My Friend Is Shopping For Second Hand

   Man ... I read, I read and ... I can't believe it, honestly. Are you Normal? What's wrong with second-hand clothes? !! Only a complex will say that! And did you know that there are a lot of BRANDED clothes that are second-hand, but they are brand new, because, for example, they didn't suit people and they give them away? You have no idea how many branded, quality clothes can be found there! What if they are worth 3, 88? That this is for joy! And the fact that, for example, a garment costs  200 does not make it of good quality, you know? You just totally puzzled me, what kind of people there are ... Your girlfriend deserves someone much better !!

   Are you serious? Are you really a man? Consider that if a young woman has no problem having second-hand clothes, and you have what a complex you should be ... If you hadn't dug into the computer and the registration on the site, you would hardly have understood. So the girl is cool and colorful with nice clothes. The market is already so saturated with clothes that many of them cannot be sold in Europe and some of them come directly brand new with labels and are brand new. It's just that for a long time the chains in Western Europe have not been able to sell them and come to Bulgaria and the neighboring countries with boxes and trucks. The second-hand shops are full of such brand new ones, also released for nothing. For example, in Germany, instead of throwing them away, the big chain sold 5 cartons of jeans for 20 euros to one of our second-hand clothing chains. And that's it. There's nothing wrong with that, and if you were close to me, I'd fuck you. It made me very nervous with this statement behind your back and your girlfriend. Yes, I don't wear a second hand, but apparently the girl doesn't have  100 for jeans. It's understandable. And it's not masculine to talk such nonsense and expose yourself that way. Male at 25

   The clothes are washed! And I wouldn't buy a second hand in my current situation, but years ago I would. There may not be enough money for new ones. I would not pay such attention to such things

   I also shop from such stores and I don't see anything wrong with that. On the contrary. Everything is much better, they are healthy, do not turn white, most things are on hm, zara, c & a, tomtaylor, etc. and have nothing to do with Chinese garbage and materials that you buy new for 15-20  , but on the second wash they whiten, their threads come out and are already for throwing. Second-hand clothes after washing and ironing are like new, and you diversify your wardrobe with quality things for little money and often. There are really a lot of women who shop from there, me too. Rather, you seem to me a complex and limited person. Your girlfriend is smart!

   You must be shopping for a third hand or your mother is buying your underwear, which is why you are jealous.

   Shopping for second hand is one of the smartest and most ethical things that can be done for the planet. I personally have read a lot about these things and all these branded clothes nike, adidas, puma as well as fast fashion brands zara, h & m, etc. They are partly the reason why the poorest countries in the world are getting poorer. Clothes are the top third factor for soil pollution, because of such brands that pay pennies a day and sell it for  100,200. If he is going to buy such brands, let him at least be from the second one because I took a lot of things from the second there is time in the shops, and why? Because the garbage that is not sold is sent here, but it has actually been made for years and then goes to landfill. Your girlfriend is very smart, thank her. I guess that it's a passion for her because there are a lot of wealthy people who shop from the latter and it's really a great feeling, or she grew up that way and that's used to it. Just because you don't approve of it doesn't mean you have to change where she buys her clothes from, it's her job. You are not with someone to change him, but to accept him as he is.

   Yes I have your problems man, haha. I don't know if this topic is a joke, if it is real ... For example, I have been working abroad for several years, I have money, but my girlfriend regularly markets second-hand and gift shops. I don't mind, even half of my T-shirts and some pants are from such stores. And let me tell you, knowing in Bulgaria what schemes and bullying are going on, are you sure that the "new" clothes you buy are not actually well-preserved "second hand". Not to mention that the quality of the West and that in the former socialist countries is quite different. If you are in love and you get along with your girlfriend, what do you care what clothes she wears.

   I do not see what the problem is to shop from this type of stores. The most important thing is that she feels comfortable in her skin and has self-confidence, if you have such a problem, you can dump her, because I don't think you deserve such a girl. Grab a muffin to spend your money and then you will realize what a huge mistake you made.

   How strange are you? You can tell who and how to spend if you give the person in question a lot of money - without taking him into account. To tell you the truth - I understand your girlfriend. And I shop for second hand. Why? - it is cheaper (sometimes): - there are unique clothes that are of high quality and you will not meet another person wearing the same blouse; - saves nature's resources. And I think that's right; I don't like the consumer attitude towards clothes. Your friend has a problem with a complex like you.

