Hello! I am 20 years old, 185 cm, 75 kg, from Blagoevgrad, now I am a student at TU-Sofia and I am in a dormitory in Student City, and I have a very big problem with the girls. I am a virgin. The problem is that I don't know how to behave with girls and what to talk to them, I also don't know many girls, and we hardly talk to those I know. I rarely go to a disco because when we go we are just boys or the others are with boyfriends. Going to a disco and watching others makes me even worse because I'm not ugly or stupid, but with girls I'm round zero and I don't know what to do. I'm already going crazy, after 10 days I have exams and I haven't lost a gram. I'm just hanging out in front of the computer and browsing www.site.com and I'm just angry because so many girls write that they're looking for sex, and when I ask them directly, they either don't write or they laugh at me or block me. I was also looking for a prostitute, but it didn't work - 3 times I called different ads and all the time they told me that the ad was fake. I'm fighting, but they don't like me anymore, I'm tired of them and I don't know - if I don't have sex soon or at least get a boyfriend I'll go crazy. I don't know if anyone can help me, but I can still try here.
Answers 9
Hello, it is not clear from your letter whether you are looking for a girlfriend to have a man next to you, or you are looking for a girl just for sex? My opinion is that the more you delve into a problem, and pay attention to it, the bigger it becomes. Let things go by themselves, don't try to think about it alone, and you'll see how everything will work out on its own. Good luck and more confident with women.
Well, the problem is in you. Relax. Go out more. Have fun. Meet new people. I started my serious relationship at the age of 20 and I was desperate, but now I have a boyfriend of a year and a half. I just shook off the thought that I must have a boyfriend and that's when it came. So live your life and have fun, and don't despair when you're 20 years old. Success!
:( Dude, I'm like that too (except that I'm 16), you'll probably say that I'm small and what I understand and you're right, but I've noticed that this with the girls is mastered in cafes, discos, etc. And I'm poor, like you just hanging out in front of the computer and studying (I just can't stand social gatherings, not that I'm ugly or defective thing.) So, I hope you get better, but I don't know, chance!
Hello from me, number 2 has given a very good offer and I have been on this for sure for 2 years but this is without result but we can not constantly look for girls. But for me it's different because I'm 16 and I'm not even in Bulgaria, I don't know anyone, I stay in front of the computer all day, of course, after school, and I go home on the computer, the famous Skype, so you're not the only one.
So am I. I'm 17 but with the girls alone bare water.
hahaaha Guys, a woman should not be understood, but loved. Well, let me ask the author, his problem is that he is a virgin, or that he does not have a girlfriend ??? Sex is not everything! When you meet the right girl, you will feel how nice it is to love and be loved! How nice is it in the evening when you come back to have someone ask you how your day went? Then when you make love, not just fuck someone, you will understand the sweet side of things. And which one will be the right one ... when it appears, you will feel it. And your problem with virginity - you are in Sofia - light women as much as you want - AIDS, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, etc. etc. also in abundance! The choice is yours! Success! Medical student
You are not the only one and it is not too late. All in good time.
I don't know guys, I'm 16, some girls shout (eee, you're so cute) and the next day, anyway, we didn't have a conversation, I don't know what the problem is, but obviously it's in me, I don't know how others around me accept me and I keep quiet. something that is not fun and they start grumbling at me and then of course you get dumb there and you go away but it doesn't fix the problem with you and I don't go to cafes and discos and you carry your dad alone ....
Hello, I am seventeen years old, I have exactly the same problem. The point is that I am anxious and I am naked with the girls. I am not ugly, even the opposite haha. Sometimes I have the feeling that I am rejected and so on and so forth.