I got stuck with some women muttering against the men. One of them said: Look here is not the place for personal dramas. It wasn't true. But here it is. I had two serious relationships. Both ended in the same way. At the first one I would get married. But 18 days before the wedding and the day before we sent the invitations, she gave up, she thought. Whatever I was saying made sense. She still didn't care that she was the one who wanted a wedding before. He really changed his mind overnight. She loved me, but she didn't want to be with me. Reason, because so. The second one looked like a very good girl, quietly, modestly, diligently listening to me carefully, not arguing. She had come from another city, she wanted a new beginning. We lived together. Dream woman. He had a well-paid job and a loyal friend by his side. But he interfered with alcohol, quit his job, radically changed turned against my family and had to leave home. I was extremely disappointed with the women. Now I'm thinking, I don't know exactly when. And most of all, I don't think I can meet anyone on my own. My job takes up 90% of the time. It doesn't work with websites, there are no agencies in my city. I will try an experiment whatever happens. It will start with an advertisement posted on poles and noticeable things near the student dormitories. Which states that a woman under 30 is looking for a part-time housework. Since I expect to see this ad of 2,000 people, I think at least one will call. After he called. We will find out where to meet and start an interview. Considering that the woman meets some minimum conditions. We will understand when to come. When she comes, I'll show her how my day off goes. I'll order her to make breakfast, I will offer her help. I will urge her to sit down to eat with us. We will go shopping. We will come back and order her to make coffee / cocoa and I will insist that she sit with us to drink it. I will tell her that the working hours are over. And I can take her or stay for dinner. If she decides to leave, I will give her BGN 10 and take her. Leaving her, I will ask her, if she has performed well, to look for her more. If yes. Probably next week, given that there are no others willing to be interviewed. When it's my turn, I'll call her. And we will understand. This time we will get along in the evening. With the option to sleep in the guest room. Because I will need it for the next day. In case of refusal. I'll tell her that today I only have an hour to do dinner and eat. So you can win easily or leave. He must know from the beginning that he will win a reward for a certain behavior. In case he agrees and stays the next day for dinner. She will be offered to stay longer. Every day he is with me and performs, he will receive a reward. It is worth noting that she will probably be a hard-working student who has expenses for food and accommodation. Let's just say she stayed home for a week and I don't have a problem with her. I'll offer her out. The next day again. And so at some point we will relax it will come to a kiss. Then I will offer her my room. It definitely has more amenities. But he will give something else. Because he is a human being and there is always a conflict between two people. If something gets stuck - he will meet verbal resistance. Then verbal aggression - raising your voice, clenching your teeth, threats, withdrawal, failure to receive finances, until come next. Thus, an average intellectual girl will understand how to behave. Because he will get positive and negative relationships, I think it will lead to an intertwining of fear and love. One of the rewards if she is a student will be to pay her semester fees. I will not stop her from developing, I will even help her. Let's say she's good, she wants more money from me - I'll tell her no. But if it is really urgent, they will be given as an advance. I will take care of her. But limited. What she can do alone will not be done for her. Let's say he asked for an outside job. I'll help her find it. But when he starts his work. My attitude towards her will change. I will continue to give her money. I won't want her. I will take into account that she is tired and so on, I will help her more. Let's say that one year, behaves decently. He will gain trust and I can think of a child. In general, because I am prejudiced against women. I do not expect it to seek development. Like studying hard or working externally. That's why I will be mentoring. If she still tries to develop, she will earn my respect and my attitude towards her will be different. I really want it, but I don't hope for 1 year, except for trust, to earn respect and to accept it as equal.
You are a psychopath!
What a fool you are, as we say in Vratsa. I have no words. Blackmailing a woman you want to take as a partner? Jen
Without offending me, but no self-respecting woman will agree. This is not an attitude towards a man, but towards a dog - how a girl should behave, what reward she will receive if she behaves well ... It is good that you have criteria for a woman, but this is not the way to find a suitable one. Black Sabbath
If you mix fear and love in a relationship, write it doomed. Fear must not exist in it in one way or another. Love and fear are mutually exclusive!