   I don't see anything wrong with shopping from the second one, I also shop with my friend and we often find super cool things. I think you're pretty superficial and I don't really know what you're doing with a girl like that.

   Ehh, let's just say I've seen better. And what? Isn't it more important in a relationship the understanding and trust between two people, than who buys clothes from where. I can't believe there are still people with that mindset.

   And where do you shop from, would you share with us?

   I also don't like such purchases, but my parents shop entirely from such stores. People are poor and that's why they do it. The girl may have no choice.

   I'm against those stores too, but she's shopping from there, not you. What's your problem then?

   Take her to the mall and shop for her. That's what a real man would do.

   It's a big deal. Well, you're already doing it on drama. I also do not shop from such stores, but I have girlfriends who do. True, there is a lot of garbage, but there are also brand new clothes that have a label. Why not buy them. Not to mention that they are also very very much cheaper. In some stores there are famous brands and a lot of quality clothes, as I said with a label, at half price. I don't see anything wrong. I don't know if you're disgusting because you think they're just old and worn out by someone else? Or there is some other problem that you do not mention. Maybe the girl can't afford expensive clothes? And for her "weirder" clothes ... she just likes it. In the summer I went out with a friend who had taken a few plain color tank tops and a few T-shirts from this type of store. So, it's just that your chick is having fun. Otherwise, probably the clothes, which she bought to be new with a label. If they are ordered from sites and the size is not clear, many people sell them in second-hand stores. So, don't be fooled into thinking he's wearing worn-out fungus panties

   On the contrary - rejoice that it is and knows the true value of money, not a muffin that draws credit for branded clothing and original cosmetics. The fact that you are against such clothes does not give you the right to interfere. She doesn't have to live by your understanding, you remember. The fact that you have been boyfriends for 9 months does not give you the right to impose your understandings. By the way, don't think that buying new clothes is better. I have personally bought second-hand clothes, not because I can't afford new ones, but it often happens that second-hand clothes are of good quality, because they are often slightly better brands, while most new ones are mass-produced in China. , incl. and many models that are supposed to be branded and eventually break in the second month. And because I've suffered a lot from such "quality" clothes, I go and buy second-hand for a pittance and they often last longer, and I don't push myself in a month to buy new clothes and I generally don't care that they are worn because they don't look at all and no one would think that they don't are new. Better that way than to give 100-200  for a T-shirt that is really original. But I'm saying this just to tell you that it's not so bad to buy second-hand clothes. You will be surprised how many and what kind of people, incl. from the middle class (and I've seen doctors in similar stores) buy such clothes and there is a reason, so calm down a bit. When you are against it, you bring new ones, but don't pretend to be a small pampering person, forcing your truth on people, but take yourself in hand and be a man. and I don't push myself to buy new clothes in a month, and I generally don't care that they're worn, because they don't look like them at all and no one would think they're not new. Better that way than to give 100-200  for a T-shirt that is really original. But I'm saying this just to tell you that it's not so bad to buy second-hand clothes. You will be surprised how many and what kind of people, incl. from the middle class (and I've seen doctors in similar stores) buy such clothes and there is a reason, so calm down a bit. When you are against it, you bring new ones, but don't pretend to be a small pampering person, forcing your truth on people, but take yourself in hand and be a man. and I don't push myself to buy new clothes in a month, and I generally don't care that they're worn, because they don't look like them at all and no one would think they're not new. Better that way than to give 100-200  for a T-shirt that is really original. But I'm saying this just to tell you that it's not so bad to buy second-hand clothes. You will be surprised how many and what kind of people, incl. from the middle class (and I've seen doctors in similar stores) buy such clothes and there is a reason, so calm down a bit. When you are against it, you bring new ones, but don't pretend to be a small pampering person, forcing your truth on people, but take yourself in hand and be a man. just to tell you it's not so bad to buy second-hand clothes. You will be surprised how many and what kind of people, incl. from the middle class (and I've seen doctors in similar stores) buy such clothes and there is a reason, so calm down a bit. When you are against it, you bring new ones, but don't pretend to be a small pampering person, forcing your truth on people, but take yourself in hand and be a man. just to tell you it's not so bad to buy second-hand clothes. You will be surprised how many and what kind of people, incl. from the middle class (and I've seen doctors in similar stores) buy such clothes and there is a reason, so calm down a bit. When you are against it, you bring new ones, but don't pretend to be a small pampering person, forcing your truth on people, but take yourself in hand and be a man.

