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Problem With Self-control ...

By fantaisies38 October 30, 2020 4 answers Last updated October 30, 2020

Hello, I recently noticed the following problem. I am a man of 26 years and when I have sex with my girlfriend I always look for the act to be long enough to be satisfied (from 30 minutes to 1 hour). I know how to control myself and keep my cum, which also gives me a lot of pleasure. Recently, however, after 2-3 times mastering it comes to the point that there comes a time when I fall. Well, after help from her, I'm "on the line" again and I take the opportunity to finish at the first opportunity, but it's not the way I want it to be (and as it was before). The more serious problem comes when we do it a second time (even after a few hours of rest). It has happened to me several times already after twenty minutes of sex (without having to hold on), which simply refuses me to try to finish. Is the problem in this "detention"

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ryank25 answered · October 30, 2020

   Maybe there is something psychological, and something similar happens to me, when I hold on I hold on and then I can't finish :-)

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BlondieBrooke answered · October 30, 2020

   This detention is certainly not recommended - any doctor will tell you! Harm to the prostate. But I don't think that's the reason. You just don't have to expect your stamina to always be the same. You grow and change - accept it. Focus more on foreplay, slow down penetration. And remember that it's not the quantity that matters, it's the quality! Success!

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maggiegurl answered · October 30, 2020

   It happened to me some time ago, but I think it's all psychological. Talk more with your partner about this problem and everything will fall into place. The support of your partner is very important. M33

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laurabethlove answered · October 30, 2020

   Well, give more information to give you the right advice - it is approximately how long it ends and under what circumstances. There are different women - some end up quickly only with the tongue, finger, others want in the ass ... well, diversify the program to find out what she likes the most and thus you will not waste time and create complexes ...