Number 1. Nowhere in the ad is it stated who is looking for such a girl. Only phone is specified. In fact, many people write that they are looking for a housekeeper, maybe you are right that I should write a housekeeper instead of housework. Thanks for your attention. No one will work for BGN 10. But it is specified that it is hourly. For BGN 3 per hour there will be people to wind up. But these 3 hours will drag on in a strange way, more time. And a little money is something extra. Besides, you don't see the whole picture. Who is attracted? Dormitory girl. That is, until now this girl had to pay rent for almost no amenities, she had to pay for food. And they hardly left any money. That is, an average normal poor girl. He will see that he will no longer have to pay for food and accommodation. And that's a reason to get caught up with someone who can provide it. It has already happened, but it failed to meet expectations. Plus I'm adding cash to it. Not only will they roll, but I will choose. Number 2 and 3 What to do as normal did not remain. And I don't want to be a bastard. But that's all they understand. Do they feel a little secure and try to make the most of it. And let them do nothing. That's how they were taught. That separated me from a supposedly excellent girl. So I just have to be a bastard to have at least some peace of mind.
I would describe such a connection with the following two words - human tragedy. If it was a fairy tale, you would be the villain who dies in the end.
This sounds like a plan to seduce prostitution. Except that the client will be one and you expect service. In reality, you may find a fallen girl who, out of want and naivety, and probably fear later, will become entangled in this perverted scheme. I don't know how to imagine something good that would make you happy, get out of the whole thing. I personally shivered at you. Everyone has suffered in one way or another from the opposite sex, but what you have reached is a new level of perversion.
Author, it is the poor girls who are most mercantile in providing goods that they did not have. Don't forget anything else - a handsome man will buy them in restaurants, buy clothes, rest, etc., without making them clean. So what do you think?
Number 5. When love mixes with fear. There are too many options. But I'm interested. Let's see how far it will go. I think I have that time. I just hope it doesn't take years. The previous girl had a problem with alcohol, which I found out later. Subsequently, the thirst for alcohol increased and we finished. However, the conditions were not exactly like the one I am thinking of applying. Number 7 good comparison - well done. Number 8 everything is voluntary, she can stop things when she decides. Another question is whether he can. The previous one had to be forced out.
Number 9. I thought about it. Above your comment. But you are not the first to say it. That's why I invented protection. As tracking. I'm not doing something that hasn't been done. My cousin is in a similar version. But they don't give her money. And quite a few women are hosts. It's hard for me to look away. The plan is to point out a completely different reason to bring the girl and gradually entangle her like a spider. But I have an inner feeling. Not that I won't succeed. And that once I win, I'll probably end up in a situation I haven't been to at some point. It turns out that I pay to play with my family. At some point, this may spiral out of control. I do not worry. That I will make things happen. I can look like a very dumb psychopath. But I'm really smart and manipulative. I'm worried that the person in front of me may be much more cunning to sleep my attention. And then to make me suffer. I still don't know how. Otherwise I would have provided protection. It happened to many of my friends. As long as she is open, it is almost impossible to harm me. But if it's hidden, it can make me think I have no words. The first was like that and I felt dizzy. But I missed it a little. Despite the fear that manifests itself through neuroticism. Will try. Let's just say I agree not to. What else can I do? I can say that I have tried almost everything and it does not work. It's just that people are such that they don't understand well. I think they would only know from training. And yes people are subject to such. As long as the trained one doesn't turn out to be me. that I have no words. The first one was like that and I felt very dizzy. But I missed it a little. Despite the fear that manifests itself through neuroticism. Will try. Let's just say I agree not to. What else can I do? I can say that I have tried almost everything and it does not work. It's just that people are such that they don't understand well. I think they would only know from training. And yes people are subject to such. As long as the trained person doesn't turn out to be me. that I have no words. The first one was like that and I felt very dizzy. But I missed it a little. Despite the fear that manifests itself through neuroticism. Will try. Let's just say I agree not to. What else can I do? I can say that I have tried almost everything and it does not work. It's just that people are such that they don't understand well. I think they would only know from training. And yes people are subject to such. As long as the trained one doesn't turn out to be me.
