I am a woman of 24. I'm just thinking these days and I don't know if I'm not well or everyone else is crazy I want to ask, DO I HAVE to let every man go, given that I don't have a boyfriend ??? So I have noticed this here for the last 3 years, the situation has become unbearable. I don't have a boyfriend and it's my own choice. Almost like I don't let anyone take me down, I'm crazy, abnormal, mentally ill, freak, congested, frigid, asexual, etc. I've been abroad for a while and I've been taken down by some gypsies (nothing personal against gypsies, just I don't like it) and there are all kinds of sediments and when I refuse, they ask me if I'm not sick with AIDS, or maybe I'm a lesbian? And I don't know how to explain to them that I can have a lot of sex, but when I don't see a suitable person, I just squeeze. Is that so weird? Apparently it's not only weird, it's paranormal. Recently, an elderly woman tried to "match" me with her brother, who had come for 2 days, married with children and not a good appearance. When I say "matchmaker", it is clear that it is only about sex, given that the man is married and is only here for 2 days. I didn't like him, nor would I think of having sex with him, and she asked me, "How old are you?" And how can I not think? !! Now some guy was taking me down again, in fact it provoked me to vent my anger here. He didn't take me down and now I listen to what they say about me - I wasn't in class, I'm asexual, kindergarten. I don't even think that I might not like him, or the way he takes me down - in me the problem is obligatory. He made me drink zorlyan twice and now I am obliged to "repay" him. Is this how normal things happen in your world? Because I seem to come from another. In my world, desire comes from both sides and things don't happen from the door to the feet. But yes, that makes me frigid. A friend told me her secret. When you don't want to be offered, to be teased, you just say you have a friend and a point. Yeah clear, so I have to lie. This is against my principles and I never lie that I have a friend when I don't. You look kind of immature to me. But maybe it would be a good idea. After every date with someone, he must ask and when I do not give him an end - there is no such thing as a friendly relationship, going out just for fun - it all ends there. My desire to go out and socialize has already died. I prefer to stay alone. So besides being asexual, let them call me antisocial. I just can't fit into this world.
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What do you care! It's the same with me, but I'm not impressed. Now one recently made me frigid for the same reason, but if you know how much I care. I went out with him, but I didn't like the way he behaved, and I think that since something won't happen, it just doesn't make sense. The reason they insult you is because it's hard for them to admit that you don't like them, so they start insulting you in any way to save their hurt ego. Because if they don't offend you, they have to look at themselves and wonder what's wrong with them, or they just have to admit that they can't have every woman they want. So, what do you care about them. And forget about friendships - they take it as an insult if you want to be friends and you don't want to have anything more to do with them. That is, a blow to the ego again. And if you don't want to have a friend, you better not go on dates, because the very idea that you are walking says that you are looking for something. You better not unwind them, because they still go out to find one, and if that was the case with you, no problem. But to go out with someone who is clear to you that he is looking for a wife or sex, and you push his numbers with friendship - is not possible. When I don't want a relationship, I don't date men. There is no point in fooling them or doing it to caress your self-confidence, how much you are wanted.
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Chick, I'm a man and I'll tell you exactly what I think. You're fine, but apparently pishman downloaders don't know how to lose. And he who does not know how to lose with an open heart then cannot win. Everyone has a taste, for example, I don't have to stick and take off every drag, right? Above all, be a person, stand up for yourself, have a position and don't copy the * Urven models around. So one day you will find yourself face to face with the one who will deserve you. I'm so glad there are still women like you. The topic is quite stretchy, but you're on the right track and don't bend in front of overheated lumpens. It is clear to you that even if you let them go, they will immediately dump you, because then they will decide that you are too easy, and these guys are serious, they do not like light women. I wish you all the best and keep going !!!
You are fine Some of the described crazy, what do you have to do with them? Obviously your environment is like that.
You just collect garbage. :)
They deliberately call you that to provoke you to sleep with them, obviously :)
You are not asexual, you are pretentious and there is nothing wrong with that. And when I say that I prefer to hit my cock in front of some ugliness, they make me gay, they say it as a joke, but it still irritates.
