Hello! I am 20 years old, 185 cm, 75 kg, from Blagoevgrad, now I am a student at TU-Sofia and I am in a dormitory in Student City, and I have a very big problem with the girls. I am a virgin. The problem is that I don't know how to behave with girls and what to talk to them, I also don't know many girls, and we hardly talk to those I know. I rarely go to a disco because when we go we are just boys or the others are with boyfriends. Going to a disco and watching others makes me even worse because I'm not ugly or stupid, but with girls I'm round zero and I don't know what to do. I'm already going crazy, after 10 days I have exams and I haven't lost a gram. I'm just hanging out in front of the computer and browsing www.site.com and I'm just angry because so many girls write that they're looking for sex, and when I ask them directly, they either don't write or they laugh at me or block me. I was also looking for a prostitute, but it didn't work - 3 times I called different ads and all the time they told me that the ad was fake. I'm fighting, but they don't like me anymore, I'm tired of them and I don't know - if I don't have sex soon or at least get a boyfriend I'll go crazy. I don't know if anyone can help me, but I can still try here.
1 showmeshowu answered
Hello, it is not clear from your letter whether you are looking for a girlfriend to have a man next to you, or you are looking for a girl just for sex? My opinion is that the more you delve into a problem, and pay attention to it, the bigger it becomes. Let things go by themselves, don't try to think about it alone, and you'll see how everything will work out on its own. Good luck and more confident with women.