   What are you talking about, the price, or the fact that someone wore the clothes? Second-hand clothes are much better, as evidenced by the time during which they were preserved. Go to Turkey and buy a new garment, after the first wash it turns into a rag. It is obvious that you are complex, you better leave the girl, you will only bother him. If you continue like this, it will beat your jester!

   My aunt loves second uses, she finds great clothes there. She gave me a lot and I can tell you that I received compliments from friends and sometimes from strangers just for them. Most are branded, there are even brands that you can not find on the Bulgarian market. There are also brand new ones, they just obviously didn't like their owners. Do not imagine how a German woman wore them for 10 years and instead of garbage, she gave them there. And they are really well made and quite durable. There are also extremely original models that you can't find in stores. It is commendable that he thinks so much about his style and does not enslave brands. Tighten up a bit!

   I read and I can't help but marvel at the writings, author. As a person, do you judge your girlfriend by shopping for second-hand goods? You can't stand it or anything. I assume that the girl may have turned to a more environmentally friendly life and did not support the depletion of valuable resources, and you have no right to judge her for that. As they wrote to you above, she is obviously not a muffin who is just wondering how to buy expensive clothes / accessories / cosmetics. I know a lot of people who shop from such stores (including those with very good financial opportunities) and are well dressed. It is an indisputable fact that from such stores you can get branded clothes in excellent / very good condition to help partially to protect the environment. I also have brand clothes for hundreds of euros from such stores and sites and believe me, everyone considers me a very well dressed girl. The fact is that I do not dwell on everything and I try a lot, but there is an offer for almost every taste. New clothes on websites and stores have long been not known for quality and in general can be a sure option for poorly spent money. I guarantee that trip shopping is not disgusting and dangerous if the clothes are washed well and ironed with strong steam. I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22 that I don't dwell on everything and I try a lot, but there is an offer for almost every taste. New clothes on websites and stores have long been notorious for quality and can generally be a surefire option for poorly spent money. I guarantee that trip shopping is not disgusting and dangerous if the clothes are washed well and ironed with strong steam. I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22 that I don't stop at everything and I try a lot, but there is an offer for almost every taste. New clothes on websites and stores have long been not known for quality and in general can be a sure option for poorly spent money. I guarantee that trip shopping is not disgusting and dangerous if the clothes are washed well and ironed with strong steam. I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22 New clothes on websites and stores have long been notorious for quality and can generally be a surefire option for poorly spent money. I guarantee that trip shopping is not disgusting and dangerous if the clothes are washed well and ironed with strong steam. I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22 New clothes on websites and stores have long been notorious for quality and can generally be a surefire option for poorly spent money. I guarantee that trip shopping is not disgusting and dangerous if the clothes are washed well and ironed with strong steam. I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22 I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22 I declare him as a person with very sensitive and vulnerable skin, I have not had any skin problems with such clothes after washing and steam disinfection. Nor do I have the attitude that such clothes can carry someone's "fate". You need to rethink your attitude and values ​​towards this girl if you really want to keep her close to you, because she is not the wrong person. Girl, 22

   I had never shopped from such stores, I didn't mind, but they didn't impress me until my best friend took me once and that's where it all started. For the second year in a row I have been shopping most regularly and my friends constantly ask me where my clothes come from and when I say that they are from the second use they sit with their mouths open and they can't believe it. So, as long as you have a taste for combining clothes, it doesn't matter where they come from. I have seen people who wear insanely expensive clothes and if I don't know that their clothes are 1000 leva each, I will think of them as tramps. There are also people whose entire outfit is no more than 50-60 leva and looks unique.

   Do you wear her clothes? Do you pay Who are you to judge her personal decisions concerning something as insignificant as the use of her clothes, darling? Buy some jeans instead of wearing a skirt, because it is obvious who is wearing the pants in this regard.

   How can you not be ashamed to wear these nonsense ... You have no right to comment and tell her what and how to wear. When you live with one person, over time you will learn to respect privacy. I live abroad and when there are sales things are super cheap, sometimes you buy things without measuring and you don't like how they look. 10-20 such purchases I put in a container for donations annually brand new without a label.

   In my opinion, it is pointless to buy second-hand clothes. There are many new clothes at normal prices and it is not necessary to buy from the most expensive stores.