Have you heard of personality disorders? Congratulations, you have one. Antisocial or narcissistic, it's hard to guess. Go to a psychologist or psychiatrist for a diagnosis, unless you want to end up in jail. That's where you're headed. I'll tell you what happens. They will respond to your ad, but when they find out that you lied to them and not only did you not pay them BGN 2,000 (unpaid salary and tax evasion) but also pressed them for sex (sexual harassment), you will get at least a complaint to the police, but they may try you. You have mental problems, I know you consider yourself normal, everyone thinks they are, but you are not. You are a terrible creepster, no woman will tolerate you for long. Are you really wondering why your girlfriend dumped you without explanation? Do you know what kind of people dump them like that before the wedding? They explained it to you above.
You thought of it well, act. On an evil pear-evil rod!
You have a lot of self-confidence, but you did not indicate on what basis. No matter what you are, you have no reason to think of something higher just because you are not. Swallow that fact. Everyone has a place under the Sun, and just because you (eventually) have money doesn't mean you'll have it tomorrow, for example, does it? Besides, you can't buy the most "expensive" things with your papers. (Love, support, loyalty, understanding, family, etc.) If you think that everyone is looking at the rich, you are very, very, very far from the truth. About your plan - it won't work because ... um, I can list at least 10 reasons, but I don't care. For your own good - come down to Earth. ж21
A screenplay for a psychothriller, it needs to be processed professionally and will become a good tram for a movie like "The Enemy in My Bed" ...
Author, it is obvious that you have no idea about today's students. And I have three. Who have many girlfriends coming to visit the girls. And you have no idea what money the beautiful girls of today wear, what phones they have, what expensive restaurants and discos they visit, and what cars they drive. With your three leva per hour, and 10 leva bonus for a job well done, you will only make them burst into laughter, and tell jokes about it until the end of their studies. But you can also try, I see that you are quite curled up , at least you will face the harsh reality.
Author, you have not tried well, if you had tried they would not have run away from you. You probably think so, but you're really throwing away some crumbs. You lack a palette of human emotions, you clear a lot of life. Unfortunately, I can't explain to you what normal human relationships are in a post. But women see that you are manipulating them and that you are a selfish person who thinks only of himself and reacts accordingly. I don't know what you mean by not being stupid. You may actually have a high IQ and be Einstein, you may not be, I don't know you, in this case it doesn't matter. But manipulativeness to this degree is inherent in people with the emotional intelligence of a 5-year-old. It's infantilism that shows social idiocy, do you understand me? Nobody thinks you're smart because of that, and you're not because you've taken brisk steps to the band. Otherwise, you yourself are very interesting as a pathology, but I would not look at you live at all. My scientific curiosity is no stronger than my instinct for self-preservation. You don't know how much better we live as people who are mature and don't have to manipulate others. According to Sam Wanklin, 90% of your energy goes into this thing, or it could be otherwise (he's like you, find it on youtube). You spend a lot of energy on this. Why don't you seek help after all? I understand you don't care about the lives you're going to ruin, but at least you care about yourself. You will end very badly, think about it. There are therapies with psychologists who can help you! who are mature and do not have to manipulate others. According to Sam Wanklin, 90% of your energy goes into this thing, or it could be otherwise (he's like you, find it on youtube). You spend a lot of energy on this. Why don't you seek help after all? I understand you don't care about the lives you're going to ruin, but at least you care about yourself. You will end very badly, think about it. There are therapies with psychologists who can help you! who are mature and do not have to manipulate others. According to Sam Wanklin, 90% of your energy goes into this thing, or it could be otherwise (he's like you, find it on youtube). You spend a lot of energy on this. Why don't you seek help after all? I understand you don't care about the lives you're going to ruin, but at least you care about yourself. You will end very badly, think about it. There are therapies with psychologists who can help you!
