My Ex Took Pictures Of Me While ... Now He's Harassing Me!

A police complaint about blackmail, but it's mandatory with your parents.

As big as you and with a little more experience, if I were you, I'd tell the boy to do what he wants and not bother me with his nonsense. To show fear and worry would be a big mistake. If I were you, I'd tell him that I would immediately write a post about how he blackmail me with pictures he had done without my permission. And I would, because everyone is aware that you were in a long relationship. With great pleasure I would tell everyone exactly who this scumbag is, who violates moral norms and blackmail girls. I would warn my parents, however embarrassing it might be to be told. Better to know than you do tomorrow to see some pictures without being aware of the story. As big as you, I wouldn't be ashamed to have slept with someone I've been in a relationship with for two years and I've loved. I wouldn't be ashamed that he was filming me without my permission. I wouldn't be ashamed to get ahead of the circumstances and put it in his place because he could blackmail others. Such as him are not very mature, do not have enough brains in his head. Blackmail you if you slept for one night. You had a relationship, and it was a long way, and everyone was clear about what you were doing, because everyone would do the same in your place. In general, he did not act at the time, just blackmail you. It is very possible and nothing to do, by the way. So if you pass a signal, they're not going to pay attention. In case he uploads the photos, you can report them. So far, with your rights, I suppose you're aware of that. There were whole pages that for years functioned and uploaded similar materials, and there many people signalled and fought. It's pointless. There's always someone who can beat him, but neither is a solution nor a way.

And don't you say my age is clear, 14-15-16, I hope you're not smaller. Nobody makes you go to bed with your first boyfriend. Show your parents ' pictures, and go to the police. There's nothing else to do, I know you're ashamed but, everything is going through, neither are you the first nor will you be the last to be able men.. Downed Angel

I don't think he can upload them just because Instagram and Facebook do not allow such pictures and will immediately remove it

Go to his parents and what he does. They've been replaced by a secret and you can go to the police. He's going to get the ex.

To number 2-it depends who beats him and how he beats him. If he gets a proper bouncer, he's going to have to take pills and meds to forget about the girl.

Well, the device and the upload, that's normal stuff in the relationship, and it wasn't one night, right, and he's attending, he wouldn't have gotten himself anywhere... Say it bothers you and it will stop...

You go with your parents to the police and so!

Number 4. He can send them to other people and from there to spread even if they have uploaded them to Insta or Facebook if they are for 5min and see them, 50 people, where they can take a screenshot. The situation is quite unpleasant. You can turn to your parents and figure out a solution to the problem together.

All fear comes from the fact that your mother and father can understand. If they have no problem and accept what happened... That you have sex life already, you can safely laugh at him and do what others advise you-to complain to the police.

I had the same problem some time ago. With the difference that mine were uploaded to social networks. It wasn't threats that were in front of the house. As hard as it was for me, I sat down with my mom and explained everything. Then we dropped a complaint with the police. Of course, things just got a little more serious because they were screaming for questioning and still continuing with the threats. But the I called of the inspector who led the case explained to him. And then the drama was over. And the pictures were erased. I suggest you do the same thing.

If the photos were taken when you were 14-BOOM! The man is waiting for him for 10 years of unhappy age in jail and a crappy life afterwards if he doesn't kill himself in the meantime. Practical, easy and effective!

Number 10 I don't think the problem is that parents will understand. And that the picture will be all over the internet and that everyone will know. In most cases, that's the problem. And everyone knows that if one thing comes up on the internet it will be there for ever, even if you delete there is always a way to see. I have a question for the author: What do you see in the picture? Do you see your face?

Well, you didn't write to blackmail you. What does he want? What does it say? If I don't blackmail you, block it. If you put them on Facebook, they can see your girlfriends, but there's no way if they don't have it in friends if that's what you're afraid of. You can also block it from Instant Messenger and Facebook, so you can't be touched. Someone may not recognize you.

The only right thing to do is to tell your own everything, and from there they decide what measures to take against the man whether to file a complaint against him or to go to his parents to show them what their son is doing and put him in order. Yes, they can punish you, but there's no other choice.