   To number 13 The important thing is to know where to shop. There are many places where you can get new clothes at a good price and there are places where you can get new clothes at a high price.

   To number 9 I don't think second-hand clothes are better and cheaper than new clothes. The Bulgarian will spend a little more and the car, which is second-hand for better quality than the new one.

   I dare say that I am one of the most inclined women in Sofia. I'm not exaggerating. There are a lot of muffins with more money, but style is not bought :) I shop from everywhere - from malls, from abroad, from the internet ... but most of all I like to find second-hand finds. From there I have the most unique things. I keep my money for nice underwear and shoes. And for the important things :) The girl is broad-minded, unlike you. Alpha, w. 30 years

   I have a mixed opinion about your case. In general, I rather support you. The people they are attacking have apparently never lived abroad. Four years ago, my mother also used the second hand very often because she had been told that she could find original clothes from good brands at low prices. I went in 2-3 times with it, but I want to tell you that in reality in these stores the prices are quite high. The T-shirts are 20 leva each, and there are brand new ones in the mall for 15 leva. There is no logic. Otherwise, after that we went to live in Germany and there are baskets for clothes, there is a basket for clothes next to the rubbish bin and these clothes are washed and sent to Bulgaria. I want to tell you that my mother and I were disgusted. These clothes were measured, there were clothes of vagrants, there were stinking shoes, there were all kinds of filth, because the baskets were overflowing and people were already dropping them on the ground, who passed by stepped on them, cockroaches and mice entered the baskets. Even washed, these clothes are extremely disgusting. Since then, my mother has not set foot in such a store. We have money, we are not poor and we have never been, just as you can get a branded garment at half price, everyone would come in. We didn't really find any brands and we only took some jackets, but they were labeled, they were even new, they weren't worn, but we threw them away a long time ago and we don't have anything from such a store anymore. She can't justify being poor. I personally liked three T-shirts in an online store where they put prints and they made me happy and each was 10 leva and for 30 leva I bought three new T-shirts with very strong inscriptions. That's why the excuse of being poor and going there is ridiculous. I can also buy a T-shirt for 300 leva, but I just liked these. In this case, for me, your girlfriend is kind of dirty when she wears these clothes. I hate her, honestly. My advice to you is to tell her sometime when you see each other, it's like you're saying that a friend of yours told you how she went to the second use and then in Germany she saw mice crawling on clothes, that is, to tell her what I told you. but I'm supposed to be your friend. Tell her it sucks and it's unhygienic and ask her what she thinks about it and you'll see if she'll admit it and stop, or hide, or tell you she doesn't mind, just see what she says . There are super cheap shops in the malls if she is so poor, I have literally seen T-shirts for 3 leva on sale and they have nothing. If you pretend to be poor, then she's just dirty. My advice to you is to tell her sometime when you see each other, it's like you say that a friend of yours told you how she went to the second use and then in Germany she saw mice crawling clothes, that is, to tell her what I told you. but I'm supposed to be your friend. Tell her it sucks and it's unhygienic and ask her what she thinks about it and you'll see if she'll admit it and stop, or hide, or tell you she doesn't mind, just see what she says. . There are super cheap shops in the malls if it is so poor, I have literally seen T-shirts for sale for 3 leva and they have nothing. If you pretend to be poor, then she's just dirty. My advice to you is to tell her sometime when you see each other, it's like you're saying that a friend of yours told you how she went to the second use and then in Germany she saw mice crawling on clothes, that is, to tell her what I told you. but I'm supposed to be your friend. Tell her it sucks and it's unhygienic and ask her what she thinks about it and you'll see if she'll admit it and stop, or hide, or tell you she doesn't mind, just see what she says . There are super cheap shops in the malls if she is so poor, I have literally seen T-shirts for sale for 3 leva and they have nothing. If you pretend to be poor, then she's just dirty. Tell her it sucks and it's unhygienic and ask her what she thinks about it and you'll see if she'll admit it and stop, or hide, or tell you she doesn't mind, just see what she says . There are super cheap shops in the malls if she is so poor, I have literally seen T-shirts for 3 leva on sale and they have nothing. If you pretend to be poor, then she's just dirty. Tell her it sucks and it's unhygienic and ask her what she thinks about it and you'll see if she'll admit it and stop, or hide, or tell you she doesn't mind, just see what she says . There are super cheap shops in the malls if she is so poor, I have literally seen T-shirts for sale for 3 leva and they have nothing. If you pretend to be poor, then she's just dirty.

