My Boyfriend Humiliates Me

The Story

Hello, after another night I felt helpless and alone, I decided to write here if I could get some advice. The story is as follows - I have a friend, we have been together for almost 8 months, and we have known each other for more than a year. Our relationship is very good, but I don't know what happens sometimes and he suddenly starts to make me a problem with every single thing. In the beginning, we had some annoyances that went normally, but over time things started to get rough.

 

Whenever we were alone, everything was great, but if you get together with your friends, you somehow become a different person and behave horribly for a while and then calm down and so on all the time. He never insulted me directly, but on New Year's he drank a little more than normal, started doing nonsense and I caught him and we left and from there I told him that I would not go with him to sleep with them and started with the scandals and the curses that had not been there before. Anyway, he apologized the next day, promised not to repeat himself, but he was an asshole and what not. Over time, he became more and more incensed by each thing, repeating to me that he did not believe me, and after a few days he explained to me in love, cursed me, they loved me, and after a scandal that was provoked by the fact that I liked a picture of a boy, he humiliated me very cruelly, called me the ugliest words like k *** a, etc.

 

He broke up with me and I don't really know what to do, because I'm tired of everyone I have offended him because I love him very much. He constantly grumbles that I refused him sex or whatever, he calls me k *** a, which definitely offends me because he was my first and maybe that's how he wants to manipulate me. I love him very much, I see that he loves me too, but I can't understand what this aggression is due to and how to act - whether to fight for him or not because I don't know how far he can go, despite that I love him very much. I am asking you for advice because I am very confused and if anyone has been in a similar situation if they can help me.

Last Updated
July 12, 2020
Author:
jcpants

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