Me, You, My And Our Child

   Your husband took you, not his parents, and it is not good that he is silent so as not to offend any of the parties - if he is a married man, he must have an opinion and defend it. If you live alone - I see no problem to put things in their place, but if you are dependent on his parents I sympathize with you. Winnie the Pooh

   You better pack your bags and leave, there's no point in standing there and enduring all this because you're the only one suffering, or your child

   Whatever you decide, never share it with your children!

   Talk to your husband, he knew very well that you have a child. Be categorical. Do not allow him to divide the children and explain to him that his parents hurt you.

   In my opinion, you should not live with your father-in-law and father-in-law. Except for the eye, you do not feed them. If they are independent - they will never adopt another child. It is from the years. Your son is their blood, your daughter - no! the good solution is to move out with your husband and children and live alone! It is true that you can not do without a grandmother - call your mother! Your children are her blood both. It will not make a difference, or almost! If you stay to live with parents if they are every day - they will divide your children so that the children will start to hate each other! Limit the time when your father-in-law and mother-in-law * will see your children. Otherwise you will cry all your life!

   It is very difficult to give advice in this situation, because it is about your own children, we do not know the details of this story. It is difficult for you because your husband took you with a child, he knew that you are not alone and have no right to divides the children of mine and ours. His parents should not be allowed to interfere in your relationship at all. You should tell them because you are the mother and protector of these children and they have no right to determine their fate. Give them a chance to prove to your husband as a husband and father, if he fails to protect you from attacks, go to his mother. She will always support you. There is no use in such a man.

   Hey people, I wonder what happened to the story if the author is still reading and sharing. no? if so, how did the story end

   Have you not yet understood that the "foreign child" is not accepted? He who says he accepts it is lying to the people. Or he thought he accepted it, but his inner feeling said otherwise. Too bad for those who haven't figured it out yet.

   Bad story ... Unfortunately, number 9 is right, or at least 90 percent. All my life they compared cousins, aunts, etc. with me, because I am not "native" ... And once I was even told "but they are my blood!" ... Ie - understand it - you you are not. It hurts and how else are you guilty of not being of any blood? !! The blood relationship is very important - I claim it myself, but it is not the only and most important condition. I was in a similar situation - well, the father of my second child never accepted my first from a previous marriage, he wanted to model it in his own way, and because he was beaten as a child, he decided to try this way on my son. Of course, I couldn't stand this madness, it's good that he got away with it, but he decided to punish me by abandoning his own child ... Well, he's not in the picture for 3 years now. And I and my two children are much calmer than before. Incredible comment is number 6 from another topic / I don't remember which one it was, sorry /, in which a father, who raised his own daughter, also raises a brother from the mother's previous marriage, does not differentiate between the two and even enjoys grandson of the girl's brother. Unfortunately, such cases are rare and rare.

   9 I do not agree with you, I have a child from a previous marriage. and I was wondering how my friend's parents would accept me with a child of 1 year and 6 months, but we have been together for 1 year now and everything is fine. to emphasize that my friend has no children and we talked, but we both do not want in order not to distinguish between children

   Number 9 is right. The foreign is foreign - they will not accept it. Move out and live apart from his parents - best! Otherwise, only you and the child will suffer. Insist on moving out!

   And what is the situation now?

   I have a wonderful little girl and if one day someone allows such an attitude, a jester will fly in the ass (mom's son to mom, and she to the opportunity not to see her grandchildren anymore).

   And what is happening now - 7 years later?