   He was crazy ... Abe pampering, you probably still live with your parents and you spend all your salary for yourself, if you have one at all! You'd better let the girl find a more decent boy, because when I read your reasoning, it became clear to me what type you are. But I wish you to fall into such misery that not from second-hand shops, but directly from the containers to look for clothes to properly assess the money. He got up at the age of 23, and his mind has not yet come to his senses !! If you are so against that you don't pay her to change her wardrobe completely with brand new clothes ?! Fucking simpleton, I have no words !!

   I am against shopping from such stores, but the crazy poor Bulgarian, whatever he stays, buys from there. We are very bad indeed. Author, you will not find understanding here. You will see the vomited thinking of the mass Bulgarian. We are really very bad. You should not wear a garment worn by someone else. Peter Deunov also said it. But what can I explain to you, you will hardly understand with your limited brains.

   Before, I was against it too. The first 3 times I was ashamed, worried about one. But I had no choice - I lived alone, supported myself, money for luxury clothes. Then, although I took more money, I still went to such stores. I bought H&M jackets, only straight for no money as they say with a label but because they are from an old collection discarded in such a store. It is not a great tragedy - branded, preserved, made of good fabric, not bleached at a reasonable price, against a garment imported from China with an unrealistic price, listed after the 3rd wash. It is not shameful and disgusting

   Don't say anything, otherwise you may offend and / or embarrass her. Think about it, there may not be a financial opportunity to buy new clothes. And even if there is, it's entirely her decision. You have no right to impose your opinion on her. When you are in a relationship, you have to accept and respect your differences if you want the same. I don't see you writing that she makes you buy clothes like that, do you?

   30. is not true. He does not think that only Bulgarians are like that. And in the West, there are people who see no point in spending extra money, even if they have it. On the contrary - people are taught to do their homework and therefore are rich. Rural thinking is about demonstrating a standard that you can't really maintain. Only here you can see people with a salary of  1,000, who take huge loans to drive a shiny car and wear branded clothes, and then go hungry.

   See, here the topic has shifted a bit to "For or against second-hand clothes". That is not the point. Everyone is free to make their own decisions. The point is that the author wants to impose his boyfriend's understandings. I don't think there is any need to discuss this, because it is undoubtedly extremely unacceptable. I advise the author to learn to respect people's choices. If he can't, then he is not ripe for a serious relationship and it is better not to burden the girl with his need to impose his views and separate.

   27, for the rest I agree, my girlfriend also finds good finds in the second use. But to say that you are one of the most attuned in all of Sofia, a little thrown away. I was impressed because soon a friend programmer said: "I am the best Python Developer in Bulgaria". Everyone can declare themselves what they want, but is it really so ... Nothing personal to you, don't get me wrong, but it's a little funny to declare yourself who you are. Not to say I'm jealous, I'm a man, 25.

   Hello! I also don't shop from this type of store because I don't like it and I believe that the garment carries the energy of the person who wore it. All my friends buy from such stores, but that doesn't bother me in any way. I also think that these clothes are quite expensive for "second hand". Clothes can be found on the market at a lower price. I don't buy brands, but I buy new clothes from the market cheaper. I don't feel good in these second-hand clothing stores. But everyone has the right to buy what they want. Everyone knows. It is not good to stigmatize people like that. Only in Bulgaria, clothes, car and phone determine what kind of person you are.

   No matter what reptiles crawl on the clothes, there are ways to sterilize-ironing, soaking in boiling water, etc., and there is also dry cleaning, do not attack the author like that, and the second use are good clothes, as soon as they have their labels! And why should you spend half your salary on just one garment - blouse, T-shirt, etc., given that if people are happy with the second use, and there is a reason! If the quality of the clothes in the malls is low, then I can't motivate myself to buy any clothes from there! I don't have a girlfriend yet, but when I do, I won't blame her for buying second-hand clothes! As some said above, if I want to have suitcases with money, I will still buy second-hand clothes! And anyway, when you get used to one garment, and it breaks down, you feel bad that you have to change it with another! And I'm not a consumer!

