, infidelity, loneliness. If there is no real love and attraction, money is not possible. To the author's question - for the bills, I usually offer to pay, but if I see that the woman feels uncomfortable and wants us to separate them or take turns, I'm OK. Honestly, I accept the bills for trifles and I don't care who pays. However, it makes a good impression on me if at least sometimes the woman also pays the bill, even if she is in one of five outings. I don't like mercantile women and I feel bad if I feel that they look at me like a wallet. If I feel that I do not have a strong attraction with a woman, then we just do not fit. If I'm going to give money for sex, I'd better give it to a prostitute. Overall, although I earn a decent living, a modest lifestyle makes me happier. I do not like unnecessary luxury and ostentatious spending. For me, a phone for BGN 2,000 is absurd and I would not give something so expensive to a woman. I gave my ex-girlfriend books, tickets for personal development seminars, for concerts. If he asked me for money for a hairdresser or clothes, I would not give (unless we are already a family with total money, but that's different). It is right for a person to cover these costs himself. Regarding vacations and trips - I would not take a woman on vacations to impress her, I feel sorry. But I wouldn't travel to have fun without my partner. Rather, if I want to go somewhere, but I judge, that I can't afford to pay for it either, I won't go. I will wait a year, for example, I will raise money to go together and then. If the woman next to me wants to pay her share or she takes me somewhere, I don't mind. If he makes some money and can't, I'm OK and I'll cover the cost. But only when I think I can spend that money.

   I fully share the opinion of number 10, this is the right way in my opinion G, 21

   And why do men have to pay women, you claim to be equal, equal in everything with men. Once you work and earn well, such a question is unnecessary to ask. If you are equal to men, you will be equal in pay, otherwise it seems that men pay for sex like prostitutes. So that you don't misunderstand me, I'm a big scoundrel, I'll give you an example with an ex-girlfriend of mine. She was a divorced woman with a 9-year-old boy. The woman worked, earned well, but had to move into her new apartment. Without her asking for anything, I decided to buy her a nice kitchen table set with four chairs. She was very surprised and thanked me from the bottom of her heart several times. At the same table we had many pleasant evenings in her apartment. Our relationship lasted over three years and we still have a good relationship after the end of this relationship. And you, as you ask the question, sound like selling sex. You sound very mercantile to me.

   The real man does these things. Mold and alum don't do it, they just whine about women, and call them whores and mercantile, but otherwise they want whistles and I don't know what you are. And I do not understand what that means - gives him everything in bed? Isn't she a prostitute to give him everything? From where? Does he give in bed too? Or what do you call - for her to give it to him, for him to buy it for her, for a concubine - a rich lover ??? No, it doesn't! And why does only a woman who takes care of herself deserve love? Remember that we are not all playmates and mutters, and there are relationships where everyone works, buys and pays for themselves. But a woman will always be pleased to receive such gestures, even if she pretends to be very emancipated and does not admit it.

   I'm gay, thank God, and I don't understand or care. With us, things are cleaner and more normal. I don't understand your heterosexual relationships, and I must admit, they disgust me. I am disgusted by both heterosexual men and women. Not that we don't have them either, but they are rare. I have female friends, of course, as well as men, but they think differently than most heterosexuals. I go out with them, and as a man, of course, I pay their bills - because a gay man doesn't mind being a man, and he can be a lot more than a straight man, and I like it. But I do not judge anyone, everyone lives as he wants, no one has the right to judge. Author, tell us a little more about your relationship, how you behave with men, do you expect this from them, do you like it, and so on.

   From the author Hello, number 18. To answer your question: I have had several serious relationships such as the longest 3 years. We didn't live together because I was 19 at the time. It was always the same with him and the other men. I have my own money and car, I took care of everything myself and I paid all my bills whether it was food, rest (even the hotel), travel (we shared the fuel) and all women's things. I take good care of the man next to me and I try to help him with everything. I love sex and I have never deprived the person next to me of it. I love gestures and surprises, my work related to travel once every 2 months and I always bring a small gift, sometimes I just see something in the window and I know that I will make him happy or it will be useful to him, it will suit him well. I always listen carefully and if he has told me something, I remember it down to the smallest detail and I always see it if I have the opportunity to buy. For every occasion I have a gift wrapped by me with paper and an inscription card. I never behave disrespectfully or rudely in front of people, friends and families. It happened that he got sick - I look at him, bring medicine, etc. On the last part of the question: So far no one has treated me the way we had a relationship. I expect the man to have an attitude towards me and this to be evident. The topic is in order to gather opinions, because I changed the office and the environment. All women are 20-30 years old. I constantly listen to their husbands take care of everything, give money for the house, the car, clothes. They give away new phones, vacations for two, expensive cosmetics. My colleagues do not look bad, but they are not such women to catch the eye. I was thinking, that these women are not superior to me in any way, on the contrary, but have men who provide them with everything. Thanks for the comments.

   To the author of 13 - as you described it, not your colleagues are superior to you, but you are superior to them. It's really not that hard to get a man to feed you financially. You will do a little better, you will learn female tricks. But will you be happy with that? A man who is OK to be treated like a piggy bank usually has low self-esteem. And that very likely kills any attraction. Would you like to be with a complex that does not attract you? Would it be OK to feel like a commodity? And if things change tomorrow and the man no longer has money, the relationship ends. You decide what works best for you. For example, I would be with a woman like you if we liked each other. But I would not tolerate someone like your colleagues, although I have above average income.

   To number 18. And I have a gay friend who has always paid my bills, no matter how much I insist on paying for myself. I am a woman and we are just friends. And some big males I'm supposed to date have almost counted my bites. One had even bought me 2 coffees and then got angry that nothing happened between us and we were "eating and drinking". Personally, I have no problem paying for my things, but I'm tired of scoundrels who tell women how mercantile they are and only they look under a magnifying glass at what you buy or order. Annoying story. I understand that for many people the financial situation is not flourishing, but there are already thin accounting stories. Even when I didn't have money, I still didn't make such thin counters as many men.