Author, how do you expect to be a bastard and have a good relationship? In that case, I would leave. There are normal girls, but you obviously don't have eyes for them, and every relationship has its problems. What does "training" mean? You treat like a dog, and you expect miracles. Well, it won't happen. Black Sabbath
50 shades of gray in a Bulgarian comic version. For BGN 3 per hour, you will not deceive a cool, modest, studying and hard-working chick, but a pensioner. At most one of the neighborhoods to rob your house with your brothers. If you pretend to be open to them, you will most likely end up in the emergency department. Either you're very ugly or you're very attached to women, or both, when you have to come up with such a crazy scenario to find a girl. Except you're not quite right with your head. Today, poorer students have the opportunity to work abroad in brigades (where they will earn more than you offer), to study in the West with scholarships, there are countries where higher education is free - Denmark, Norway, Ireland, Sweden, Austrian public universities, and there is always the opportunity to work, without having to become addicted to some tanned lunatic. John Lennon has a thought, "Life is what happens to us as we make plans." So do you - while pretending to be very smart, making scenarios on how to trick a more naive fly and waiting to settle with a woman, your years fly by and you will finally be left alone. "Generally because I'm prejudiced against women." Well, try men then. Maybe you will have more success with them.
This is the only meaningful thing on this site. Well done man. I think it's also good to cheat on friends who think and act the same way. This way you will 'go out with friends', but these friends will throw the same things at her as you did during the training. If there are any girlfriends, it is best to replace them with your friends. If there are parents or relatives with any influence, they should also be eliminated. The must-have for a hidden camera at home I guess you know. The phone also needs to be controlled, there are many options. The whole idea and the execution itself really looks psychopathic, but if done in a subtle way, it remains invisible. Even if done masterfully, the object of training remains with the impression, not that things change at his expense somehow insidiously, but on the contrary, the object develops, improves in many things and really should be happy and happy. You just have to believe in yourself at least - the object. I can be one of your friends too. Uncle Dobrich
Author, you do not expect breakthroughs in your plan and that is your mistake. If people were so stupid, there would be millions of situations like yours. But you realize without a bartender. I had one like you at the time - she had sex with me and thought that if my self-esteem collapsed she could train me. However, years have passed, he is alone and I am not. And he knows that. In the end, it turned out that he fucked himself. There is no woman who wants it. Fearing they might hurt him, he hurts the women and verbally insults them, but who will hang a millstone around their neck? At one point, everyone sees the manipulator. Whether we are men or women, we need love and tenderness. Manipulators end up alone because their pattern of communication repulses the other.
"The previous girl had a problem with alcohol, which I found out later. Subsequently, the thirst for alcohol increased and we ended." Luckily she was with you, she would have been. It is a known fact that people get drunk when they are happy ...
You can't make someone love you. This is, to put it mildly, a strange story with many possibilities for failure. Don't even try.
By this point, I realized I was a vile, stupid psychopath freak. I accept that I am. I did not understand what exactly you are against? 1.) Posting an ad that I am looking for a housekeeper on an hourly basis. 2.) That before I bring her home I want to talk to her and find out who she is. 3.) When she comes I will ask her to help me make mekis for example. 4.) I will invite her to have breakfast with me. 5.) Will accompany me to shopping. 6.) It will help me tidy up the fridge. 7.) Will start the vacuum cleaner. 8.) I'll suggest we have coffee before she leaves. (That is, it is not required). 9.) If you stay for coffee. I'll offer her dinner too. That is, after the vacuum cleaner, she is my guest (maybe the choice of my guest will irritate you). I'm such a mean freak psychopath.
After 1 year, if she had behaved well, he would have accepted her as an equal. Is this topic made up or what? Author, if you're real, you're wrong. People are equal by birth. It is enshrined in the Constitution of the Republic of Bulgaria. Open Parliament's website and read carefully! The Penal Code is also not bad to read. And the advice to visit a psychiatrist before you end up in prison is the best so far.
Well, at least he realized :) Now let's seek professional help!
Author, why in comment № 24 do you so conveniently miss fear, manipulation, training, verbal aggression? But the previous comments remain. People read and see. You are still looking for paid (bought, extorted) love, why don't you pay a prostitute and that's it?
Author, we have already told you why. Go back to your story and comments and read them again. Rewarding in a certain behavior, intertwining fear with love, training, manipulation ... Is it a little? It's not even a relationship, it sounds like a working relationship, plus a little more special privileges. Black Sabbath
Number 20. I want to know you. I will definitely enjoy talking. But how to do it when the site is anonymous?
