I am a woman of 24. I'm just thinking these days and I don't know if I'm not well or everyone else is crazy I want to ask, DO I HAVE to let every man go, given that I don't have a boyfriend ??? So I have noticed this here for the last 3 years, the situation has become unbearable. I don't have a boyfriend and it's my own choice. Almost like I don't let anyone take me down, I'm crazy, abnormal, mentally ill, freak, congested, frigid, asexual, etc. I've been abroad for a while and I've been taken down by some gypsies (nothing personal against gypsies, just I don't like it) and there are all kinds of sediments and when I refuse, they ask me if I'm not sick with AIDS, or maybe I'm a lesbian? And I don't know how to explain to them that I can have a lot of sex, but when I don't see a suitable person, I just squeeze. Is that so weird? Apparently it's not only weird, it's paranormal. Recently, an elderly woman tried to "match" me with her brother, who had come for 2 days, married with children and not a good appearance. When I say "matchmaker", it is clear that it is only about sex, given that the man is married and is only here for 2 days. I didn't like him, nor would I think of having sex with him, and she asked me, "How old are you?" And how can I not think? !! Now some guy was taking me down again, in fact it provoked me to vent my anger here. He didn't take me down and now I listen to what they say about me - I wasn't in class, I'm asexual, kindergarten. I don't even think that I might not like him, or the way he takes me down - in me the problem is obligatory. He made me drink zorlyan twice and now I am obliged to "repay" him. Is this how normal things happen in your world? Because I seem to come from another. In my world, desire comes from both sides and things don't happen from the door to the feet. But yes, that makes me frigid. A friend told me her secret. When you don't want to be offered, to be teased, you just say you have a friend and a point. Yeah clear, so I have to lie. This is against my principles and I never lie that I have a friend when I don't. You look kind of immature to me. But maybe it would be a good idea. After every date with someone, he must ask and when I do not give him an end - there is no such thing as a friendly relationship, going out just for fun - it all ends there. My desire to go out and socialize has already died. I prefer to stay alone. So besides being asexual, let them call me antisocial. I just can't fit into this world.
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What do you care! It's the same with me, but I'm not impressed. Now one recently made me frigid for the same reason, but if you know how much I care. I went out with him, but I didn't like the way he behaved, and I think that since something won't happen, it just doesn't make sense. The reason they insult you is because it's hard for them to admit that you don't like them, so they start insulting you in any way to save their hurt ego. Because if they don't offend you, they have to look at themselves and wonder what's wrong with them, or they just have to admit that they can't have every woman they want. So, what do you care about them. And forget about friendships - they take it as an insult if you want to be friends and you don't want to have anything more to do with them. That is, a blow to the ego again. And if you don't want to have a friend, you better not go on dates, because the very idea that you are walking says that you are looking for something. You better not unwind them, because they still go out to find one, and if that was the case with you, no problem. But to go out with someone who is clear to you that he is looking for a wife or sex, and you push his numbers with friendship - is not possible. When I don't want a relationship, I don't date men. There is no point in fooling them or doing it to caress your self-confidence, how much you are wanted.