Hi, I'm a 21-year-old girl, I'm not in a relationship right now, but for four years, a man in his 50s. he keeps hitting on me and he wants us to be intimate... he doesn't sleep with his wife, he says, and I trust him because I know his wife, and I know she's overseas... I just feel sorry for him, that he's been in the dry for so many years when we talk and ask him... if he gets excited says no, we should be together, my question is? A man in his 50s, since he doesn't have an erection, like my girlfriends I've been with... I've never been older than 23, is he capable of having intercourse... or here his desire is greater than the possibilities.... waiting for normal answers... I'm not familiar... with male sexuality.
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sgd22000 answered · June 25, 2020
To. He's capable of having intercourse and - yes - probably has a normal erection :)
On the other hand - sleeping with someone because you feel sorry for them - is hardly a prerequisite for satisfying sex.
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hereticchrist answered · June 25, 2020
The very fact that you're wondering if letting a 50-year-old married man go makes me feel bad. Not to mention that in this case, the only thing stopping you from doing it is your uncertainty about whether it fits. That is, if you know there's no problem with your erection, you're going to jump on him like a lollipop kid.
I hope one day he doesn't come across a woman like you. And no - just because he's 50 doesn't mean he doesn't fit, even if he's not. I don't know where these clichés come from that men over 50 can't pick it up. I know those who are more active than even my sets.
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anaastasia_ answered · June 25, 2020
Why do you think a man in his 50s doesn't have an erection? 50 is not 80 years old.
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leeyam14 answered · June 26, 2020
Did you seriously fall for the words of a 50-year-old artful liar? My father also had a mistress your age, and he lied to her in the same way that he didn't sleep with my mother and that kind of nonsense. Alas, every time he comes to Bulgaria he smites her hard, it's just that the man has decided to spin two (and probably a lot more) women at the same time, and what's easier than fooling a 20-year-old?
You're very naïve, honey, pull yourself together.
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fit_storm answered · June 26, 2020
I don't think he was dry, and he should have handled it. He's not wondering, he's knocking on it. It'il be an attempt for you, and you might have a financial benefit.
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bipolarhottie answered · June 27, 2020
Why would you want to sleep with a man your father's age?
Otherwise, to your question, if a man in his 50s. can perform intercourse, especially with a babe twice younger than him.... you just give him a chance and you'il see what he's talking about.
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avaartemisia answered · June 27, 2020
I can't believe it!!!
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bbwmollybaby answered · June 28, 2020
The story is this : You've been looking for him for four years, but you don't have the guts to be with him because he's so much older than you.
What are these movies about him hitting you for four years just to "sleep" with you? It doesn't matter if he's in his 20s, 30s, 40s or 50s, if a man gets sex, he's going to get it, not wait years.
His wife may be overseas, but there are a lot of other women, don't think he's resorted to you.
Any man over 40 will gladly "eat" little lambs without prejudice.
A man can be sweaty at 70, it depends on an organism and a gene.
You're going to have sex with him, is that serious? "I'm not going to be
Why don't you admit that you want to, and you're the main initiator for your contact?
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gal123456789 answered · June 28, 2020
I don't understand the question - you want to be intimate with a man who can be your father, you're afraid he won't be able to satisfy you, you're going to do some kind of charitable role, or you just want to try something different?
She answers these questions herself, and male sexuality set her aside, and for men and women, sexuality is an individual that is influenced not only by age, but by many other factors.
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guesss3211 answered · June 28, 2020
Not much... And yes, old people are the most brazen and most complex. When they stick, there's no getting rid of it. And the pity of whether is*is the obituary or not, don't you feel sorry for you, too, that it can turn out to be unbearably disgusting? Also, because of some pathetic granddaughter, the old men believe and live and brazenly cling to others like they're 25-year-old bodybuilders, and after you pull them green with malice?
Another one, 21, and her friends chased by brazen, mean, old men.
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t902 answered · June 29, 2020
This 50-year-old wants you, don't let some old man take you down, so he could be your father by years. He's looking for someone up to my age or under your age of 19-26. I'm 25, i'm turning 25 on Monday. And it's not normal for some nerdy guy to hit you down- not to say down, he's got a wife, let him go to her.
My advice is that you're going to be out of your way, that it's going to start to get you inshamed.
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sheila_makano answered · June 30, 2020
That's why they invented the Magic Pill, the author ;)
Go to the beach and look at the bodies of 50-year-old uncles... you'il be through and pity and everything.
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jmcutecock25 answered · June 30, 2020
Why would he be 50?
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cortnylade answered · June 30, 2020
I'm not number 18, but I'il answer number 21.
Well, how could he not be a freak? And no, he's not tempted because he's 50 years old, but because a 50-year-old man (be it a man or a woman) doesn't have to deal with a man the author's age (be it a girl or a boy). In my opinion, this is pure paedophilia, albeit legalised.
And it's also quite pathetic, and even downright criparic for four years to take on someone or someone - it's normal to be defined as a nerd, no matter how old you are.
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brownroundgoldie answered · July 01, 2020
To #23... If you've been courting someone for four years, you've got feelings after all. At the age of 21, a man is now an adult. Who doesn't feel that way- just a pity for him. I'm interested in how you'd feel if you had to answer that question when you're 50...