Fact, you're a psychopath. You plan to exercise emotional, mental, sexual, physical, and financial control over another person and try to present them as if you were doing them a favor. Well, there is no way the number can pass.
Complete lunatic, treat yourself.
№ 20 -Come on, another psychopath. The itchy donkeys always smell.
Author, turn on the vacuum cleaner, run 'I want to break free' and start cleaning. Because here we laugh at your pathology, but it must be unclean in you.
№ 24 - Author, continue the points of the plan, de! Starting from 3 BGN / hour, rewards, manipulation, training, fear, staying in your room, sponsorship against service, that eventually a possible child and / if after the tests you became equal. This is exactly the clinically most interesting part. And the one that brought you the most criticism here. There are many breakthroughs in your plan. I will tell you only one - if the girl falls in love with another, normal man and tells him about your performances. It is quite possible that the story will end again with a visit to the emergency room. .
Abe you laugh, but I had such an ex. However, he did not tell me directly that he intended to manipulate me, control me and generally have the right to an opinion only if he allowed me. Seeing that this was the case and that there was no intention of changing, I broke with him. After a year or two, I found out that he had a new girlfriend and that he had even physically abused her. Then he was certified, it turned out that he had schizophrenia. Now, as I read this story, my skin bristled.
Number 24 Usually people start from point 8 in your plan because the first 7 are a little scary. And how will you know that the woman is free? Will you ask her at the "interview"? What if you don't like what it looks like, you won't hire her because she's not qualified enough? If you want everything to go according to plan, you make two or three similar plans with several points, preferably more normal. You expect a beautiful young woman without a friend to see a dubious ad, to call you, to work for you almost for no money, to endure the strange demands of your job without realizing your intentions and after learning about them to fall in love with you. I think point 2 will fail your plan.
Number 30. Control must be exercised. Because there is simply no other way. I know from personal experience what I have not done. By behaving well on the other side, I will make the most of it and when I squeeze you to the hole I will dump you. I am glad that you are advanced, now give me everything so far, play my whistle, I will do what I want as long as I want. Namely, I did everything for a person who looks modest and good to get on his feet, but she did everything to fuck my life. Finally, Propi turned physically against my closest ones. And I had a choice to end the relationship or put up with it. Well, you normal people can't stand this. And it's not true number 17 that I wasn't good. I was the girls were free I did not control them. But that was the mistake. They both made the most of me. You're talking about equality here - you're funny. Enough with these stories. The only way is complete control. And don't worry it will happen. No thanks, I don't mean to leave my life here to a stranger. To give her everything and crush me in the end. Nothing that refused to do so makes me a psychopath. And you normal people do it, be naive. I wish you all the best. I hope we are not in the same cell in the end. And don't worry, things will happen. Only number 20 feels this. I have to play the cards well, unfortunately I only have a vague idea of how to do it. Nothing to learn. I'm analyzing. And don't worry, things will happen. Only number 20 feels this. I have to play the cards well, unfortunately I only have a vague idea of how to do it. Nothing to learn. I'm analyzing. And don't worry, things will happen. Only number 20 feels this. I have to play the cards well, unfortunately I only have a vague idea of how to do it. Nothing to learn. I'm analyzing.
I'm number 20. Unfortunately, the author is on the right track. And this is the ugly truth. Yes, there are exceptions, but as you know, exceptions just confirm the rules. Life is very dirty and if you want to have a wonderful and clean relationship, then turn your back on everything worldly and enter a monastery - there live in peace with the world and yourself for 99 years. No, I'm not kidding, go to the nearest monastery and see the graves of the monks and nuns, you can take out or not ... year of birth - year of death. Ohhh sorry you are eternal, why do I bother you with vulgar and psychopathic topics. Hey babies, a lot of kavali are still waiting for you to blow them. It is better to read the opinion in more detail. Are you a sheep? Well then go with the herd.
a comma is placed before "that". and yes, your plan is great, it would work in a robot world, but not in this one.
I liked how she believed that when the girl came in the morning to make mekis for breakfast, he would keep her busy all day with nonsense running around and fulfilling his orders, and finally as a reward he would make her cook dinner and if you understand, she didn't stay to eat with them, he would pay her BGN 10 for the whole lost day and impress her ...