   You call it rubbish, but they are much better than the ones you buy in the mall. All our clothes almost with my friend are second-hand - we don't live in Bulgaria. My friend has shirts only by Ralph Lauren, Armani I have mega cool dresses by Gucci and Versace Sportswear super collars by Hollister. Nightgowns on Victoria Secret. Let's hide and go to the mall to show off with NEW clothes

   Why do you care so much? I don't see a problem with the girl buying second-hand clothes. The decision is hers, she buys the clothes with her own money, in general - she decides what to wear. You have made your choice that you will not buy such clothes. It's just that simple. Everyone decides for themselves. Everyone is bothered about their own decisions. No one should worry about other people's decisions. I wouldn't dye my hair blue, but I have a girlfriend who did. Don't confuse me, her hair is hers, she decides. It's so simple. You can't impose your opinion on her. You said yourself that she looks good, that she has an interesting style, and in fact you didn't suspect that she was shopping for second hand. Obviously, he chooses preserved clothes, probably buys ones that still have the label on them (undressed?). She wore the same clothes before you knew it. The only thing what has changed is that you understand where she is shopping from and now you can blame her. Well, there's really no point in thinking that much. She didn't give you a blouse bought from the second use, she didn't dress your child in such clothes (you don't even have a child). So there is no need to judge her for her decisions, which could have been much worse than buying second-hand clothes. I wouldn't even put that in the category of bad decisions.

   God, I read and wonder in your mind. Do you know that in the second uses I find brand clothes brand new even in labels and I give super little money for them. And even if they are not branded, what if they look good? For  5 I buy 20 clothes, and in a regular store you give  20-30 for a T-shirt, which fades on the 3rd wash.

   There's something about you. This vanity you have can kill a relationship. The girl may not have money, and if you don't want to shop from there, why don't you buy it for her? Not everything in these stores is second hand, but you probably don't know that. Scary man, all you have to do is break up with her because of where she's shopping from.

   With each passing day I am convinced that the population is getting simpler ... I wish you to fall into such a situation that you can not afford anything but "this garbage", to know where and what you will get them and to bring them to the dirtiest state possible. You are a complex, spoiled materialist, for whom the price is directly proportional to the quality. I just wonder how the girl is still with you. Drop it so that it has the opportunity to find someone who will have no problem dressing in disgusting rags for three levs. - scorpion.

   If you have enough income, you buy a first use. If you have more, you also buy branded or higher quality ones. With a calculated budget you can buy more second hand clothes. Sometimes they can be branded and / or of higher quality. In any case, a person needs clothes. I have no idea what kind of head of family you would be if that made you a problem. Only the way of thinking and not understanding, or the lack of caring about her and her life, shows how bad you are.

   I watched a movie almost 20 years older than me: "Mr. for a Day." The topic doesn't fit perfectly, but I really like the title as a description of the topic. I don't even know if it would cross my mind where my friend gets her clothes from.

   What does it matter where you shop from? I'm very much FOR this type of stores, if you're so ashamed of it, then you don't deserve it. I think the girl is super modest, and you are complex and you don't know what you want ...

   In general, women are more likely to have such a problem in a relationship, but here it is the opposite. I didn't understand what the problem was with the clothes, were they torn or faded? Black Sabbath

   I really hope this topic is a joke, because if there are really people with such thinking, I'm sorry ... It's not normal this thing, it's not normal to impose your thinking on people, what's left for your girlfriend, you have no problems in the relationship , okay you have everything, then why did you decide that clothes are the problem? Do you want to lose her for some nonsense?

   What kind of person do you have to be to interfere in someone's life and tell them where to shop, at least this is the girl who is next to you and you have been together for 9 months, not much time, but for that time I think that you have loved her enough and I do not understand how some clothes can change your view of her. And what about shopping from there? Has she become stupider, isn't she good enough for you anymore? Author, I think that if you really do not make sense of things, it is better to part with the girl in question, especially for her good.

   As soon as your girlfriend turns 19 in a month, take and give her a voucher to buy clothes and keep your head calm. And yet I do not understand what the problem is to shop from such stores, obviously the problem is not in it, but in you and your misconceptions.

   As a boy, I can tell you that I also shop at such stores. The only thing for which I invest a larger amount are the shoes, because I like to be more stable, and I take 1-2 pairs a year and I tend to give a larger amount. I also buy jeans, but most often on discounts and cost about 25-30 levs. Otherwise, I have taken T-shirts, blouses, shirts and all sorts of things (even jackets) and I continue to take them from second hand and I am not ashamed at all and I do not think I should be ashamed. Here things are not limited to possibility, just sometimes it is not worth giving twice the amount for something you can find at a super affordable price. It's all up to the person and his understandings.