I have been married for 14 years. My husband has a very difficult character - he erupts quickly, gets angry about nothing, insults all right and then as if nothing happened. I have always been patient and I have taken into account his moods and I have kept quiet so as not to irritate him further, but he still can't be pleased and burns with nothing. I've always worked equally well and more than him, but he's always criticized me and he's never been happy, we have a grocery store and things aren't going well, but he can't accept that and look for another job, and I found two in our common store works plus them. Anyway, it's as if I can't stand his rudeness and simplicity and see only the negative in everything. I am a person who knows how to enjoy the little things and have fun out of nothing, and this seems to irritate him. We've been arguing a lot lately and I'm always honest and I explain why, for a few days he's a different person, but then it all starts again. I just want a nice attitude and nothing else, but I realize that I can't get it from him and sometimes I can't even stand his presence, we have nothing to talk about, and if we talk there is only his opinion and when I'm somewhere without him I feel good and free. I just think that everything has accumulated a lot over the years and the cup of patience overflows, I even feel horror when it touches me, not to mention that I have no desire for sex. I wonder how I'm going to drive her so my thoughts pass even if I leave him, but I'm sure he won't stand it, because even if he doesn't admit it, I'm stronger. I just want a nice attitude and nothing else, but I realize that I can't get it from him and sometimes I can't even stand his presence, we have nothing to talk about, and if we talk there is only his opinion and when I'm somewhere without him I feel good and free. I just think that everything has accumulated a lot over the years and the cup of patience overflows, I even feel horror when it touches me, not to mention that I have no desire for sex. I wonder how I'm going to drive her so my thoughts pass even if I leave him, but I'm sure he won't stand it, because even if he doesn't admit it, I'm stronger. I just want a nice attitude and nothing else, but I realize that I can't get it from him and sometimes I can't even stand his presence, we have nothing to talk about, and if we talk there is only his opinion and when I'm somewhere without him I feel good and free. I just think that everything has accumulated a lot over the years and the cup of patience overflows, I even feel horror when it touches me, not to mention that I have no desire for sex. I wonder how I'm going to drive her so my thoughts pass even if I leave him, but I'm sure he won't stand it, because even if he doesn't admit it, I'm stronger. and if we talk there is only his opinion and when I am somewhere without him I feel good and free. I just think that everything has accumulated a lot over the years and the cup of patience overflows, I even feel horror when it touches me, not to mention that I have no desire for sex. I wonder how I'm going to drive her so my thoughts pass even if I leave him, but I'm sure he won't stand it, because even if he doesn't admit it, I'm stronger. and if we talk there is only his opinion and when I am somewhere without him I feel good and free. I just think that everything has accumulated a lot over the years and the cup of patience overflows, I even feel horror when it touches me, not to mention that I have no desire for sex. I wonder how I'm going to drive her so my thoughts pass even if I leave him, but I'm sure he won't stand it, because even if he doesn't admit it, I'm stronger.
Maybe it's time to mention to him that this thought is going through your head. And who knows - he may be startled and realize that he lost the goats. And if he doesn't take it seriously, then he doesn't care much.
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Leave him. What else can we tell you, but that's not how you live. Laura