I couldn't understand much of your confused writings, but the little I did understand is, to put it mildly, psychic. Don't just joke with people like that. You become neither a relationship nor any human relationship. You do not deserve a woman next to you and no normal person will undergo such a thing.
Well, dude, let's start with the fact that everything in life has a price ... And this price, no matter how much you don't like it, is not always in money ... As a general rule - there are things that a person you have to do them yourself (to learn to communicate with people, to learn to love, to fall in love, etc.), and which no one else can do for you instead of you .. These are exactly the things you can't buy with money. So to the question: To have a relationship, family, environment, etc. you have to invest some resources in terms of time, attention, communication, immersion if you will. These are all things that no one can do for you, nor can you buy them in any way ... With 90% of the time employment, to be honest, I don't see how this could happen ... Even now to have a family and children, this time is not enough even to take them and pick them up from school, plus the obligatory 1-2 hours of communication a day with them (and notice - for housework, shopping, guests, cinema / theater with your partner, hobbies, fitness, some social life etc. we do not open a word at all ...). So since you are not ready to invest this resource, respectively, you can not have these things, nor can you buy them. You, in your mind, are trying to "hack" the system in some way, bypass the "payment" and take only the "reward", just like those who are looking for a "nice man / woman for casual sex" - give nothing of not to invest ourselves (or possibly a little money to invest), but to finally get the best and highest quality! Well, it doesn't work! And you will sit, and you will smoke, how can people with much less mind, abilities and money from yours to have nice families and many children, and you stand with your finger in your mouth, and you wonder why no one "bites" on your fishing rods with BGN 10 per day and other similar nonsense that you have invented .. Well, people may not have a lot of money, but they have invested other things that you don't understand. "Intelligence - this is the ability to adapt!" said Stephen Hawking. And if something in your life doesn't happen the way you want, then you didn't do it the right way (and to always justify yourself with the lack of luck is funny ...).
Are you and ... aren't you ?! And if the woman is married or has a serious friend and possibly children and is there not because of your highest person, but simply because she needs work and money to pay her bills? Have you thought about that? Can you imagine what a humiliation it would be for a mother who works to feed this child? Don't think about it, right? People are right and if you find a woman who will initially agree, think that you will not see her more than once, the moment you understand what nonsense it is! With such an attitude, friend, you will be left alone for a long time and at most you will get the name of a freak.
Yes, you need control. It remains to find a balak who voluntarily wants to control it.
Look, dude, you make good plans, but you miss some things. For example, that you are extremely transparent and even some covered girl will remember your intentions. Second, you miss the fact that the girl may be engaged and have problems with her boyfriend / husband, and if you ask if she is engaged in the first interview, they will immediately reveal you. 3rd, the payment of BGN 3 / hour is more like a mockery, the very fact that you expect a girl to serve you for BGN 10 betrays your total inadequacy in general. Some psychopaths manage to tie a woman to themselves, but they don't do it that way, they manage to hide well in the beginning and show their better version, but obviously you can't do that. I would advise you to buy a bride, there are markets where certain ethnic groups in Bulgaria make alash-verisha, you prepare an amount of 10-20 thousand and you just furnish yourself. I see no other way for you.
People, these are the men they write about on Watpad, I didn't know they existed, I'm amazed at the toxic masculinity that this topic is full of, this man, how far will he get with this hellish plan, and I don't know, but follow with interest to find out!
Author, don't treat others the way you don't want them to treat you and know that you can be a controller, but find yourself a hidden controller and she can turn things around in her favor so that you don't even feel it.
Author, control must be exercised - in a society, control over sociopaths like you must be exercised so as not to harm others.
Author, like your peers, you think you are very intelligent. You confuse the lack of scruples with intelligence. You are so convinced that it will work - so you can't fool people online like you are, live? And with prolonged contact? Go get treated!
That conspiracy! If it wasn't sad, it would be funny.
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You are a hook. No normal woman will respond to your ad. A man is looking for a young girl for housework ... sounds perverted. And your plan is perverted. No one will tolerate your arrangements and work for you for BGN 10 first, even if you make her listen.