Again from Number 12: Holly, I'm glad we share an opinion, but I don't think the topic is exhausted and I decided to get involved again. Whether because of the alcoholic ecstasy, or because of my higher activity after 12 o'clock, all this ... I will just write down a few thoughts, which I will probably read and ironize tomorrow :-) So, why do men fall for them? I will not touch on appearance as a criterion at all. The man is initially considered braver than the woman due to the fact that he was a hunter in the past. Seeing a beautiful woman with the aforementioned mentality, he subconsciously feels that he can go wrong and the result is not in his favor. But then his curiosity and ego come to the rescue. It all starts with the question "What if?". And then comes the inner voice (ego) that incites the attack or questions masculinity if you don't take the initiative. After, what I guess you guess is starting to unfold the action. There is a refusal ... in the subconscious the question arises again - "How so?" The answer - Be creative, think fast! Be a dude! We gather strength again, even though we see the contemptuous smile on the other side and feeling that our chances are approaching 0, we embark on the unequal battle again. But let me emphasize that the battle is not with the "bitch" on the other side, but with our own Ego. It creates the illusion that we are capable of victory and at the same time conceals all the signs that prophesy our loss. So, refusal after refusal. Inability to believe the obvious facts, we continue to pursue the goal. The other side, however, undoubtedly likes the flattery of us in the form of compliments and various attempts to impress her. A vicious circle again. Conclusion: Actually trapped by " this trap is actually constructed by the men themselves = Self-confidence, intolerance to loss, excessive self-esteem. The irony is that the world needs such women and that's why they exist. Due to the fact that they put in place exactly this type of men who have exalted themselves and a woman turns them on her little finger. The bad thing is that there are always innocent victims, but my advice to the earthly is - Do not be proud and then you will pass such girls with a smile and you will not give them significant value. Instead of running after them, deluding yourself that you are the "Best" and you can have any, they rely on just that - that you will stop at nothing to be yours! :) this trap is actually constructed by the men themselves = Self-confidence, intolerance to loss, excessive self-esteem. The irony is that the world needs such women and that's why they have them. Due to the fact that they put in place exactly this type of men who have exalted themselves and a woman turns them on her little finger. The bad thing is that there are always innocent victims, but my advice to the earthly is - Do not be proud and then you will pass such girls with a smile and you will not give them significant value. Instead of running after them, deluding yourself that you are the "Best" and you can have any, they rely on just that - that you will stop at nothing to be yours! :) that they put in place exactly this type of men who have exalted themselves and a woman turns them on her little finger. The bad thing is that there are always innocent victims, but my advice to the earthly is - Do not be proud and then you will pass such girls with a smile and you will not give them significant value. Instead of running after them, deluding yourself that you are the "Best" and you can have any, they rely on just that - that you will stop at nothing to be yours! :) that they put in place exactly this type of men who have exalted themselves and a woman turns them on her little finger. The bad thing is that there are always innocent victims, but my advice to the earthly is - Do not be proud and then you will pass such girls with a smile and you will not give them significant value. Instead of running after them, deluding yourself that you are the "Best" and you can have any, they rely on just that - that you will stop at nothing to be yours! :) they rely on just that - that you will stop at nothing to be yours! :) they rely on just that - that you will stop at nothing to be yours! :)
1 _lola_brown answered
That's right. But it seems to be true for everyone, not only for men but also for women. Everyone wants what they can't have, and everyone is chasing what runs the most. Personally, I've been on both sides, most I really appreciated the rules of those who deserved it the least, and vice versa, those who received indifference and the least attention went to my ass the most. I think the reason is that when you easily get what you want, interest disappears very quickly, and there is no thrill in this. This is why women are often accused of liking bad boys, and men that you are a bitch. Precisely because most of us are targeting people who behave badly or just indifferent to us, we do not notice those who are ready for anything for us. that is why I am very annoyed by various good guys, as they are often called in this site, which puts all women under one denominator, bitches,users, light, like only bad boys and so on. because not everyone is like that, but they like them and when they are disappointed, there are no good women left for them, which is not the case at all, because they are certainly during this time there was someone who walked on their ass, but they did not notice it at all. so that while we all chase the wild, we do not notice that there is a tame.