That's right, you're right. (A man wrote this)
Welcome to normal! You will recognize us by the published topics with titles such as "I have communication problems!", "Tell me am I crazy?" And "As if I'm not from this century". The behavior of those you mention is normal for people like them - because they are the top, the reason for the failure of the dump must be in you. It's called insolence and high self-esteem - you expect something from others that they are not obliged to do and in case of failure you are never to blame. I'm on the other side of the barricade - I'm a man, 24 years old. They flooded me with stupid questions and still do it when they have the opportunity - things like "Are you going to be a priest?", "Why don't you behave like normal people?" And the unique "Aren't you retired?" ". However, I swallowed the suggestions, that if you don't have casual sex with every woman on your horizon, a candidate for a church minister, abnormal or too old. You can't make others normal, and you're right that lying is not the answer. Why trample on your principles to reassure someone who cannot stand the fact that others are not his slaves and debtors to him from the moment of his birth, and he has the right to demand it when he decides. You have taken the right path. Be brave and keep going! One day, fans of random sex will decrease due to illness and other reasons, and we will have a chance to take our rightful place. We just have to not become like them. who cannot bear the fact that others are not his slaves and are not indebted to him from the moment of his birth, and he has the right to demand it when he decides. You have taken the right path. Be brave and keep going! One day, fans of random sex will decrease due to illness and other reasons, and we will have a chance to take our rightful place. We just have to not become like them. who cannot bear the fact that others are not his slaves and are not indebted to him from the moment of his birth, and he has the right to demand it when he decides. You have taken the right path. Be brave and keep going! One day, fans of random sex will decrease due to illness and other reasons, and we will have a chance to take our rightful place. We just have to not become like them.
You are completely normal! Intimacy is allowed when you like it and you like your partner as long as he likes you. If the other person doesn't like you, you just ignore him and that's right without caring what they tell you!
Never let them draw on you. If you do not intend for more than a company for a cup, pay the bill yourself. Even, pay your own bill, even when you become intimate. Otherwise you leave people with the wrong impression. Grandpa Torbalan
Well, that's what they call "It hurts, it itches"! It's not just clear whether you're bragging or complaining or you don't know what you want. When you want it, do it, when you don't want it, don't do it! What are you going to do for us here?
Your behavior is completely normal, what do you have to do with people who do not attract you? !! And they insult you because they are offended, with a hurt ego, but you don't owe them anything, of course.
It seems to me that you are overexposing the problem, that is, you make it much bigger than it is. Why are you impressed by some complexes? You do not need to give explanations and discuss this issue with anyone at all. When you cut someone off, what do you care about their comments afterwards? Be who you are and listen less to people's stories. And more ... listen to the people here - don't let them get you. This is obligatory.
Darling, you are a completely normal girl. This with dumps and offers of sex will make any woman who has some morals hate her gender. Why don't they whistle at any man? Because 90% of people look at a woman only as a sexual object. They don't care at all how smart you are and what other qualities you have. I would advise you to tell them in your face that you don't care what they think of you. And to the women who call you crazy, if you don't let everyone in, tell them "well, I'm not a whore like you". I tell you from experience - they will be very angry. They just envy you because most women and girls these days are bitches and decent girls are very few and bitches hate them. 1-2 weeks ago I wrote from a fake Skype to a Turk. He, together with a "girlfriend" my friend had come up with a way to get her to meet him without her knowing it was him. She was lied to as a cool young man. He had written to her on Facebook for a long time that he wanted to "stretch her". But I discovered them earlier, when I wrote to him from my fake skype I introduced myself as a prostitute, he immediately told me who she was, I asked him about some things related to girls and he told me that "girls and women are crap "only virgins are reasonable because they have thought little." So the people who insult you know that you are right and they are angry with you. Women hate you because you're not a wreck like them, and men are angry that you don't let them. You know - in many cases, if you don't let someone in, you instantly become a bitch? In the case of my friend, I showed her the history on Skype, she found out what kind of friend the girl in question was and did not go on a date with a Turk. Beware of girlfriends! Good luck and don't be influenced by any pathetic forms of reason. It is guided only by its own brain. * D *
You have nothing. Sex is a pleasure, not a competition and a pile of pieces.
Author: I don't know, but I don't go on dates. Since I've only been traveling and changing cities for 3 years, I need new friends. It's very difficult to find a female friend outside, I don't know why that happens. I only meet men, and obviously these are their interests, but in the end, I'm not a loner and I need to communicate. I'm looking for friends, but that's what I told you. As for Grandpa Torbalan's comment, I realized the mistake - you're right! In principle, I never let them pay me, but with this guy it happened because he insisted a lot, and I didn't have small change both times. But I do not apologize, here I plead guilty.
And why do you travel so much?
Interesting case Now that I'm reading what you wrote, I want to meet you, because you seem like a very decent girl. That you are also my set, but here comes the big BUT if we really meet one day and you turn out to be the dream example of a woman of mine, I would naturally like to have something more than a friendly relationship with you. But here comes the other big BUT. I say it again. I wouldn't ask for sex directly but I would definitely try for some close physical contact, be it a hug, a kiss or some weird attempt to grab your thigh or your cool ass. I want to emphasize that I would never do it in the dirty and vile way, as if you were some cheap blood. Oh, I would forget: You are completely and very well. Safe from whores ready to go to bed with the first one who pays their bill and drives his BMW. But you shouldn't be too arrogant towards us men, because personally I am very annoyed by someone pretending to be my diva and poking her nose in thinking about something more than me. You can always refuse tactfully unless he is too insistent. Sersema