Former Athlete, Only 18 Now A Slave To The Drink

   I advise you to try hypnosis! An acquaintance of my father took coca for 10 years, drank non-stop! Finally he went to a session and stopped for the first time ......... he doesn't even smoke cigarettes anymore! Just look for hypnotherapists in your city!

   I advise you to try hypnosis! An acquaintance of my father took coca for 10 years, drank non-stop! Finally he went to a session and stopped for the first time ... he doesn't even smoke cigarettes anymore! Just look for hypnotherapists in your city!

   Drink 2 liters of milk when the beer doesn't bother you.

   You have chosen the easiest friends: alcohol, drugs, cigarettes. Only forget about coffee and energy drinks, 100% and you abuse them. These friends always come to "help" as long as you can buy them. While true friends, people you love and can rely on, want care and attention, you have to work hard to have them. That is why alcoholism leads to self-closure and internal crisis. It would be best to fall in love with a girl, but how ... you think only of yourself.

   Go to the gym. And I'm not fucking here like that fool who pretends to be very funny here. Start training again, look for a job, something that will take your time. Start with amphetamines, which are the biggest garbage. Stop them, try to reduce other things. At some point you will probably be able to stop them. Years have not passed, you should be able to unhook, but first, that you have to find some other activities to replace them, but also to give you pleasure, second, that you have to want it. Success!

   4 liters of beer is a nuisance to alcoholism. You drink and smoke so much because these things relax you and make you ignore your problems. This is the real danger for young people. So was I. I was always depressed if I didn't smoke or drink, but the thing was, I was depressed before. Not smoking or drinking was a punishment for me because I didn't know how to deal with my problems. It's hard, but you can shake off those habits if you literally FORCE yourself to do it. I will not lie to you that if I give you a motivational speech, you will throw beer and a goat and run to dance on the meadows, and be the happiest person. It just won't happen, or if it does, it will take about 2-3 days. I see you haven't started sleeping well with girls. I don't know why, but women are attracted to people like us. No, not regularly, but enough, to sleep a few times with us. When I was depressed and drove through the millet, I looked like a scarecrow and I had bruises on my face because I was dull and violent, the girls always approached with interest. Now that I'm tidy, combed, restrained, and so on, I'm rather fading. And no, it's not because I've been around for years. 6 months ago I had an "episode" and in 3 weeks I totally broke the chain and the old nonsense started. I slept with two complete strangers in a bar, then kicked out a colleague's depressed girlfriend, then met an ex-girlfriend who was still hoping to give her "happiness" and that I was almost a prince. Keep in mind that the girl is in a relationship with another boy of 3 years. Then I realized that I was repeating the old misery and I was just toxic to myself and others. It gets easier when you experience it, but the first time is the hardest part, getting back to normal. And now - instead of sharing here (which is great, because you realize again that you have a problem), share it with a friend, relative, if you will, and someone random who listens to him. You may be insulted, but there will always be someone who will understand you. If you have the opportunity - talk to a psychologist. Don't worry, we are not 1950s, no one will send you to a madhouse. The thing is, while CRISPR or some other form of gene therapy can't fix the congenital bugs in our heads, for people like you and me, we're going to have to put in the extra effort to avoid depression and addiction. We were just born that way. But never let that be your excuse. And two things - Do not think that success in life, or at least those that others tell you are success, will improve the situation. That you took medals, it will not make you much happier. I live abroad - I studied, graduated, worked and took so much money that I'm ashamed to write, but it's more because of one of my many "changes" in this case, workaholism. Most money, a better position and connections in society, just give me more opportunities to do what I want. I thought that if I "broke away from the middle", things would improve, but it got worse. The locals considered me exotic. Again, I was lucky to come across people who had my problems and were more open about it. In Bulgaria it is difficult because most people think that you are some kind of psychopath who burned small animals as a child, and I do not know about you, but I personally took home kittens, puppies, especially if they were injured. Once I even went to the hunting lodge to buy worms for a bat with a torn wing. Most often, the father pleased the animals with acquaintances. Or they think that at any moment you will take off your pants and search. Egati and dumb stigmas ... Not that half push 1-2 bottles of brandy a week. T. is that success will not make you very happy, nor that you constantly meet a lot of people. They will just deceive you. But it's good to have goals! They help you move forward. What helps the most is to have good people who are dear to you and who don't treat you, it's like you're crazy and you have to hide sharp objects in case you go "crazy" or just decide to finish. with everything. You remember - real friends. is success will not make you very happy, nor the fact that you constantly meet a lot of people. They will just deceive you. But it's good to have goals! They help you move forward. What helps the most is to have good people who are dear to you and who don't treat you, it's like you're crazy and you have to hide sharp objects in case you go "crazy" or just decide to finish. with everything. You remember - real friends. is success will not make you very happy, nor the fact that you constantly meet a lot of people. They will just deceive you. But it's good to have goals! They help you move forward. What helps the most is to have good people who are dear to you and who don't treat you, it's like you're crazy and you have to hide sharp objects in case you go "crazy" or just decide to finish. with everything. You remember - real friends.

   Brother, you will forgive me, but you can be anything but intelligent. Not with that desperate spelling.

   If you do not motivate yourself to get better, it will not happen, my brother overcomes heroin addiction, everything is achieved with will and desire. Get involved in hobbies that keep your mind engaged and have positive emotions, you will also meet new valuable people. Go to trainings, work, play games, read books, go skating, skiing, sport climbing, martial arts ... You will meet a girl and she will also be an incentive for you. Enrolling to study would also be beneficial :)

   6, can you share how you broke away from drugs? My case is the following. I do not use drugs, but I have many addictions: coffee (I can drink 10 a day), cigarettes - about 2 boxes, I was addicted to alcohol and jam. I fought with alcohol and sweets (with treatment). I just think that there is one type of people who can smoke a cigarette a year, 1-2 beers a month and have no addictions. And others like us show them on a physical and emotional level - people, food, alcohol, cigarettes, drugs. Maybe when we realize that this "crutch" of ours in life doesn't help us, when we hate it, the chain breaks. When I stopped drinking, he had resisted, I was already sick of sweets. I'm waiting for it to happen with the other 2 addictions.

   Tighten it, you're only 18. Stopping alcohol and amphetamines is much easier than you think, you need 1-2 weeks to get used to it and you are ready. And after a while you will forget about them, as long as you find activities that are useful to you. Start training something and find a part-time job after school enough to gain experience. The most important thing in life is experience. The more things you go through, the more you learn and grow as a person. And for depression, search the internet for magnesium and vitamin D3. Along with them you will learn about everything else that the body needs to function properly, such as proper sleep, enough movement, etc. I can give you a piece of advice that I have been using for a long time and is related to gaining experience. For example, if you're worried about going to boxing practice (or any other sport you're interested in), just do it because it's something new, something you haven't done before. I had explained above why this was important. After doing something new, you gain a drop of self-confidence and say to yourself - wow, that was 10 times easier than I thought. Think about what happens if you constantly use this principle?

   Up to 10 Stop drinking, drink tea and take vitamins. Thanks dude!

   Dude, what kind of athlete were you, that at 18 you were already an ex?