Condemned To Loneliness

   I'm the same as you, except I haven't been to a prostitute. I have already reconciled for myself, but you do not make this mistake and look for a partner in life.

   I think that's your delusion "but I'm a boring person, I can't tell funny stories or jokes like the others or be the center of the company!" He's just having a normal conversation. Find more general conversation topics such as travel, culture, cooking, etc. Enroll in a foreign language course, yoga and or something you are interested in and you will meet people with whom you will have common topics of conversation.

   love yourself and everything will fall into place

   You have both time and people like us who fully understand you. I don't know what to tell you, how to give you hope. I just wish you good luck and hope that a nice and good girl will appear in your life!

   We are so many people, brother. If only we had been born women. Even ugly women find men.

   To the author and №2 Your problem, boys, is that you have a low self-esteem for yourself, and you want to be with girls with a high self-esteem / excluding prostitutes, they are a commodity on the market, everyone can buy them /. In fact, for every train there are passengers, you just have to judge correctly which train you are for. Author, since you are one of the quiet, shy and boring boys, look for such a partner. You can't have an open, shameless and interesting woman.

   You put the sentence "lonely" on your own.

   Oh, but Bulgarian women are very decent girls, they don't look at money and cars, how are you alone? :(: D

   If you stop looking, it will just come. Do not rush anywhere and do not give your money to prostitutes! You don't have to throw money for one fuck! Learn to like yourself, to love yourself if you want. If you accept yourself, everyone will accept you. Study, work, train, go out, but don't pretend you don't get up or something! I know people who have had sex since they were 15, and at 20 they are ruins!

   Guys, I was like you. I solved a problem by constantly meeting new people 1. by mutual friends 2. from the university 3. on the street / parks / discos 4. dating sites The only thing you need to have is motivation and to ACT !!! The change is up to you! Confidence is like a muscle, you have to train it (in our case you contact)! Success!

   For a while, a very nice boy was "dealing" with me. We are about your age. At first it was very clear to him that he liked me. We went out a few times as friends in common company and I felt something stop him. I decided that he probably didn't like me very much or that he was playing me. Or that she likes one of my friends. However, he periodically looked for me again. It turned out that he simply has no experience and does not know how to approach landfills. One day, I had just given up doing and hoping for more, he was drunk and told me his whole story. He never had a girlfriend, the girls always stopped paying attention to him at one point and he couldn't make a connection. Like you, he shared that he went to prostitutes several times. Apparently this weighs a lot on him and makes him behave especially. I felt it, that he makes such slightly passive numbers, a bit like our females - he pretends not to notice me, then he calls me, he pretends to like another, but only for me. And that is repulsive. I think experience is important, but your fear stops you from accumulating it. Go out with companies, tease the girls, being careful not to go to extremes. Relax, behave naturally and don't think what anyone would think of you if they found out you had no experience. It doesn't matter what you did, whether you have it or not, but how you behave with the SPECIFIC girl. Not in general. Therefore, there is no universal technique. If you like one - act as you come with it. But act, don't hang around so you don't miss your chance every time. And if he cuts you off - try another and never give up. They even cut me, but I like myself and I don't think that changes anything. Others I have cut. But you have to try boldly. which is more important - to catch a cool chick or to save yourself 5 minutes of worry, which even tomorrow you will not remember. Come on - be brave! I'm still wondering what to do with this one of mine, but we'll see :) Good luck!

   I'm 24 and I've had three fleeting relationships ... I'm a friend like you ... but even a prostitute doesn't dare to go out of shame, at least to let go of the tension ...

   I wonder what you do to not be alone? Because if you like a girl, maybe you should try to show her in some way. And if you just thought you should have a girlfriend, because everyone else has - it's a little silly.

   Hey dude at 21 don't get depressed. Do not care. Live life as it came. Don't think about loneliness, think about all the good moments that happen to you. Drop the thoughts that you don't have a girlfriend. I'm 27 and I'm in your position. At your age, I cared about that too. But I don't care anymore. I live my life as it is. If a woman appears ok. If not - a big deal so it was written. I was lonely too and depressed. However, I decided that this should stop. I don't care if I find a wife or not. If it happens, it will happen. I did not go looking for her under a tree and a stone. I advise you to do the same.

   From the Author: Thank you all, I know there are a lot of guys like me, I even have the feeling that they are too many as if it's an epidemic, but the problem is that women always prefer the fun, the "crazy" dude who goes to discos every night and is walking among colleagues! Even if I find one, I'm afraid I won't be able to keep her close to me, because a woman still has a much bigger choice than the man and she has to choose the one she likes the most!

   And this ... At 21, what is this pop-folk title 'doomed to loneliness'? You have a whole life ahead of you ... you decide how you will experience it. And remember - there are passengers for every train. Sooner or later you will find someone like you. Just look for people like you, not people you have nothing to do with. People who are not right for you will always leave your life for the ones you need to show up!

   I'm still 21, I had the same problem that still haunts me at times, in the circles I was in, I was an outsider. I found solace in games, and as we joke now with friends in the normal world, my "resolution" was too great. My advice is to find something you are strong in or like when you are advanced in something, it gives you some confidence. Concentrate on companies with similar interests and you will gradually cultivate. Respect everyone, but don't let them humiliate you. This is my philosophy, I hope I have been useful to you. Greetings!

   Be careful with prostitutes, because just as they can give you a start or from the very satisfaction of not falling at everyone's feet, so they can knock you down even more or get addicted. There are big bastards among them. First year I went to look for them on the ring road, they gave me a start, but it should not be abused because you will be the income of their pimps for life. From personal experience I say 22 m!

   There was a thought or a quote, and I don't know what exactly ... But in a world full of loners, it's selfish to be lonely alone. :-) They told you right - look for people from your rug, don't throw yourself at the khakis, 'because these girls are looking for ... we all know what they are looking for .. :-)

   It is normal to have many men without women in Bulgaria. Young men are more than young women, there is a separate part of the female part, with which rarely anyone can make a commitment. I'm talking about various mercantile, abnormal, garbage or whatever. Another part emigrated to Western Europe and married a foreigner (much less often you will see a Bulgarian do this with a foreigner, even if he has succeeded there). The third part are women who cannot make a relationship on their own. Whether they are closed, they are looking for the "perfect" or "they have a lot of work", but they have been without anyone for years because of some crazy beliefs. (I can tell you that every Bulgarian woman who has cut me off has no boyfriend for these reasons) Of course, some of the men have the wrong standards of looking for a very strong collar and writing off a large number of women, because they had some shortcomings. It is ironic and funny that the problem can be solved if some young men become gay, but this is a fact (one of the reasons I am not homophobic). However, in general, if you are a man in Bulgaria, to have wealth, muscles, character, you may still encounter problems finding a woman.

   Hey dude, don't film her. Do you know how many boys your age are in the same situation. At 21, I was like you. Not to mention that many of the boys in those years make up different stories, just so it doesn't turn out that they haven't seen a woman, they even believe in each other. For example, I will give you an acquaintance of mine, who until those years was absolutely a virgin, but is the type of boys to whom girls should stick - with a lot of money, with self-confidence, smeared in the mouth and without a drop of shame. However, the man did not have a girlfriend, when he first touched a woman, half the world understood him, because he was literally in something like hypnosis. Now about women, the most important thing, I think, is to have self-confidence and not look desperate. Behave normally, don't be stiff and don't pretend to be a circus performer to make her laugh or anything like that. You just have to calm down and see how things start to fall into place. Well, you'll be disappointed a number of times, but everyone has experienced it.