I'm 23 Years Old And I've Never Had An Orgasm In My Life Except When I Masturbate.

In my opinion, you just need to show your partner exactly what it takes to have an orgasm, but first you have to not worry about talking or doing anything in front of him. I hope I have helped you a little bit, good luck:)

Depending on how you feel it yourself! Not only do you have the same problem - I'm a 22-year-old man, and not every time I enjoy sex, however amazing it may be! Believe me sometimes self-adjusting to the partner or partner is a very big and great thing! I've had contacts with girls who are very beautiful but I can't tell you that at all, but with an attitude it's getting to work to the end! More if you can fantasize, lead the parade yourself, let you do it through it as you wish so that you can both experience all that ultimate feeling that needs to be experienced and not just a ******! I hope he can help you... and if you say you're achieving the effect you want all by yourself... Share with your friend or partner what you think, do with yourself and your sensory points of pleasure! As we all know the male sexual organ, however large, dull, fat or whatever - it does not always reach all the sensory points of a woman to experience her pleasure! Good luck to you!

Hi! I don't want you to get me wrong, but I don't think you've got the most important thing-quantity is nothing, quality matters. The fact that you've been living a sex life since you were so young doesn't matter either, although I don't think it's very normal. You're saying you've tried all kinds of threes and so on, and nothing! Then why are you doing this? If I keep going, you might be offended, so I'il tell you one last thing: stop having sex, why don't you try making love?

Honey, I'm 21 and I haven't had an orgasm while having sex, I've talked to a lot of girls about it, a lot of them are also suffering from not experiencing it and worrying that something is wrong with them; I am a little relieved that I am not the only one, but still my main desire is that one day I too enjoy this feeling; However, I think that with us women it is much more complicated because it comes from the thought, from the mental attitude, not from the sexual skills of the partner, it is important to be calm, with self-esteem, not to let someone inthe way that something is wrong with you (with me they have tried to do it), the more you think of it as a problem , the worse it will get, you have to learn to control yourself and balance with yourself, for example, you can enroll in yoga, I've learned that it helps, and I plan to try soon. I hope you can handle this, and if you happen to share how you've achieved it. Success and just don't lose hope

Hmm... I'm 27 and I'm a man. Making love, not just sex will solve your problem - when you're with your partner how you feel about it, what mindset you start the whole process with, if you make a difference between sex and making love well, if you don't worry, a lot of people are like you. (you may have some inhibitions, past traumas that even if you do not remember, you may have some physical problems - do not be ashamed to consult a sexologist - in this there is nothing shameful ...) The most important thing is not to let this become your obsession! For so little information, that's all I can tell you. Success!

You get to orgasm when you're alone, okay, make your boyfriend stimulate you just like you do, but don't forget that you have to be crazy for love about it when you see it crush, love is like a train goes through you, and you can't help but feel it just because your boyfriend can dump you if you don't let him go. If you don't like him going as long as you want to go. And another talk before sex, about sex, about love how you feel them, it may be that when you understand his thoughts on love to think about whether it's best for you, about your sex for your orgasm. It's not just about having a penis and words, and they create the atmosphere, and from there the set for cool sex and orgasm will come from itself.

I think most of you confuse love with passion. You may not be madly in love and still have an orgasm as long as there's passion. So he'il think he's great, because he's always satisfying you and he's not going to make any effort, and you're going to be unsatisfied and you're going to screw up yourself.

I only have an orgasm when he talks to me. It drives me crazy.

Wait until you're a little bit older and get to know your body completely - I'm 38 now and just sex is the most amazing thing on earth for me - so multiple and amazing orgasms in every way I've never experienced before, and at your age, I was just like you, and I was wondering what so many people find in sex, so calm down!

I have exactly the same problem as you, only by masturbating I get an orgasm and it only clitoris:(

I want to tell you that mental attitude is really very important, but it's even more important to love the person you're having sex with. Then sex is still sex, but you feel amazing and it's getting easier to reach that amazing orgasm sensation!!!

I'm a man, and I decided to write just because I have some observations on how my girlfriend gets to orgasm. She doesn't get a vaginal orgasm - it's all about clitoral stimulation, and any postures without missionary, don't give her a chance to end. So, no matter how good your partner is, if he didn't understand, and if you didn't tell him, he couldn't give you the pleasure. Find out where your most sensitive place is, and find out. If you're having an orgasm when masturbating, you should be able to do it. And I very much agree that it's important and the mindset. If you don't help yourself, there's no one. Success! And don't worry, I don't think there's anything wrong with you, you just haven't found the way, or the man...

I will say it in just one sentence – It all depends on the object. Don't have sex just to make it. There's no feeling coming from within - it's not going to work. The feeling comes from the guy across the street.

What's he feeling about what kind of thing... You know, the clitoris is just like a man's penis, it's just that a lot of people forget it and you have some feelings, one of your love. Just tell your partner without worrying about what you enjoy. We really spoil these men by stimulating their orgasm. It doesn't make sense, it's just a harm to ourselves. Tell him about the clitoris, for example. I also can not end vaginally and there is nothing abnormal in it, it is just physically impossible. The most you just enjoy during sexual intercourse, nothing more....

I had the same problem as you when I was your age... How to end taught me a man. He told me I just had to relax, focus "down there" and not think about anything else. Then he started stroking me, and to my surprise, I'm done. Ever since then, whenever I want to end up (because it's also a matter of personal decision for women), I relax and focus only on what's going on "down there." You still have to tell him how you feel about :).

Change the man.

Don't change a man, it's a matter of physics, in my opinion, not the psyche. I'm a 22-year-old woman and I've had a regular sex life for six years. And with constant and random partners, with people I've had a lot of love with, with people I've been in love with and loved, with a random person too. Well, I only end up with clitoral stimulation. The two female opinions that full pleasure comes later reassure me :) So, sweet girl, it's not just you. By the way, my friend and I have been together for about 4 years, and even in our most in love and passionate period I could not finish vaginally

I don't know why you're worried, I've read other places- there are women who are in their 30s and a few years old and haven't had an orgasm. I think the most important thing is partner and passion. If there's no passion, it can't happen. Love is made with passion, the other is just ***** I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and so far there has been no time when I don't get to orgasm, and I have to say that he was the only one who took me to this state. He needs to know exactly where you get the most excited. At least I think so.

Ella to me.

to No15 -why do you do vaginal sex then?drive it only with stimulation of the clitoris - this, by the way, sucks ,because of men,because they do so end up , and we do not need penetration -the point was to be inside us , and not out - why do we have sex at all we women -apparently because of men

To number 9: Think about what dirt they're talking about and what your imagination has :D

I also have this problem but the main thing is to relax and not just think about it relax and think only about the nice things we and my friend so patty tried but apparently I do not relax properly almost everyone who knows about my problem tells me that I should relax. try and you and while you do do not think about anything and I hope to get come on success from me.