Our Daughter Calls Us Losers

I've met him in psychology. Up to a point, the kids believe that their parents are great and want to look like them, and then they form up as independent personalities and start looking for an idol out of the family, someone successful, famous... I've met that religion starts where the authority of the parents ends. You can try talking to her without fighting.

You can explain to her that you have to support her, but you can give her home, so you're a loser. You can only pay her alimony because it's clear you raised a selfish man. If he doesn't appreciate you for everything you've done for her, she'il never appreciate you. By winning and not paying for his place, to support herself. So he can understand something, don't fool us - she won't love you. At least until they beat the hoops.

Get her out of you by being so cocky to live alone. Instead of spending his money on clothes and crap to start working, he's 16. If I were you, I'd beat her right away. Horror.

Well, tell her, if she's so successful, she's going to have to pay all the bills. Just like you've done before.

My... You're losers! You're a waitress, and he's unemployed... you seem to have something to learn from your daughter. Just because you've taken care of her so far doesn't change the facts. The truth is not pleasant, but it remains true. You can't expect her to respect her father just because he's her father. They respect decent people, not drones. Good for her, she's so pushy!

Well, that's what you are. Unemployed father and waitress mother? It's a good thing she's somehow on her own.

It's an experimental theme!! Go to the Education section of the site and find the topic "School pulls me down". There's a 16-year-old girl who's involved in dropshipping and she's pretty ambitious. What is the chance of a mother and daughter writing on a website? :) Plus, if the mother is so aware of her daughter's activities, she should act responsibly and complicitly. To help administratively, etc.

And she's probably a good student- you don't mention how she's at school, does he have problems, or learn his lessons, is he a friendly circle and is he made up of smart and capable people to communicate with? But I don't think it's right for me to be mean to my mom and dad, after all, you're the people who raised her! Watch god, blindly look!

7, yes, the same author. Then they spit on her and now she's seeking indirect approval, prompting us to spit on the parents. Hungry hen millet dreaming

Little pampered, Being very open, If she is my daughter, I will put an ultimatum, within 24 hours , Or change and observe the order in my home, Or take my rags and leave my home. I know you're parents and you're in pain for her. But if you don't take action when he's 30, he might beat you.

Not that anything, but i think the daughter wrote it! But otherwise, I believe that the hypothetical daughter will grow up to be an endo unhappy and whiny thing that, if it happens to money, will become even more unsyring, because then she will decide that she doesn't need anyone, that she's self-sufficient, she'll buy six pairs of shoes a week, skins of all kinds, and in the evening, she'll fall asleep first with a glass of wine, then a bottle. , and finally, there will be a cabinet with boxes of cheap merlot. She won't even experience orgasms because she's too good to indulge in a man, a woman, or whatever sex toy she bought. At 37-8, he'll have 12 plastic surgeries and start luring 16 to 20-year-old boys in an attempt to "capture youth," but it's going to be another pathetic attempt to dominate. Maybe one day, she'il get pregnant by some rich. I sincerely believe that he is one of those rich mothers who let the nannies raise the child and send him to a boarding house "with traditions" abroad, as early as 11, to spare him his selfish ambitions. That's :)

When you're so good at business, just do business, what you need someone else's approval for on an anonymous website, that you're just dropping themes on behalf of your mother. This is already bordering on a manic state.

That is, the topic was launched to get some misguided teenage girls to get to know each other and eventually start dealing with "dropshipping."

Even if the theme is made up, it's a fact that it's full of men who stay unemployed! Let's say the mother is a waitress because she gave birth early instead of educating her first, and at the same time has no qualities and developed skills other than to change diapers and stay at home... There was no grandmother available to give her a home. work and the child while she is just starting to think about work.. But UNEMPLOYED FATHER is unthinkable, provided that currently in Bulgaria there are vacancies in a variety of fields! I see that not many people have come to recognize these parents, which is SAD FOR BULGARIA! I'm sorry i'm going to hit the ego of a lot of people, but I support comments 5 and 6.

Come on, stop attacking the girl," she wrote. To the author. You're still young and life is ahead of you, and I wish you only good times and a lot of success. Respect your parents because that's how you respect yourself. That's what a young man who's not in the good boy's box.

I thought I'd write what I thought, but number five said it to myself," she said. Just because she called you losers doesn't mean she doesn't respect you or she's not grateful for everything you've done for her, she's just telling the truth -- which is that she's done better than you.

Up to 16 I mean, you admit you're not good, but you give advice? It's like a fat guy advising me on how to eat properly :)

She is quite right to know what the level of Bulgarian parents and Bulgarians in general is. It is normal for young people to be ashamed of the older generation. It's a shame.

Tell her to start paying the electricity every month. If she says where to go, tell her to help her parents a little bit, and the more important reason - to feel her business heights a little bit. If she is really very advanced "in business" will not be interested at all 100-200 BGN per month, for her it will be a small rounding in her pocket money. However, if she is very much in the weight of such a cost, then to realize a little and not rush to throw herself past her pitiful successes. Having brought in three years in a row at 30-40k, then he can boast. For now, it seems to me that he makes for coffee and taxis and thinks about the big deal. And I have an acquaintance who gives massages and imagines that he works for 25BGN/hour. His problem is that there are 2-3 clients per week, so he actually works for 15BGN per day or about 350BGN/month, but he can not grasp it.

Well, comment 23, that acquaintance of yours who makes £15 a day is still super ahead compared to an unemployed father - I assume that's what you get. And what's better: make her own coffee and taxis (how exactly taxis came to your mind, strangely) or grumble about being given coffee and taxis.. How many people in Bulgaria at the age of 16 make at least some money for something, come on, a little respect, huh.

If I were you, I'd beat her up! How come the little pickle will allow itself to hold you in such a cheeky tone? Whatever you are and parents care you have always been there for her in difficult times and she has no right to hold you in such a tone and while living under your roof is obliged to comply with you.

I can say that if you can't provide a decent future and a good start to a child's life 'don't make a child then who will suffer and spit on you' And while you are fortunate to have a child, a family, the child itself cannot develop and blames you and rightly so! Only gypsies give birth to many children and then what survives. P.

Like the child, she's so cheeky - to pay half the electricity, water and pay for her food!

Number 25 A little easier with the tone and expressions. It's a teenage girl and it's normal to behave like that and I was 16 and I know what it is right now. My parents dropped me when I was 14. It is normal

Maybe if you had a son and not a daughter, things would have been better, and you wouldn't have such problems of that nature. :)

The girl told you the truth - just accept it and ask her not to offend you anymore. At 18, she can move out and will be free to develop as she pleases, so as not to be a non-a-something like you. I have not lived with my parents for 10 years and with each passing year I am convinced that it was their choice "not to make ends meet." I don't admire them, but I am grateful to them that instead of beating me and taking my self-esteem off, as they advised the previous comments, have supported me and always believed in me and my success. Someday he'il appreciate it :).

As a mother, I would love for my child to achieve more than I do. So I did a good job as a parent. Yes, it would hurt me with such harsh words, and I would answer that in order to get there, she walked on a fast. From me and her father. So when she raises a successful child, then he comes to compare himself to me.

Number 23 and number 20 That's why I don't want to have a single child if he starts insulting like that, and number 25 is right somewhat. But to tell myself, I'm a young man of 26 years, and years from now, they'il tell me your time for kids and family, but I don't want kids if they act like the author's daughter why should I raise them at all? The upbringing of today's children is under all criticism, not that I was good at the time. I was strictly educated, so now I don't want to hear about children if they turn 16 and act like the author's daughter. Better old bachelor than with jealous wife and grumpy daughter